Essays | Speak with the facts

Just in a social forum ended a half-month debate, found that they say, basically no data to support, but the facts and their words contradict many of the place, this controversy, exposing me a lot of shortcomings, although some frustration, but also a lot of learning.

First, the speech must respect the objective fact. In fact, everyone knows this truth, but in the beginning of both sides of the jousts, emotional fluctuations, in the emotional, will only go to find support their own views of the data and even not to find data, only to find the authority of the research report to support their views, this is a paranoid, also belongs to blinders. Fortunately, although I was embarrassed by the other side, or red-faced written apology and self-criticism, I hope that later, can become a rational, wise, profound people.

Secondly, it is necessary to learn Chinese well, to learn logic, to express their views is very important, do not own the subject of vague, anti-blame others did not understand their words.

Again, is the psychological to be strong, can not others contradicting is very impatient, and with frustration, of course, as long as the above two points, a strong and healthy heart intelligence naturally generated, or will fall into a face desperately say some seemingly have some words to cover up their own, even lead to curse (although I tutor very good).

In fact, not only to speak so, learn technology, life is also so, if you can not try to exclude the psychological factors, and too much face or paranoid obsession, can never master the true Truth, to reach follow and harmonious social situation. I think, this is probably what Lao Tzu called "Nothingness", put down all the human factors, do not be in the heart of those "real" things troubled, to pursue the real truth of things, it should be our true faith.

Essays | Speak with the facts