Breakthrough Fixed Thinking 1

First, the point of view.

To put it simply, be realistic.

Seeking truth from facts, these four words are simple to say and difficult to do.

Second, detailed explanation.

Look back. Discover that you have always been divorced from reality.

Do not use subjective judgment to touch things, because their subjective thought may not be in line with the real situation. Be cautious, leave your retreat, and be ready to change.

Be cautious, it's the first time you're in a situation where things can change and be prepared.

Otherwise, when the actual situation and subjective views are inconsistent, it will be a great blow to themselves.

Be cautious, when the actual and subjective want is not the same, you can quickly exit, thereby avoiding greater damage, avoid more energy loss. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, the more extremes meet, the more cautious, and the more we should not judge any one thing.

Subjective thinking is not the same as the actual, not prepared, if not cautious, the greater the disappointment, the greater the damage. This is difficult to accept and difficult to forgive. Yes, so disappointed, how to forgive? What do you want? Why is it on me, I have no obligation to bear. What I want, you have no obligation to play.

If you are not careful, do not understand the actual and their subjective thought is not the same, did not end quickly, will consume great energy, to the study of people, the cause of huge negative impact, the whole person will collapse. So who's wrong? Others want others to like, I want I like, who is wrong?

Just should be away, wasting time, is harmful. Once a person has tasted happier things, it is difficult to give up. Just as the woman tasted the taste of happiness, the man tasted the taste of it. Can only be a decisive end, can not waste time. Don't be a slave to others, and do not force others.

Third, the cause of the fixed thinking

Growth environment, education, experience.

Well, I'll understand if I say it myself. I had little contact with girls, when I was a child with cousin cousin, she two natural live wave, cousin also fight with me. But after school, there is no contact with girls.

So, primary school, middle school, High school, girls in my heart is what position? Things are precious, mysterious and noble.

Moreover, the influence of traditional education, boys to girls to let this point, this is called poise. Led me to the girl is a look up attitude, in short, responsive. I decided that women are noble, intelligent, beautiful, anyway, there are these advantages. I have never been in contact with the timid girl, and I contact the girl, has been more courageous.

This is my fixed thinking. I think girls are noble, generous and enthusiastic. Things to dilute, the type of contact is single, contact is not much, also did not think of what type of love.

But not all girls in this world are like that. are not so noble and beautiful. And the way each girl is expressed may be different and behaves differently. the world what people have, sooner or later will encounter a different situation, sooner or later will encounter all kinds of people, so with the subjective and what they thought from childhood is not the same. Not consistent with what you have always thought . Pain, exhaustion, cold, incomprehensible. Pessimistic about the world.

There is another example. About the teacher's opinion. If a good student, the teacher in the student's mind is a good impression. Students believe that teachers, knowledgeable, atmosphere, understanding, and will not judge mistakes. This is fixed thinking. It is only through practical testing that we know that to be cautious, you are absolutely not superstitious about anyone or anything. In short, maintain independent thinking style, not lower than anyone, teachers and we are equal.

Iv. ways to break through fixed thinking

Keep practicing. In the process of outside contact, we know how to work and how to be more cool. Look at what others do and see how successful students work around them, and know that their thinking is different from theirs.

Try it and know it. Courage, independence, and determination are always right.

Be cautious and never be superstitious about anyone or anything. In short, maintain independent thinking style.

Independent, independent thinking, simple to say, difficult to do.

Seeking truth from facts is easy to say and difficult to do.

1, continue to practice, to understand the diversity of the world, to understanding. Deal more with people and observe more. Go outside to see more, to travel. If you have no contact with people or things, you should not be subjective to the conclusion. Be cautious and optimistic.

2, to do their own things, their own money, their own money to buy a car to buy their own items, and constantly try to deal with their own things-their own things to find a way to complete.

When tasted the taste of victory, will be firmly shouted out-oh, this is the way, the past fixed thinking does not meet the actual AH!!! Originally this is I want the free life! This is what I want, I master their own destiny, I am the boss of my own! I drive my car and go wherever I want!

This is called wisdom, this is called the freedom of life, this is called a meaningful life.

Breakthrough Fixed Thinking 1