How far you can go depends on who you walk with.

When there is no accomplishment, you will have no friends because of mediocrity, but with achievements, you may lose your friends for excellence. Your social approach, determines whether you go long or not, the following NB June to introduce you to eight kinds of interpersonal social law:

Eight interpersonal laws, your communicative course:

1 first-cause effect

The first impression of 45 seconds determines the direction of your future dealings. Psychological studies have found that first impressions can be generated in 45 seconds, and first impressions dominate the subsequent interactions. The "First cause effect" suggests that we should make a good impression when we meet for the first time, because people are willing to interact with people who are well-dressed and graceful, with a good start and half success.

2 RADIUS Law

People cannot be too square, nor too round, because the former will hurt people, the latter will keep people away from you. Often reject others, will give people leave the angular impression, can be a "nice guy" and let people feel hypocritical. Therefore, the refusal of others to pay attention to the way, in the premise of respect, in good faith to express their ideas, but also to accept the request of each other, and try to achieve satisfactory results.

3 Law of wind and rain

Emotional withstand the wind and rain, but not withstand dull, friendship withstand dull, but not withstand the wind and rain. The study found that we lost at least half of our close friends every 7 years, so what should we do when we meet a friend worth seeing? 1, meet the person to you, to learn to be thankful. 2, meet the people you care about, but also learn to pay. 3, as long as the friendship to keep open, sincere attitude, it is possible to constantly meet new friends.

4 The Law of Evaluation

Don't be curious about how others judge you, think about how you evaluate him. Many people close themselves because they care too much about others ' comments, which may be thought to be intentional and hypocritical. Let yourself become more solitary and introverted. In fact, interpersonal communication is a process of mutual evaluation, to be brave to say their own ideas, to fight for what they want, not because of fear of other people's evaluation and throw away some irreparable opportunity.

5 The Law of success

When there is no accomplishment, you will have no friends because of mediocrity, but with achievements, you may lose your friends for excellence. People who have no achievement will not get attention because of mediocrity, but more people will find that, with their achievements, friends would leave. So, low-key is the real wisdom. If you want to make a real friend, you need to share each other's dreams and get through each other's difficulties.

6 Pie Law

There may be a trap waiting for you on the ground when the pie is dropped in the sky. Each person's life will encounter a variety of temptations, such as high-paying work, the attractive opposite sex, and the temptation behind the hidden threat. As the saying goes, "flies do not sting the seamless egg", only the heart shakes, the outside temptation can bring the threat. Therefore, when the heart is stirring, be sure to remind yourself to see whether it is a pie or a trap.

7 The Law of Tolerance

Too tolerant of strangers and too harsh on intimate people. "I know, do not worry about you", "My Matter you juvenile" ... In the face of aging parents, do you always think they are too verbose. If you have such a situation, then please tell yourself immediately, to the people around more love, the face of family care, should be "I know", "there is no end ah" Change to "I will", "You do not tell me almost forget" and so on.

8 The Law of Tears

Tears or sprinkle salt on the wound, the effect is the same. Tears and salt in the wound will make the wound more painful. But the difference is that the pain of tears will only make people more and more negative, and the salt of the pain will stimulate themselves to cheer up. Therefore, in the face of shock and pain and frustration, with each person to cry about their own experience, rather than smile, calm down to analyze the reasons for failure, learn lessons.

How far you can go depends on who you walk with.