The former middle school teacher admitted to the university can casually play, I also really casually played the university four years. People around think I may be a progressive, but only I know that I am four years of white university, and spent 2 years in the laboratory, but I have always been middle school students thinking, what teachers teach what to learn. The last 2 years of Time also took 51 to do a little thing, temperature alarm and so on. I used to want to do embedded, the result even Linux did not learn. Postgraduate examination also because of his lazy failure, know the current code farm wages high, but I will point C and C + +. Mooc on the above also learned a period of time, but there is no way to insist, see a set on their own things to do, and now in the dorm every day in 11 DotA, live, I do not want to play games, but I do not want to learn, do not want to find a job
My mother gave me a text message yesterday to stay in Chengdu, give me a down payment, but I think I have no ability to pay mortgage
Think of the previous childhood to mother said to let mother happy, to mother please many servants, heart pain AH
Is my life like this? Recently wanted to learn something to do it. Class has a classmate training for six months to find a job in Chengdu 6000, is a dry php
The student's foundation is not better than me, the training fee is about 9000 or so, do you think it is necessary?
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Crab waist.
You actually know what to do, and it's just a matter of trying to get to the point where you don't want to act right away.
After all, it is much more comfortable to brush up and play DotA than to study hard.
Now that I've said to be kind to the world, it's still a chicken soup:
It's really late today, but it's a lot sooner than tomorrow.
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I feel most about life ah emotional problems, the main problem is just lazy brain or want to chat with people.
Can't you find someone to talk to?
Life is so lonely as snow.
Cultivate the habit of reading and thinking will not be a lot of wool to ask others.
Or at least learn to use Baidu. You this situation I think training is still necessary, because your motivation and attitude is basically not. To training may be gradually better, and the basis should be OK, not very young, the training course many older than you! Conclusion: If you feel that your foundation is not good enough, you can not find a suitable job after graduation question, I suggest you still go to the training.
Master I am also two of the school communication Engineering major. Our profession in the school is almost the countdown of the professional, the state of the university and you no difference. is also playing all the way to the juniors.
I also want to do what I want to do after graduation, to become what kind of person, but the final conclusion is that I still have no ability and courage to stay in my university study place.
At that time, our school and training school had an agreement, that is, if you go to training school, that year you can not stay at school, Big four of all kinds of examinations and internships are you excellent, but one thing is the tuition is very expensive (location is Beijing), training fee is half a year 1w7, is not more than your training costs?
At that time I was also very hesitant, want to go? After all, tuition is so expensive, and to Beijing, helpless, in addition to a few classmates, who do not know, then if there is something, who can help me? Girlfriends also advised me not to go, very expensive ah, plus living expenses, this half-yearly estimate is about 3w. I said ex, if you want to go, go ahead. Mom and dad do not support me, because at that time the home is more difficult, no ability to come up with so much money. And my savings were probably just 5k.
But what's my idea? I read a small two in a three-tier city in Shandong,
alone.After graduation, you can go to the first-tier city of North Canton to fight.
odds are almost 0 .。 And now is just a chance ah, there are training institutions of the teacher can be in your trip to Beijing to arrange where you live, hands-on teaching you how to do the bus card, take the subway, eat anything will also tell you where cheaper, this is equivalent to when you go to Beijing, there is a place to stay.
What if it's all on your own? Can I go by myself? The answer is no. Because there is no guarantee, I dare not to take risks, I am afraid to encounter bad people in unfamiliar places, afraid that they can not find a place to live, afraid that they can not find work down the street. You see, in comparison, this training opportunity, although spent a lot of money, but this is a very important opportunity, at least you can have the courage to go out to see the outside world.
To!!! This is my final conclusion. In fact, this conclusion I had decided when the sophomore knew that the school had this policy. Because for my ability, my dream is too big. Too big to rely on my own certainly can not achieve.
The next step is to persuade the family and then arrange the various things before you go.
What about tuition? Certainly no ah, I am a loan, after graduating from the bitter force of a year.
So you see, you are luckier than me, at least you have a strong backing ———— home.
And I, I have to rely on myself.
Say PostScript, I had a bitter force of more than a year, and now in Shanghai, although still very food, but this industry talent is scarce, also not afraid to find work. And there are so many interesting places in the Yangtze River delta area that we almost turn around.
And my college classmates, said the most bitter, I went to her work at the end of April to participate in her wedding, how to say, her city is a small county, colleagues also like that, Putonghua is not standard kind (absolutely no discrimination!!!!!) ), the planned honeymoon is the Yangtze River delta side of the turn.
She also said to me more than once, I knew I would go to the training with you.
I know, I know, I know, if you can know the consequences of each decision, who will make the right choice, right? But no such situation arises.
When I decided to train, did I know what kind of day I was going to have? I do not know. I was only in the circumstances, according to my own situation, did the most suitable for me, a relatively long-term decision, and this decision, but also decided that I and other students gradually opened the gap. That's the truth.
It is true that the students I train with and stay in Beijing and Shanghai are better off than the rest of my college classmates.
So, master, I gave a suggestion, you still go.
However, the most important thing is to ask clearly
What the hell are you thinking?, do not come to the point of this time or feel that they do not know anything, do not know that they think clearly, think not clear on the quiet heart, handwritten oneself to make each decision may produce the outcome, and then weigh the pros and cons, choose their most acceptable choice.
A lot of things, not someone to give you an opinion, and then you listen to it. You have to think for yourself, to do it, to do it on your own.
What am I most afraid of? Is that I gave others a suggestion, others accepted, but the outcome is relatively bad, and then others began to blame me why let her so choose.
therefore, do their own choice, even if the consequences are very poor, but also do their own, do not blame others.
Main refueling, I know that senior is a very confused time point, but this time must have their own ideas, so as to ensure that after graduation life will become more exciting.
Said very popular point, is to make a choice, is to bite broken teeth, broken knees, knock broken head, also remember what you want to get things, do not let others laugh at your decision is wrong. I am similar to the main topic, the basic neglect, the intention of self-study PHP, self-study time is too long, so to train, the current feeling effect is good, learn faster, compared to those without foundation, I learn a lot faster, learn PHP at the same time, but also learn other! However, I am the same in Beijing training topic. I am also two communication, the university is also wasted, but also fat, but the year before the fitness reduced (although nearly two years and fat)
Just come on, all right?
Oh yes, what dota, dry Dota2 AH ≖‿≖✧ Communication Engineering, so coincidence, so am I. University mixed for four years, so coincidence, I also. Tell me about myself, big-time semester suddenly hung six subjects, was told no degree certificate, it was very painful, no degree equal to the next few years is white read, want to drop out, but finally is mixed over. Let's talk about it now.
The following is chicken soup, advertising. So it's gone.
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Yes, the training course. I just came out from the training course, 4 o'clock in the afternoon received an offer, and now 7 to answer your question. The offer was 4500, very low, especially in the city of GZ, but I was satisfied. Tell me why.
First, no seven thousand or eight thousand, no tens, only 4.5k, and then deduct those, you understand. University I decadent, gave up, eventually mixed up, so someone willing to invite me, I am grateful, satisfied.
Second, I pure science students, to the girl will blush, talk with others will not natural, belong to slow heat type, interview feeling uncomfortable, with technical officer chat, a lot of technical problems also answer not, this feeling is not into, but they still gave me the opportunity, salary is not high, but for me, is also a kind of affirmation.
Third, the interview three days, running across the city, I am tired.
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Maybe a lot of people will despise me, said I ask low, no pursuit, no perseverance, haha, I recognized, but this is 2015.6.5 of me.
All right, now say it back to the main question.
If you study it, you can have two choices, self-study, and training courses.
Self-study words, perseverance can not be less, you have to face the boring computer, book six months or even a year, so you get started, you may go to find a job.
Course, said myself. I was accompanied by a girl to my home near the school interview, and then she mentioned the training course this thing, suggest I can understand, and then I went, don't ask me why, may be like it.
To talk about the training course, I signed up for 8980 dollars. Training this thing, for me is supervision, I think I can not alone on the computer books for half a year, so I reported, the supervision of their own.
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If said, the training course is a giant money pool, that 9k is tickets, as for you in that pool can be fished how much, all rely on ability, have ability, (the following is advertising), my class classmate, come out immediately 7k,8k, I have no ability, Only 4.5k, I do not blame, because I do not have their efforts, my confidence is not their feet, my ability to blow water is not their strong, tube him, anyway, it is not the first time to be hit.
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The first time in the knowledge said so much, may be because it is a communication graduation, decadent people, different words, I am thin bar.
In some encouragement! I am a brother said good: can insist on self-study, can not insist on looking for training .... If you can't find training, change your career. 1. Yard farming is only related to ability, and has nothing to do with education.
2. Program ape are wild, oh, domesticated out of the pet useless! People like you, write a lot of, or hesitate, what to do. Not necessary.
This is when you should sleep the LOL, youth on so many years, and then want to find the opportunity to casually play the game is not afraid of the time of the consumption of the basic no, the next few decades, you are working, now can have comfort is more comfortable, life happy carefree, think so much and no eggs with.
But after graduating, you can not find the right job, you take 3000 dollars of wages, you even find a girl's money, your classmates have received tens of thousands of wages, truly, and occasionally go abroad to travel, but even the domestic attractions are not up, because there is no money to buy tickets. You have no way to meet the life, you think life is simply rubbish, you want to find a better job, only to find that their knowledge is not wide enough, the network is not enough, the education is not high enough, the ability is not.
When you are depressed and distressed, this time you just remember, should not play such a long time of the League of Heroes, only to realize that the book to time side hate less meaning.
Whether it is necessary, whether worth it or not, try to do it, do not think, just do it. There is no egg to think about so much. You come to the question is to find scold, I understand you, but not to listen to the incident, read more, think more, do more work, less brush know.
