Alive, meaning, idol

Most of the time, I think, what is the purpose of human life? For fame and fortune? For life? To pursue? For responsibility? Or is it just for simplicity?

 

This problem may cause a lot of questions. You may have been living for more than 10 years, and even have been living for decades, but you do not know what your life is. Sometimes I think it is a good thing to read more books. Sometimes I think it may not be a bad thing to read less books. Many people have low knowledge and knowledge. They think simple. People live to live, nothing else. You can have a full meal. At some point, you may feel satisfied when you have a good meal.

 

I believe that many people have a feeling that they are very happy when they are young. When they are young, they live very easily. They don't have to think too much about the meaning of life. As a post-80 child in the countryside, the stress may only lie in teachers' homework and busy agricultural work. They only hope to have a fresh pork meal and a new pair of shoes. So every Chinese New Year holiday is particularly excited. At that time, the biggest holiday may be the Spring Festival. However, with the increase of age, various kinds of pressure are coming. Now, I have graduated from college and started my work in the society, without the "protective layer ". You have to consider that money and responsibility are involved in various factors such as house, marriage, family, and parents. When the stress is too high, you often think about what you mean when you come to this world? I also believe that many people think it is easy, because when you cannot find the meaning of being alive, you will feel that you have failed, and think about your ideal as far away, think about the situation that can be changed in a short time, so you may have negative thoughts in a short time.

 

In China, there are too many fixed-mode families and people with too many fixed-mode ideas, generation after generation, like an endless loop. The so-called "fixed mode" means that when you start from birth, your parents start to worry, from changing diapers to going to school, from learning to working in a social environment, thinking about your house, marriage, and then bringing your next generation, then you should worry about the next generation. In this way, we keep repeating. Of course, our children are still working hard to keep their parents away from worrying about themselves as soon as possible. However, it is often counterproductive. In the face of the current pressure, you may compromise over and over again. You can only swear in your heart that you will honor your parents in the future. At present, you feel powerless. You want to change this fixed pattern, but when you are a parent, you may experience another unexpected event. You still have to worry about your children and provide them with the best environment. Of course, you understand in your mind that it is good to let your children suffer, but when you look at your children's basic lives and feel bad, distressed and will drive you to consider for them, pity the hearts of the world's parents.

 

In this endless loop, you are willing and willing. At the same time, you may give up many of your own ideals, give up your favorite jobs, and give up your most difficult feelings. So you asked yourself again, did you come to this world just to stay busy and then leave quietly? As a saying goes: "When I come to this world, I don't have to think about going back ".

 

In the face of the significance of asking people to live again and again, in the face of today's various pressures, some choose to escape, some choose to adapt, and some choose to continue to struggle. This may also be one of the reasons why this society has different classes. I believe that everyone wants to be able to stand up under such great pressure, stick to their own ideals, and take responsibility for themselves. This is a kind of courage and a tough character. Where does it come from?

 

Many people choose to set up their idols. The idol character here is not the luxury in the eyes of the stars. Idol is a rational choice. It has a deeper understanding and positive significance for itself. You will be influenced by some of his/her deeds and behaviors. This influence is a positive one. You will extract a positive spirit from the sufferings he/she/he has experienced, and you will be moved or even sad for some of his/her experiences, this kind of sorrow will not make you negative, but make you stronger. You will think about him/her/it, in so many difficult circumstances, still sticking to, working hard, fighting hard. When you are moved to tears, you must take actions to prepare for the battle. At the same time, you also admire his/her abilities. in a difficult environment, you can say that you have tried your best to prove your ability and success. Such deeds multiply your confidence. You begin to unconsciously transplant your idol thoughts. In addition, you are a person who likes to think and sum up, you naturally find the direction of your life and the meaning of your life.

 

In the story of the loyal dog and the eight male, the eight male is poor, the eight male is respected, and the eight male is the embodiment of spirit and pursuit. Although it does not know that its waiting is meaningless, it does not know what it means. It only knows what it should do, it knows that its old friends have not yet appeared, and it knows that it should continue to wait. Different people may have different feelings after reading them. Perhaps the same thing is that everyone is crying, reaching a resonance of human nature. Negative people may think that this is a tragedy. Sometimes, even if you try again and cannot wait for anything, you may cry with pity. People who are positive and optimistic are different. They think that although this is a tragic ending, the eight male is pursuing, working hard, and having no regrets. It is always at the beginning and end of its life to do a meaningful and respected thing. In a gray world, its persistence and belief are rare successes.

 

Therefore, idols are collectively referred to as any thing. In the final analysis, it is a carrier that allows you to sum up your thoughts and adjust yourself. It is a force that allows you to get up again when you keep falling.

 

We hope that you will be able to withstand the pressure of your hard work ..!!