(Programmer sentiment trilogy II) How do programmers find girlfriends?

 

How programmers find girlfriends

According to my career observations over the past decade, 90% of programmers are male. As a programmer, how to find a girlfriend is also a hot topic of interest in today's age of leftover male and older youth. It is also a realistic social issue to marry a man, marry a girl, find a girlfriend, and talk about marriage.

Professional characteristics of programmers:

1. Poor communication and communication, because most of the time is spent in front of the computer, writing programs, debugging, more time to deal with computer machines, dealing with people, less time to communicate;

2. less free time, because software development is working overtime, it is common to get off work at, and there are also many views on working overtime on weekends. In addition, it takes a lot of time to learn new technologies, such as Android development technology;

3. More rational thinking and less emotional thinking. After all, software development requires strict logical reasoning and comprehensive thinking;

4. The contact group is narrow and limited. Most programmers contact work-related personnel, such as testing, products, SCM/SQA;

5. the programmer is unwilling to take the initiative to fight for it. The programmer is not sure about his or her mind, and he does not dare to take actions rashly;

6. The salary is not high, especially in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen and Guangzhou. Some of the jobs with higher salaries than programmers are sales and advertising;

7. there are not many programmers who have a room, a car, and no girlfriend, especially in the last two years. There are not many programmers who can afford a room, unless he has gone to the top 500 companies, software development managers, technical directors, and so on, otherwise, the family's economic environment is solid;

8. For future girlfriends, there will be a high degree of idealization of future life partners, because programmers have less contact with the outside world and are not clear about the specific requirements of girls for the opposite sex. There are not many girls who have gone to college. Taking the author as an example, there were only 12 girls in high school, but there were more than 70 girls in the class. When I went to college, I studied computer science, 32 in the class, and 8 girls.

Girls who have been in college are rare animals compared with boys who have been in college.

 

As a special social group, how do programmers find their girlfriends?

1.Requirement Analysis

Based on your own personality characteristics and economic strength, you can find a proper position: Suitable for your own range of women, which is often mentioned in software engineering: Demand Analysis. What kind of girl you are most looking for, for example, in what range of height, age, education, appearance, and personality preferences, XI Jing is still lively. The more you know about yourself and what types of girls you like, the more precise you can find your own women. As a programmer, I have a deep understanding of the importance of demand analysis. The requirements are divided into functional requirements and non-functional requirements. If you are looking for a girlfriend, the non-functional requirements are: female character, temper, and so on. For example, some have a big temper, some are very emotional, and these can only be discovered through contact.

2.Technical feasibility study

It is the female you want to find. Can you fix it yourself. I think it is an important factor to do this. Do you have sufficient confidence, time, energy, and financial resources for women with good conditions (smart, beautiful, talented, considerate, highly educated, or highly paid. After all, this is a two-way choice. It is almost impossible for programmers to find Fan Bingbing.

This is the truth. Because programmers do not have time to fly around, accompany others, and do not have the financial resources, there is also a circle of life, and there is no common language.

3.Wide Range of small harvest

In fact, it is a programming, one of the common methods in code writing, enumeration or exhaustive. Fully mobilize students, friends, colleagues, and relatives to help you recommend women that meet your requirements.

Why is it true that programmers are rigorous in thinking, that is, they think about problems comprehensively, that is, they consider the possibility of all kinds of problems;

In the same way, finding a girlfriend also needs to get to know each other through various relationships and occasions to find a girl who truly belongs to herself.

Participate in various activities, such as birthday parties, wedding ceremonies of colleagues, and travel activities organized by travel websites, such as mountain climbing and picnic;

4.Three dating websites

Century jiayuan www.jiayuan.com

Www.baihe.com

Www.zhenai.com

5.Sincere

Show your sincerity and sincerity. Programmers have been dealing with computers for many years. 1 + 1 = 2. It is very real and not pretentious. Remember to express your true feelings and feelings to the other party. Girls are very touched. Once she is moved to tears, she can't help herself, and she can easily decide to marry you.

6.Make your own love Engine

We often say that the search engine and map navigation engine, but I would like to say that as a programmer, we need to develop our own love engine, boldly pursue our own love, and guide our love development. To date, watch movies, and have a candlelight dinner. Do not scale in and out. My understanding of the engine is the engine, that is, playing the backbone role, leading role, and being a navigation lamp.

7.Do not get along with each other with rational thinking

In a world where two people get along, they cannot be treated with rational thinking. There is no need to figure out who is right or wrong. This is not a program. It is the emotional world of two people. Programmer, it is best to tease a girl to make her happy and make her happy. Girlfriends are always right. As long as the principle is not involved, OK!

8.Do not jump out of the loop too early

Some friends, it's hard to find a girlfriend and get along with each other for less than two weeks or one month. He felt that his girlfriend was too sensitive and he felt that his temper was too bad. This is what programmers often make when writing programs again. They jump out of the loop too early and jump out of the program. In fact, in Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen, Guangzhou, two weeks or one month, there will be 1-3 real opportunities to meet each other. Often, 1st impressions are not comprehensive and accurate.

Only when there are more interactions and contacts can we better understand each other and discover their advantages. Whether you are suitable for the other party or the other party.