2016 beware of these 6 kinds of "mindless things"! (Depth of good text)

Preface: Many times, a person can not succeed, in the final analysis is defeated in the thinking!

The wrong way of thinking is like a yoke, which consumes your energy at all times, becomes your resistance to progress, and at a critical moment, gives you a deadly blow to get you and your success the farther you can go!

In particular, there are 6 ways of thinking, it must be carefully avoided!

1. Hatred thinking VS love rich thinking

Grew up with our "strange", "Outlaws of the Marsh", "kingdoms", these stories have imperceptibly told us: officials are often "oppressive officials", the rich often "heartless". As we grow, we will not consciously hate the bureaucrats, hate the rich, at least not like them.

But hate them, we can't be them! When we hate them, we automatically put ourselves on the opposite side of them-the poor camp!

Wrong position, cause we can't break!

2. Negative Thinking VS opportunity thinking

Many people complain to me: the industry is too messy, so do not!

I often ask them: if the industry is not chaotic, where is your chance?

Similar complaints include:

"The opponent is too strong, so do not!" ”

"It's a bad time!" ”

"We are too young!" ”

"We are so special!" ”

... ...

Many people do not focus on the key to solving the problem, but to argue that the key does not exist, or to emphasize that there is not enough resources to get it! Have not shot, first lost to himself!

The right way of thinking-

Losers always see only difficulties and no way, and successful people see Opportunities and solutions!

It is this difference that causes 80% of ordinary people to be plagued by problems for life. and 20% outstanding people, despite such problems, lack of such conditions, ultimately can solve the problem, the achievement of extraordinary life!

3. Dependence on thinking VS powerful thinking

Many people always put their hopes on the outside world!

Hope that the stock market can be better, hope that prices can come down, hope that the inflation not too bad ...

There are a lot of people who want to rely on their connections!

They chase all kinds of social activities every day, join the Forum summit, into this group, the club, they want to establish the so-called vein relationship, rely on the wings of others to fly their own sky ...

However, they are not strong, the network has eggs! The outside world, is always beyond our control!

The right way of thinking-

Put the hope on their own body, let oneself first strong up!

Let yourself earn the speed of running to win the speed of inflation, build their own core competitiveness, so naturally will attract high-quality contacts, and eventually fly to the sky with their own wings!

4. Obedient thinking VS bold thinking

What is the core of Chinese education? --Obedient!

We have been taught to be "obedient": at home to listen to their parents, in school to listen to the teacher, in the outside to listen to the leadership, the words of the superior ...

Obedient indeed can let us less detours, but pay the price is to let them lose a person's most important independent personality and thinking judgment ability!

We become submissive, dare not challenge authority, dare not break the routine!

We are accustomed to answering questions, finding answers, and seldom proposing new thinking, judging and trying from different angles!

We are cured in the obedient box, eventually become a part of the people, downside, lost the courage of innovation and breakthrough!

The right way of thinking-

Success must first be "gall"!

Any person who can achieve something, must be "dare" the word, dare for the world first, dare verging!

You see Xiang Yu, Liu Bang, qin Shihuang, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, which is not the courage to stand at the peak, challenge the whole world of characters!

5. Quick thinking VS practical thinking

Open Now TV, mobile phones, all kinds of media, everywhere is rich, fast story, even the most popular entertainment is the kind of people to make a night fame, grassroots change the big shot.

In fact, these people have many years of professional and arduous training, but the show will not talk to the public. People like the story of Once fame.

Because it satisfies people's unrealistic fantasies-there is a shortcut to success with ease and speed!

The right way of thinking-

In the real world, success is not overnight. The success of each individual, the birth of every so-called genius, often takes at least 10 years.

Because there is a "10,000-hour Law" behind success: when you spend 10,000 hours in a certain field, you can be the top expert in this area. It takes about 10 years to complete the 10,000-hour accumulation by 3 hours a day.

Many people only see the blossoming of the tree, but he did not see the roots in the ground has been 10 years, they do not know for this blossoming, the roots of the kind of loneliness, loneliness and darkness!

Success or genius, nothing more than a sentence: With 10 years, grinding a sword!

6. Follow the thinking VS Maverick

All kinds of successful books on the market voluminous, the books and theories about enterprise management have already flooded the streets. A batch of "Masters", "revolutionaries", "subversive" These temporary successful people everywhere to publicize their success, everywhere to guide the maze, it seems as long as the follow-up can be charm.

Everyone believes that a path that is parallel to a successful person can be successful, believing that the method of success can be duplicated, as long as it succeeds.

In practice, the practice of trying to create another example by imitating the example has hardly brought any successful case, how many people want to learn Chairman Mao, and have not heard of any success; how many countries want to learn America and become America?

Using your opponent's methods to compete with your opponent is undoubtedly one of the dumbest marketing methods, because that's not your forte. Learning the opponent's play is precisely to not according to the opponent's method to play, this is the correct way to learn!

The right way of thinking-

Success stems from a clever inconsistency! You have to learn: go against the crowd!

Like most people, you will only lead you to mediocrity, bold and appropriate Maverick, will eventually bring you to success!

2016 beware of these 6 kinds of "mindless things"! (Depth of good text)