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There will always be people in this world who are more bull than you, no matter what. If life is compared to climbing, maybe you can reach a certain height in your poor life, but for some people, Everest is not a problem. In this respect, some people choose to quit the competition, calmly, on the hillside leisurely, but also some people constantly upward. If you are the latter, what is the motivation and meaning of your climb when you know that you can't climb to the top? How do you keep the momentum going?
@ Yu Yido:
I think that each person's experience of growth, will be more or less in the "inferiority" of the emotional shrouded.
I am a person who has been entangled in the "loser" complex.
Childhood because of fat, P.E. class in front of classmates to raise not head;
Moved to the big city, because the accent and introverted character, became the class boy's punching bag;
To high school, into the province science experimental class, just know some genius IQ, is his life can not reach;
First to the United States, by the side of the students think is fob, from the Third World country's hillbilly;
Infiltrated the so-called world famous school, see a big wave of cattle around, plunged into mediocre frustration;
Hard to squeeze to New York Wall Street, to see the elite of the so-called cream of the crop, only to begin to face their comprehensive ability to lack;
Back in Hong Kong, many investment bank colleagues around the business ability and interpersonal skills are far better than me, only in high pressure environment to survive;
From party B to the start of the PE investment, when with the son of Soros Wits, can deep experience "Tangjiang" and "win in the starting line" to a person's meaning;
From foreign exchange to state-owned enterprises, began to see the system Canglongwohu mainstream players really playing what, only to realize that in the context of the marginalization of foreign investment in the expansion of a variety of non-grounded gas bubble is how ridiculous;
Then began to contact the insurance, banking and other strong people in the financial field, only to know that in the entire financial map, 10 times times the size of their original small pond-sized funds, is doing what.
Share the above a large paragraph, in fact, I would like to say, the most important is the following points:
1. Just like @talich, who gave me the words before I went to Stanford: "There's no hope of being a bull, but at least you know how wide the sea is and what the bulls are doing is enough." "For the tortoise, the meaning of the rabbit's existence is, at least let it know the existence of the world and the rabbit, and how fast the rabbit runs." It is in itself the greatest meaning to steal the slogan of knowledge to make you see a bigger world.
2. The existence of rabbits, can let the tortoise face himself is a turtle this fact. Have the courage to face the truth of their own, can accurately locate their position, but also calm thinking of the most suitable for their own life planning. And that, most of the time, is exactly the easier thing.
3. In fact, the more people go back, the more profound experience of the "class" insurmountable. When you're angry, you curse: "Why is it so unfair to be in the world?" "But when you don't get carried away by hormones, you may start to think: Now that's the case, what should I do?" When you're making yourself better, maybe you're making the world a better one. :)
@ Tang's Monk comrade:
1, when the cherry Wood Flower Road completed 20,000 ball training, he only know how strong the Chuan Feng.
Because in a match, he saw a Chuan Feng of a CIC, this jump, this posture, this arc, unexpectedly is his training to imagine the most perfect picture.
He was very angry, clenched the fist, and unwilling to heart, he asked the coach: When did the fox start playing basketball?
Anxi: You should keep an eye on the Chuan Feng posture, imitate him as much as possible, and then use 3 times times the amount of his training. In this way, you will be able to surpass him within the high school stage.
Chuan Feng is the rabbit, fortunately, cherry wood is probably also.
The main puzzle is that Cherry wood is a genius, even so, and you, may be just wood twilight.
2, Li Zongsheng has a song, the lyrics are like this: more annoying than annoying more recently, I look at the distance how can not see the shore, the back there is a class of genius Chase, write a happy song, is more and more difficult.
Midlife crisis is all like this: the front of the person than you can not see the shore, the next class of genius, more than you have energy, smarter than you, higher education than you international. And you, the child grades you have to worry about, wife to eat Secretary vinegar You also have to worry about, parents gradually bad, the most frightening is your hair less and more fat body.
The puzzle of the Lord is that the man who is more talented than you is more than you.
More frightening than the confusion of the Lord is that this genius, who is harder than you, is younger and more energetic than you, which means that even if you want to work hard, you don't have that energy. This is even more feeble.
3, "Dwelling" inside, song Siming want to Rob Guohaizao. He is more mature than Beckham, steady, understand the mind of the girl, the appearance is not worse than the small, he is rich, powerful, can help seaweed solve the problem.
If song Siming unmarried, what does Xiao Bei take with others to spell? Beckham may not be able to reach the height of song siming in his lifetime, even if he does his best.
This is the sense of powerlessness.
4, so, what can we do.
If you are an absolute idiot, then I can only say, please try to understand the world as little as possible, the best life do not leave the place where you live, sometimes know the more, the more painful. When you see so prosperous city, so beautiful girl, so high-end atmosphere of life is not related to you, more pain will hit.
If you are a fool and you refuse to work hard, please know less.
If you are not an absolute fool, and willing to work hard, please refer to the first paragraph of teacher Xi's words:
Keep an eye on every movement of the rabbit, learn as much as you can, and then train three times times the amount of training.
Rabbits will nap, even if the good, like a good, 30-year-old also no achievements, and not every Kobe-like genius, all know the appearance of Los Angeles Four o'clock in the morning; Do you know Locke Lee? He says the genius of hard work is genius.
I have said in one answer that diligence may be the most overrated virtue in the world. But for a man who has no talent, it can only rely on diligence.
So, even if you can't catch a rabbit, you can be the one who runs fast in the tortoise.
So, even if you are the wood twilight, you can also make one, every day better than yesterday a little bit of wood twilight.
[no00002b] A selection: If the Rabbits are running desperately, how the tortoise should go forward