Zen-we need to consider

A story A bitter person said to the monk, "I can't let down some things, but some people ." The monk said, "Nothing can't be placed ." He said, "I can't let it go ." The monk asked him to hold a cup, and then poured hot water into it until the water overflows. The bitter person was burned to release his hand immediately. The monk said: "There is nothing in this world that can't be put down. It hurts, and you will naturally put it down ."   I introduced my wife's use of a computer for accounting settlement yesterday. I had nothing to worry about. I wanted to find a book on the shelf. I accidentally found a book. I forgot the name of the book. It was a book about Buddhism, this is mainly an introduction book on "Zen" in Buddhism. -- At the beginning, I also fell asleep, but the more I went to the end, the more I became interested. In recent years, I have discovered that I have become more and more paranoid and I cannot control myself in anger. The same is true for technology and work. Today, I learned some about Zen Buddhism on the Internet and found that my heart was suddenly quite calm. The reason for me's problem is that I am often used to analyzing and solving problems from a technical perspective. 1. Always search for If and else (Right and Wrong ). I am used to letting others follow my path and let others recognize my ideas (I am right, but he is wrong ). However, it is often found that no one is willing to acknowledge the correctness of your opinion. -In many cases, right and wrong are all dependent on your eloquence or position. If your eloquence is good or you are a leader, then everyone has to listen to you and do things according to your point of view. -Subconsciously, I think my opinion is correct, but I can't convince others or be persuaded by others. 2. I always hope that everything will have a result (result) and everything will have a result. If many things are abandoned halfway, then I will be very upset, I feel that I have wasted my time and energy, and you have given me a salary in time, but I still feel that this still cannot calm my anger. 3. It is too easy to do step by step (there must be a process before doing things). I always ask people around me to do things step by step for my wife. I must know what to do first, what to do later. If she does something like no fly, I will complain about her. But later I found that, after I talked about it n times, she was still doing things like no flies, but it didn't improve because of my complaints.

Zen Introduction Zen is one of the eight main Buddhist sects,Zen is life, art, and an effective way to drive wisdom and eliminate troubles. Currently, Zen is popular all over the world because it can solve all puzzles encountered by people in the 21st century, especially in family harmony, social harmony, self-cultivation, impetuous elimination, and pressure relief, open-minded, helpful, compassionate, inclusive, full life, open-minded, and setting up a correct outlook on life and world view all have outstanding benefits. From a practical point of view, if a person understands "Zen", his or her IQ and emotional intelligence can be improved.   Nowadays, our society is full of troubles and our material life is luxurious. However, many people feel the emptiness of life, their mental anxiety, and their pains multiply. Therefore, this kind of zen learning can solve the problem of life and improve the realm of life.

abstract 1. beginner's mentality Buddhism has one sentence: it is amazing to have a beginner's mentality. A beginner is always curious, curious, and admired as a newborn faces the world. ( do not make unreasonable guesses, do not expect, do not be arbitrary or biased. This is a common mistake we adults make .) at work, you are familiar with the knowledge you have mastered in time, but you should also listen to your opinions with a beginner's mind. What you can do at this time is to give your opinions to everyone. Especially those Programs who have been working for a few years are habitually not listening to their opinions in the face of some new programmers, try to let him do things according to his own opinions. 2. for anyone, everything, and any environment, don't worry, this is a broken Point. anything you encounter, looking at this from a positive perspective, you think, "This is a good thing." This person is good, and he is not malicious. "" This technology is good, so you must be studious ".

3. Every day is a good day and every night is a good night.I like it very much. We need to make every day better. I remember what Zhang weijian's mother said in "Super School overlord": "When you are unhappy, take a deep breath and tell yourself how beautiful the world is, how fresh the air is. ". Well, when we get up in the morning, the first thought should be "another wonderful day", and then go to work happily. 4. Do what we should do now and what we must do. -- This is meditation.Good and evil are only things in your heart, so we should not say "this is right" or "this is wrong. Rather than saying "wrong", we should say "Don't do it ". When you have the "this is wrong" idea, you will be confused.What we should do is to do things and do it well when something comes. We should live in the present. 5. Just look at it. Don't take control of it.Although you try your best to put some people under your control, it is impossible. The best way to manage others is to encourage them to make bad decisions. -- It is a good way to manage cows or sheep with a spacious lawn, because they will not run around and will always be around your lawn. So the same is true for people.First, let them do what they want to do. You guard them from here. This is a "best strategy ". Trying to control them is "the next policy", and ignoring them is "the next policy ". The "best strategy" is to look at them, but to look at them (let them realize that you are paying attention to yourself), there is no desire to control them. 

 Summary

"Zen" is like a beacon in the lonely night, illuminating our forward. It is helpful for your life and work to get in touch with "Zen" early. Recommendation