Programmers must plan four things before the age of 35

In the forum, I often see questions about the career of 35-Year-Old programmers. Some of them write ten years of code, and some are interested in programming, here are four suggestions for programmers aged 30-35: * Take care of your healthIn the past, I thought "money" was very important. As the saying goes, "Money is not a panacea, but there is no money." In the past, my focus was on income, but then I found that there is something more important than money. It is a "family". Before you get married, the concept of this family refers to the harmonious relationship between you and your parents. After you get married, the concept of home refers to how to maintain a family, including the relationship with the wife and children. In the IT industry, there is a gap between many people and their parents. They think that the previous generation is conservative and old-fashioned, and that many things cannot be communicated. In addition, many of my friends are doing a great job, but they finally get divorced. It's okay if you don't have any children. If you want to have more children, you have to have a goal, otherwise, just like the one on TV, what if I lose you and get it? But this family's belief has changed my opinion since the event of Leslie Cheung, that is, there is something more important than the family, that is, your "health ", this health includes both physical and psychological health. I think you have a home, but the whole family is dragged down because you are not healthy. Every day, I am watching your painful bottle hanging, more serious direct light, this leaves for those who cherish you only greater pain, you will C, C ++, C #, Java... what happened? At that time, you will think that all these connections are fart. It is already a great deal of happiness to be able to "eat, sleep, and laugh. Most of the people who are confused at the age of 35 are not prepared when they are in their twenties. What should they do if they want to be 45 years old? Some people say that the ratio of youth is knowledge, the ratio of middle age is wealth, and the ratio of old age is health. If you do not pay attention to your health, then the greater troubles will soon be solved, every stage of life has a role to play. You must learn to plan ahead. Otherwise, if you are not 50 years old, you may regret it when you are 40 years old. to be healthy, you must start with diet and exercise, more common knowledge is more meaningful than technologies that will be eliminated in a few years. * Learn to invest and manage moneyMany people think that investment and financial management require a lot of money. This is incorrect. Financial management personnel can accumulate a lot of money, and those who do not have financial management will also consume a lot of money, risk management is the first priority of Investment and Financial Management. No risk management is just like licking blood in a knife. Investment and financial management should be honed as early as possible. Do not take risks until the age of 40, at that time, you had no cost to fall down, and there were many ways to invest in financial management, not just real estate, stocks and other things, from saving, saving, and fixed storage... every step is learning. The key is to discover yourself from the investment process, and learn how to treat and even deal with yourself, so that you have the opportunity to achieve economic freedom one day earlier, don't worry about it. Investment and Financial Management should do what they can, and do not load anything beyond your capabilities. The best advice I give programmers is to pay attention to the economy, not be impetuous, and use speculation as an investment, this is not as reliable and secure as fixed storage. * Manage your contactsI think in addition to poor financial management, programmers also have many problems in interpersonal communication. Many people leave the company, and the whole person feels hollowed out, and there will be a kind of worry, in the past, when someone talked to me, it was because I was an employee of a certain company. Now, no one may miss me again. This is a typical network-related business crisis. The management of network connections is not about whether you have friends, but about whether you can help both powerful and powerful friends. Some people have a lot of friends, but if they really encounter difficulties, they can only provide spiritual support. Besides, they can't help any more. This means that the connections are still too thin. Don't always ask what other people can do for you? You also need to ask what you can do to others? I know how to appreciate others, instead of ignoring the hard work behind others like suffering from red eye disease. I only know the surface of jealousy. In this way, I will only narrow my path. There is a secret to operating your own network of people. First, you need to understand the value of your own existence. If there is no value, the business of people is empty, this is basically the same as having value but having no idea how to manage your network of people. The network of people is not the same as the trend. It refers to the time when you think about difficulties and treat people with generosity and sincerity, spending a hundred days is good, and people are not enjoying others. If you have a friend, don't waste your time on your child. * Cultivate a wide range of interestsIf a programmer does not have any interest except it, it is really dangerous. For example, if I am over 35 years old, I will be about 40 soon, however, I still write code every day. I am not interested in projects for the purpose of survival, but I think I will keep writing about it and start to strengthen my own business management or financial knowledge. What do you do if Guo Anding cannot play the computer in the future? He writes a book. What if his hands are useless? Let's just relay the voice. What if the voice is also dumb? Then I will return to the financial market, and let the disciples help me place orders. I will buy the orders on the left and sell them on the right. So I will continue playing this game... so there is not only one way in your life. You have to think about every aspect of your life, and a wide range of interests can help you jump off the current situation and see more. The above four points should not only be paid attention to by 35-year-olds, but may even be noticed by many people in their twenties. To be honest, many programmers seem to have a good shape, but their physique is very sloppy, A lot of people will not be able to spend the last two days and don't know what to say... come on.