Every person's youth has a detour. You have to go on your own.

Guiding language: the pride and height of a person cannot be displayed only by those who love him. This is a fact I have to admit. Why did you show up without any concerns? It surprised me and came so quietly, so I was helpless and unprepared.



Chapter 1:
 
Friend A, who had a crush on a girl for six years, was still fruitless at last, and what we were most unfair was that he did not let the girl know that she liked her. But he said it doesn't matter. When he recalled her one day, he found that he didn't expect her to appear in his tomorrow from the beginning, but if the time goes back, he will still like her.
 
The advantage of a crush is that one of her actions and one smile can make you remember for many years.
 
Not all stories have a happy ending, but not all stories that are not happy with ending have no significance. Even if one day you think of a person, she once made you think that she will appear in your tomorrow, but never in your life, I don't feel like I am busy. In the right time met the right person, that is nonsense, in the wrong time met the right person, this is called youth.



Chapter 2:
 
Friend B, a person came back from Tibet a while ago. Although Tibet is a popular term, we still cannot hide our admiration for her. She started with great popularity and ended a while ago. She said she was never so persistent, but suddenly felt that this time, she could not give up halfway. She said that this time she had to use up all the previously useless stubbornness and make up for all the halfway work.
 
She did the same thing as she said.
 
However, before her independent image, it was a feeling of failure. The two parents agreed, and the engagement banquet was also done, but the hero suddenly changed. I don't want to judge anything, but it's a pity for her.
 
We didn't even think that she would return in such an independent and powerful image. She said she had given him all the parts of the old golden age, and she didn't want to waste it for him any more.



Chapter 3:
 
M, who was also a foreign student, asked me what touched me most at the airport. I thought about it and said, "Let's see the sentiment of the foreign students when they left. He shook his head and said, What impressed him most was that no matter what his previous life was like, his character was weak and strong. When he entered the customs, even if he had burst into tears, he won't go back either.
 
What impressed me most is that those who are sad enough to suppress crying will never look back or show their weakness in front of their parents.
 
Every June, many people go around in a big circle and then return to the country. After all, they go back to the familiar place. I used to think about why we went back to the original place without exception. Why do we still have to leave the two people who love us most in the world when they are there.
 
Later, I realized that, in my previous article, I also said that all wandering people only want to protect their families one day. Only through such a hard work can we understand what the origin is like in vain.
 


Chapter 4:
 
I never thought that I was a very reliable person. I talked about unreliable love, wrote books that nobody was reading, and went to many places by myself under the banner of travel. Every time I look at a strange ceiling in a strange place, I always think about home. Every time I miss that person, I will find out where I am not doing well. I once wondered why it was so difficult and unreliable.
 
However, this is part of your growth. You constantly say goodbye to familiar things, say goodbye to people you are familiar with, do things you have never done before, and love someone who may have no results. One side effect of growth is that it is not surprising no matter who is separated from whom. But from another perspective, this may be a positive effect: No matter who leaves, you can have enough courage to face the new day. This is not good or bad. We only need a ride.
 
So many people told me that it is not reliable to have a long-distance relationship, but I still believe that persistence is worthwhile. In this world, the most feared is that the person you need when you need love most, but not at all. But in such a world, there must be a feeling of time and distance, as long as you believe, as long as he persists.
 
At a certain stage, especially when you are lonely for too long, there are too many impulses to regard love as love, and one second as eternal. However, if not, you will not know what you really want. Everyone has a detour in their youth, and no one can take care of you, but the future is always there.
 
I used to ask someone to accompany you to the next day: May someone accompany you to the next day, to the day of your life. Some people once left me a message saying that he has been reading my text for three years, and suddenly he will feel that time has flown away. I just hope that after so many years, you do not think that these years have passed in vain.
 
So I want to say one more thing today: May someone be here with you. If not, may you become your own sun.
 
May you become your own sun.



Editor's note: I am afraid that you will suddenly disappear into my world. In fact, I have been afraid, afraid that if you really leave, in the following decades, I will never meet a person I love.

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