Yijing tells us to pay attention to the time and position. The time is fleeting, but the position is gradually accumulated step by step. In our career planning, we should grasp our position as the top priority.
However, in many cases, we will fall into a position that is neither difficult nor high nor low. Of course, it will be uncomfortable to be in this position, but as long as you can understand the characteristics of this position, you will naturally be able to break away from embarrassment.
I. successful entry into the embarrassing position 1.1 Historical Review
In last October, my career had changed a lot. My friends who have read my previous articles should know that they have been paid more and more attention from the very beginning "when you don't meet each other" and later on. According to Yijing, the process has evolved from the initial stage to the second stage. There has been a lot of progress. If I follow my previous simple ideas, I may think that success is at hand and the road is bright.
After reading my two articles, yangwanfu reminds me in a chat on MSN: "You need to pay attention to the 9th and 3rd tips ." Thank you again for your help. My career has changed over the past few months. It is indeed the third stage of his speech. What's going on? Let me give it to you.
1.2 change again
Originally, I worked well in Project Team A. At the beginning, I was in the initial stage, so I had to do nothing. Then, in the same project group, I experienced a transfer and was appreciated. This leads to the second stage. The normal plan is that I will stay in the product release version of Project Team A, but there has been a change. The company decided to transfer me to Project Team B.
I cannot accurately calculate my company's considerations here, but I am sure that my position in the company has changed again. At present, there are more resources at hand than before, and the influence will increase. At the same time, there will be more opportunities for development. In any case, they are all developing in a better way.
Good friends in the company will think that my development in the company is on the right track and is getting better and better. Next, let's wait for a long salary promotion (I don't care about the promotion, and the long salary must be happy ). However, the current situation is self-knowledge, and it is not necessarily a comfortable position after development. My current situation is the kind of situation where I don't go down, not high or low.
1.3 embarrassing location
There is a saying that when you have a leader, he will want you to pay 100% of your energy. When you have two leaders, they will all want you to pay 100% of your energy, and then you need to spend 200% of your energy to meet their requirements at the same time.
Someone will say, "coordination! Otherwise, I will not be exhausted ." Right, now I am constantly coordinating. I need to participate in project group A and Project Group B as mentioned above, and a project group C that is not mentioned will also require me some energy. In addition, I do not belong to project group A or Project B, c members, but belong to the scope of the preparation of the public group D. Pretty messy, friends.
If everything is good, it is bad.
At the same time, I can participate in the work of multiple project teams, indicating that I can use more resources at hand. These resources are sufficient for me to develop towards the role of the architect; at the same time, more resources will play a more important role in the company.
What's worse? It's also very obvious. Although there are so many resources that can be used, I do not have a good bit ". It is said that multiple projects are involved, but in other words, they are everywhere ".
Really, the position is not high or low. Some friends may also have such a stage in their career development. The specific situation may not be the same, but it must be the same if there is something embarrassing.
Next, let's take a look at what yangwanfu's friends once reminded me about the 9th and 3rd regions.
2. Complete the day and evening
9. III: The gentleman is always dry, and the evening is fierce.
Heaven, tianxingjian. Here, "Qian" means self-improvement. "Gentleman, we should strive for self-improvement. Even at night, we should be alert, as if there are any dangerous things around. If you can listen to me, so there will be nothing to worry about."
There were some improvements in the second stage. How did we go one step further and the situation become worse?
In fact, it is reasonable to think about it. Things should develop in a way that is interesting. In the previous phase, I was happy when I "saw dragon in the field", and then I "liked to see adults ". When I make another step forward, it will turn into the sky and the ground. If you give up now, the previous work is in vain and you have to stick to it. This should be the only effective way to face embarrassment.
III. The most critical part of the transition period is Ma Zijun.
Calm is an impatient monarch, and now I am in a disturbing position. At this time, if you cannot settle down, but are eager for success, the result is likely to be abandoned. This reminds me of many small software companies, which were very good at the beginning, but often won't work in less than two or three years. One of the reasons is not calm enough.
The transition period is very important for our development in the company or for our survival in the society. During the transition, the most important thing is to be able to withstand the embarrassment of being unable to cope.
There are two types of tolerance: Negative tolerance-in this case, don't get down, just let it go. If you're lucky, go up; the other is positive resistance-constantly striving for self-improvement, constantly looking for opportunities for the next change, striving to enrich yourself and improve your strength.
That is better. You can see it at first glance.
3.2 bright future
I don't know how long it will take for me to stay on March 9, maybe several years, but maybe several months. However, the next round is very good. ": Or jump in the yuan, no blame ". In the fourth stage, the initiative is completely in your own hands, either in the sky or in the abyss.
The reason why the current position is embarrassing is that the initiative is not on its own, so it cannot go down. When the time is ripe, the situation will be the opposite when the Development reaches the fourth stage, and the initiative will be on its own, so you can get up and down. The outlook is beautiful, and the reality is still cruel. I hope that the future will become a better position.
My blog is actually viewed by many people in the same company. It may include my supervisor. But to be honest, it will certainly not cause any trouble. The main purpose of this article is to share your ideas for your reference. If you have any good suggestions, don't be stingy. I am very grateful for your advice.