Reply to "Do I want to prevent a boyfriend who is a Java developer from working for a startup company?" The question of garden friends

Really very happy to receive so many friends of the concern, see so much reply to the feeling around love everywhere. Thank you very much for helping me to make a suggestion, the little woman here has ceremony!

Let me first answer the question of gender (which has been exposed before ...). ), I am the front Cheng. Big Three o'clock and boyfriend in love, because he I became Cheng. There are still in the school of the park friends, hurriedly find the target training up. The friends who have already worked are also given opportunities to cultivate, but it may be more convenient to pick up a male/female friend or a friend from around. Please do not shy, now male and female imbalance, for other men to solve the other half of the way is to find a friend. Please also believe that a good friend is also love!

Here, also give everyone a reply, my boyfriend did not go to start-up companies, selected other companies.

This choice may be more or less affected by me, some people may think I am nosy. I think it's normal to have this idea, because everyone has their own ideas and opinions, and we have no right to interfere with what others are doing. But as family members, relatives, I feel obliged to consider for each other, the obligation here is not mandatory to ask the other party to do what you say, but to give the benefit of his advice. As a child, my family did not allow me to play, do not let me picky eaters, do anything to tube. Childhood do not understand, but not obedient and not, on the secretly play Aboveboard picky eaters (as a child like crying, adults have no way to develop the bad habit). When really grow up only to find, hadn't ah. The world has all the medicine, but no regret medicine. Now adult, it is time to make their own decisions, as long as they do a clear conscience, failure and why not? So how do we get a clear conscience? I think we all know that we can also identify who cares about themselves. Listen to the advice of your family and friends, and even if you don't do what they say, communicate with them and say what you think, I think they will support it.

As his future wife, I feel I should be a part of my family, and I will respect him and support him no matter what choice he makes. Because that's his thoughtful choice, I think I'd be more than happy to "buy him a cake and congratulate him on finding a new job." Or "Yes, congratulations, please take the elder sister to eat dinner ~".

I think we all have our own opinions about choosing a big company or a small company. Everyone can go to see "destroy the tireless-big company small Company", I think write very good. Whether you choose a big company or a small one, if you want to be clear, what does it matter if the results are passable?

　　

Reply to "Do I want to prevent a boyfriend who is a Java developer from working for a startup company?" The question of garden friends