Successful people are boring.

Countless girls with a head and a face are complaining: there are fewer and fewer funny men. That's because men who think they have brains do not want to play, and they are desperately trying to succeed.

Success requires payment. It is not only the energy and time, the brain and the bile, but also the mentality. Some successful people have long been not the young man who looked at the food and looked at the beauty for a night of insomnia, but the old man who felt numb to all his senses after the wind and frost. Food? What does food mean? Yan Bao's wings have long been annoying. Beauty? What does beauty mean? A credit card can attract a lot. People who will make money are calculating when they are doing cash cart karaoke. How much investment does the entire cash cart project require? Singing with such a person, hoping to have fun, is nothing more than a tiger.

Another interesting reason is that more and more successful people are doing management.

The lady recently promoted to the vice general manager of the company said to me: Bitch is required for management. Here, bitch is just as annoying as bitch, such as spam, swearing, and saying that you want to work overtime on weekends. Some annoying successful people like to say at the Celebration Banquet: "Everyone is delicious and has a good job ." Everyone in this room thinks they are feeding a zombie. Of course, they also think that these successful people who have managed their jobs are so ugly?

It is his pain to make you happy, and your enjoyment is his torment. If you have a good party, they will become a highly hierarchical workplace ceremony.

Even so, how to change from a technician to a manager is still a topic that makes today's great job. Although many books with the word "management" in the Book City can lead people to lose their way, they all talk about big and inadequate conceptual things such as corporate strategy and high-level decision-making. True management tips, such as "doing management, is bitch," and "doing management, must be at a distance from subordinates, even if this subordinate is your original friend, you can only understand it in practice. The last sentence is my original experience from another high-tech friend. This kind of experience is absolutely efficient for the business, but it is more and more complicated to shape the character, and more people stay away.

I had a friend who came out to do business and started a business with a hardcore classmate. He is mainly responsible for technology and manufacturing, and is responsible for marketing and management. A few years later, the company grew up, and both of them made money, but they finally went on their own. The reason is that the character is not correct. My classmates and friends have never had any bad personality for nearly ten years. I have never had a bad personality when I work together for two or three years. People in charge of technology and manufacturing are frustrated to find that a person who worries about paying employees on time every month will sit down and talk about future dreams and current missions, just as it is unrealistic to expect the beggars on the street to let go of their beggars and tell you the experience of the Ninth Symphony of Beethoven. After the two confidants become pure business partners, there is less and less fun.

But the world will always be like this. Funny people don't get money, and often get no more fun. Everything has a price, and the same is true for success.

Of course, there are also successes and interesting pride, and after layers of tempering, you still have a piece of inner self-reserved land. Most of such people have the following qualities: 1. Stick to some things. For example, drinking. I have seen one of the best book sellers who are famous for not drinking, so that their loyal North colleagues are determined to stand up and block their wines. He has obtained such a privilege and has never been accepted by his peers. After a long period of time, his personality charm far exceeded the charm of the wine volume, his absence of drinking has transformed from his shortcomings into his characteristics, which are also worth showing off. 2. Give up on some benefits. A classic of interesting merchant friendsFamous sayingYes: this business is useless. You can do it. He is unwilling to make himself boring for some business and gradually become a boring person. 3. Set aside time for solitude. Successful people are often busy with affairs, meetings, and socializing. They have little time to reflect on their own words and deeds, and do not pay attention to their changes. Every day in the three provinces, when you find that any consumption will no longer bring happiness, and you are no longer used to being alone, you should stop yourself from getting bored.