"There are people who go farther because they know."

my greatest positive energy source is a beautiful white beauty of diligent girl. She studied in a Beijing university, a two-year master of Finance, has now graduated from a bank in Beijing branch to work. During the year of research, she did the following things: (1) Professional ranking top 3%, the key is the most I have a headache of advanced microeconomics and Advanced econometrics, he has 90+, one of them even 95+; (2) Examination of the CFA level and two, examination of the CPA's five Door ; (3) While learning she also leisurely internship, two companies are ranked in the country's top brokerage.

last winter, in such a grim job hunting situation, she also unavoidably stumbled, in the hometown of the capital city to get a relatively good offer, family inevitably advised her: "Come back, why buttonhole Beijing." But she quietly said to her friends: "I do not have to stay in Beijing, but I studied in Beijing for more than a year of harvest, more than my university four years of harvest, and sometimes think even more than the more than 20 years before my harvest." This growing sense of fullness, let me reluctant to give up. "

now she's in the job. Just work occasionally with friends ramble, oneself was assigned to a small prosperous branch when the teller, exhausted to a door will sleep in bed. I narrowed my eyes, I want her to take an examination every six o'clock in the morning on time to get up, shine sit 12-hour silhouette, think she now white shirt suit sat to receive a stack of banknotes, and then skillfully operate. I think even as she said, it is a small-boom branch, I also seem to see her future, must be shine.

See here, even I mistook this is a genius story. But my sister in high school immediately said to me: "Our school this year's entrance examination champion, to 723 points of the total score won the province runner, to their achievements incredibly various dissatisfaction, score out of a few days to go back to school study English." This is called Genius good! "

So, I'm not talking about a genius story. Because there will always be people in this world who have a shorter time than you to review and test higher scores. I just want to say that in the same growing environment, people always walk faster and farther because they are aware of themselves.

Perhaps in the eyes of a better man, her grades are extremely easy. They do not even need to death to test, they can successfully protect to the elite schools, and do not have to do their best to prepare, they can get the envy of envy hate offer. But three years ago, she and I graduated from college, in the past four years, we in a classroom, listening to the same class to write the same homework, the same complaints to do the same question.

three years later, I have been left behind by her far away, even only to see the front of the dusty, even the figure is missing. That piece of dust behind, is not only the lack of knowledge and lack of, I am missing, but also the courage to face difficulties and the pursuit of self-challenge.

I didn't know it was due to innate inertia, or panic frustration, I used to set myself a variety of life boundaries. For example, I just do not understand the accounting thinking, I am not the futures market complex operation, I just do not understand the econometrics course ...

The more I grew up I even learned to escape, encountered the problem will always use "anyway will not be engaged in this work" or "anyway write paper also use not those theoretical deduction" to comfort themselves, find a myriad of reasons to avoid those knowledge system of the mishap. I also do not know the future of life and work, will not be because of the lazy now and avoid the fall, but now, I finally understand, even if not a somersault, I also poor others too much.

The world is changing too fast, others are flying all the way, if only you stop, because Rory the reason to give yourself excuses to avoid learning and accumulation, you will not only be the same age, later will have a large number of large numbers of people from behind to surpass your level. When I regretted it, it was really late.

One of my most esteemed teachers at the meeting said, "Students and young people of your age can be seen as a growing tree." It is important for you now not to focus on how prosperous the branch is, but how to get it deeper. Because, only the root of the deeper and stronger, the tree can be more upright and lush. "

at that time do not listen to, think this truth who do not understand it. Now, this is the simplest truth, I only understand after six or seven years. I think the implication of the teacher's words is: When you are young, you must not set limits for yourself, and when you do everything you can to learn and try new things and experiences, you accumulate the experiences and lessons of life. Only in this way can we stick to a firm and solid foundation that absorbs nutrients and grows upright. Can look back at their rickety fragile roots and poor nutrition branches, only feel betrayed the teacher's ardent teachings.

last month, I focused on a public number called "New changes every day for the next 30 days," which lists a number of things that can be changed, and as a frequent complaining, disgruntled person I picked the little thing that "don't complain every day."

One months later, I was surprised to find myself not only to maintain a smooth and calm mood every day, to get rid of the anxiety that often bothers me, more importantly, the whole life and the future attitude has become positive.

never before had I seriously thought about the destructive effects of my "often complaining, grumbling" shortcomings, and later felt that perhaps the negative emotions of life, such as anxiety, easy abandonment, self-distrust, and so on, originated from this.

The original is not only in the knowledge structure and learning, life I give Myself "set limits" also everywhere. For example, because their body is more rigid, the first time in the university yoga class, a lot of simple action can not do, but then the yoga coach mistakenly thought I do not want to do seriously, very harshly scolded me: "You can not seriously complete an action?!" "

so, until now, I firmly remember the embarrassment and embarrassment at the time, reluctant to learn yoga. When people ask me, I always say to myself, "I am that stiff body, I just can't do yoga." "In fact, the yoga instructor may just say a word, but let me brood for several years, so I have been missing through yoga this sport to change their physical fitness opportunities." Borrow a friend more aggressive scold law, is "Do not blind DAO, you are every day broken on the ground can't stick up the glass heart!" "

now, I do not want to use the body stiffness as an excuse to refuse to practice yoga, and do not want to be a good figure as an excuse to refuse to learn to swim, do not want to trouble no time for excuses to refuse in front of a makeup, also do not want to ether far from the bad weather as an excuse to refuse to plan a trip.

before always say a word, youth so precious, as if how to spend all is a wave. I do not know whether to soak in the library study room, or to read travel to see the magnificent world. Genius are still admired by all, resigned to travel to the traveler also preach their values, in fact, most of us are confused, the way to settle down in doubt. So there is a constant exploration, constantly overturned, and ultimately find their own path.

I do not know the way to the future, or how to Live is "will not regret" the "right" life, I just want to constantly try to live in the new things, not easily give up, not easily say no, keep a curiosity, will live more and more rich, will narrow life more and more wide.

abandon the "I can't", "I do not" "I do not" the spirit of bacteria, go to the broader life of the work! 　　

"There are people who go farther because they know."