2015 the first 16 weeks 16 facts

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Say 5 things you're proud of. Write on the paper or shout it out or you can. But here's a condition: You can't list what you are (for example, I'm a gentle person, I'm honest) and can only list what you "do" (for example, I've just won the National Chess Championship). If you find it difficult to list five things, this article is written for you.

Column 5 personal pride of things is very difficult, those memories can let themselves moved by the tears of the experience or their own extraordinary play to complete the ordinary people can not complete things really less.

#6: The World cares only what you can give -----------------------------------------

Let's assume that your favorite loved ones were shot in the street. Ta bled out while screaming. A passer-by rushed to say "let it be." He examined the wound carefully and took out a knife to be operated on the street to remove the bullet. He has so many good qualities, why do you hold on to the fact that he will not have surgery? In that crazy situation, you will use your blood-stained hands to shake his shoulder, shouting: "Nonsense!" The good qualities you say are all crap, because in the current situation I just need someone who can stop the bleeding! Get the hell out of Here, you psycho! "So, this is the brutal fact of the 1th adult world that I'm going to say: You're actually in the" current situation "all day. It's just that you're the chatty, good-hearted passer-by, and everyone else in the society is changing into the bleeding victim. If you want to know why society is dismissive of you, or why you are never respected, it is because society is filled with people who "need something". They need people to build houses, they need food, they need entertainment, they need people to satisfy their sexuality. You have been born into a social system that needs to address people's needs. you either choose to learn a certain skill to play a role to meet the needs of others, or choose to be abandoned by society .

#5: You are nothing more than a complex of all your useful skill experiences----------------------------------------------------------

This is a speech by a famous cinema god film Glengarry Glenn Ross Alec Baldwin. Put a lot of pressure on a room salesman and warn them that they're going to get fired unless they can get their hands on the list. Good Man It's none of my business! Fatherly Go to your ma's! Go back to your home and play with your children! If you want to work here, finalize the list for me "very cruel, rude, even a little crazy." However, this is precisely the most honest portrayal of what the community expects of you. The difference is, in the real world, people think that speech is too rude to you impolite, so they simply say nothing to see you fail. This movie fragment changed my life. If I knew how to do it, I'd record it as an alarm. Wake me up every morning. Baldwin also won an Oscar, and this episode is the only scene of his entire movie! As the predecessors have already analyzed, the great thing about this speech is that the average person will understand that "Oh, my God, what would I do with such a bastard boss?" ”。 And the other half will think "too ta, inspirational!" I want to go to work to do business now! Or, one psychologist wrote, "If you were in that room, some of you would understand that it was a job and would absorb energy from that speech, like a team coach would yell at you." You'll think, ' This guy's got a lot of ability. ' Other people would really mind that this boss is a jerk and you have no right to talk to me like that. The article explains why these people find it hard to work, and points out that the two different attitudes-stimulated vs motivated-largely determine whether you can succeed in real life. you are nothing but a complex of all your useful skills. A skill is a useful service that an individual can provide to others in the society. your "responsibility"--the useful service you provide to others--is all you have. That's why surgeons are more respected than comic writers. It is also why mechanic workers are more respected than jobless people. If your death can be on the news, it means your job has become your label. You don't have to like the fact from your heart. I don't like it when it rains on my birthday. but it's still going to rain. People have a need, people will recognize people who can meet their needs. The world is running through such a simple mechanism, and no one can change it .

#4: What you do doesn't have to be money, but it must be beneficial to others------------------------------------------------

"Are you a good man?" It's none of my business! If I want to work here, I'll get my work done. " What have you given?" Are you smart? Is it humorous? Is it fun? Genius? Ambition? Creative? Well, what can you do to prove your merits to the world? Don't tell me you're a good person-that's the least of it. your Goddess has three dozen men every day "good" to her. In our example above, if the wounded are bleeding in the street, will you ever operate? "I do not discriminate against women, do not discriminate against race, not greed, not superficial, nor ill-treated people!" I'm not like the men who diao. "I'm sorry, if all you can do is just that you do not have a bunch of shortcomings, ta can get me out of the wounded side!" We have funny, handsome, successful men to help your goddess. You don't have to complain about why the goddess likes to find the bad man in your mouth. They eat this because the Diao men have something else to satisfy your goddess. "If you keep saying you're a good person, like a restaurant saying their selling point is that their food won't make you diarrhea, like the title of a movie is ' This movie was in 中文版." That's why you can be a good person but still feel like a loser.

#3: You hate yourself because you do nothing------------------------------------

People always ask, "How can I get a job?" "And not" how do I become an employer who is willing to hire? People always ask, "How do you make a girl like me?" "And not" how do I become a girl's favorite person? ”。 Right? Because the latter often requires you to give up your favorite hobby, pay attention to appearance, God knows what other sacrifices. You may even have to change your nature. "But why can't I just go and find someone who likes me?" The answer is simple: there is a need for people. Don't forget our example: The wounded are bleeding, and all you have to do is complain that you can't find the wound that heals automatically? If you try to practice doing one thing over and over again, you can be good at it for anything. I was probably the worst author in the world When I was a kid. At the age of 25, it was a little bit better. But when I was frustrated in my career, I spent my spare time writing for eight years, writing an article a week until it changed the money for me. It took me 13 years to get onto the New York Times bestseller list. It took me about 20,000 hours to slowly sharpen my clumsy writing. Don't want to spend so much time honing a technology? Then I have good news and bad news to tell you. The good news is that the long grind can get you out of the woods-I've endured years of trivial office work because I know I'm learning a skill at the same time. People give up halfway because it is too long to see the results, but also because they do not realize that the "result" is the process itself. The bad news is that you have no choice. "Want to continue working here?" Get me the list. "From my point of view, you don't hate yourself for lack of self-confidence, or because others humiliate you. you hate yourself because you "do nothing". Even you can't love the "original Ego"-that's why you're pathetic . How much time do you have to spend other people creating things (TV, music, video games, websites) instead of producing your own stuff? only your "output" can add value to you as a human being.

#2: your inner Self can only be manifested through what you have done ----------------------------------------------

If your sweetheart has a hidden camera to follow you for one months, will they be impressed by the content of the video? Remember, people don't read minds, they just watch your actions. What I want you to do is just look at yourself with the standards of others. In the Bible, Jesus has said more than once that "people judge a tree by its fruit." Of course, Jesus never said, "If you want to stay here and work, give me a list," but he said, "every tree that does not bear fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire." ”

#1: People's hearts have been rejecting progress-----------------------------------------

The human brain is very magical. But you will find that the brain runs faster than it does when it rejects progress. Your consciousness will repel anything that will make you change the status quo through layers of defensive mechanisms--ask someone who has a addiction on everything. Remember: "Pain is comforting." Many people choose to embrace pain. Happiness is the work that needs to be done. Also: courage. People can't criticize what you haven't created at all, so people choose not to do anything to avoid criticism. It is easy to criticize others ' work with their hands and pockets. This movie is very silly, the parents of the child is very skin, the couple's feelings are very bad, the upstart ignorant, this restaurant sucks, the writer is an idiot, I would rather leave a damaged reply let the site expelled him, see, I do not "create" something? Oh, yes, I forgot to remind you. No matter what you try to build or create--poetry, new technology, or new feelings--you'll immediately find yourself with a lot more critics around you. These critics may not be as damaging to you as you are, but they are really mocking you. Your alcoholic friends don't want you to be sober, your fat friends don't want you to be slim, and your unemployed friends don't want to see you start a new career. Remember, they are only expressing their fear of life, and criticizing others for their work is another reason for their omission. "Why do I create something, you see what others are doing sucks!" "I want to write a novel, but I have to wait for the opportunity, I do not want to write twilight as superficial things." As long as they never do things, things will always be perfect. Or if they are really doing things, they will deliberately not work hard to make others think things do not do well because they are not in the state, "their real potential is endless", not you see the dog excrement of the same product. don't be that kind of person. If you are the kind of person, please do not continue to be such a person. That's why people don't like you, and that's why you hate yourself.

　give yourself a deadline and try to do anything-learn new skills until they're useful , or pick one thing: Learn Karate, learn to dance, learn pottery, make a bird house, learn to massage, learn a language ... Focus on getting the same skills and experience as new, "useful for others".

2015 the first 16 weeks 16 facts