Thoughts on Ma Jun and Huang Jia's marriage

 
Did you watch the TV program on Jiangsu TV regarding the marriage between Huang Jia and Ma Jun?
 
First, I declare that I am not targeting all the people named Huang Jia.

But after reading it, I really think that Huang Jia is disgusting. The following is a post on Huang Jia's blog:
The first time I saw the following post, it was posted three months ago by the female in February. I felt that this was an absolute rumor. it was a scam. I think that in China, we can depend on **, we can have Liu **, and we can have Hu * Qing, but we should not have such a thing.
　　
However, I found that I was wrong and completely wrong. I watched TV this evening and saw the prelude to the super mediation program. I felt so familiar that I came into my mind and rushed to the computer, after searching this post, it was actually true. It happened to the Chinese people in the state of courtesy ......
　　
　　
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My husband is not a man. He beat me !!!
　　
　　
I posted a post when I was upset and desperate. I even wanted to die.
　　
To be honest, my husband is very nice to others. He is very nice to me and loves me very much. He has been married to him for six years. He has never beat me, or even scolded me. But I didn't expect that today he beat me so badly because of a few things. He pulled my hair and pressed me to the ground, so no one beat me like this, my head was bleeding from him. Is he human?
　　
The story goes like this: yesterday morning, my husband got up and planned to go to work. Someone rang the bell, so I went to open the door. As soon as I opened the door, I was very upset. It turned out that his rural parents had arrived. They were wearing only the clothes of rural people, and they had a big pocket in their hands.
　　
When his father saw me open the door, he swallowed up and said that he had come to see us and said that he hadn't been here for a long time. He missed us. By the way, he came to see his grandson.
　　
I was not happy when I heard of it. I had been there six months ago, and I used 5000 yuan to send them away. Now I come to estimate that I am asking for money again. What kind of specialty in the pocket is dug in the rural area, ugly and dirty, it is not enough to eat.
　　
But in my husband's face, I have been holding back. They just wanted to come in and I said to them: Put the slippers on, don't get dirty on the floor.
　　
As I said, his parents are even more restrained. They don't come in slowly.
　　
My husband just took his briefcase and was ready to go to work. At first glance, his parents arrived. He hurriedly invited his parents into work, arranged their parents to sit down, and then went to work, when I leave, I will wait for his parents to get off work. Don't leave just half a day.
　　
My company had a holiday early, so my husband asked me to help him take care of his parents when he went to work. I'm not happy, so I have to show it.
　　
His parents sat on the sofa and watched TV. After watching the TV for a while, his father wanted to drink water, so he tried to drink it with a cup. I quickly walked over and took the cup, I gave him a disposable cup.
　　
Later, his mother asked me how Xiao Lei was not at home, so I went to school. In fact, if I am not at school, I do not want my son to see them. The last time my son went to my hometown in rural areas for a winter vacation, I learned a lot about dirty habits in rural areas, later, I never allowed my son to go to the countryside and try to prevent him from dealing with people in his hometown.
　　
When I was upset in my room, I suddenly called in. I had a data table in the company and asked me to finish it.
　　
So I quickly took a leather bag and planned to rush to the company. I suddenly remembered that his parents were still in my house. If I left, no one would be in the house and I was not at ease.
　　
So I used to say to his dad, "I have something to do when I go to the company.
　　
His dad said: Well, you're busy with you. Don't worry about us.
　　
I said: there is a playground under the community. You can sit there and bask in the sun. Good for bones and muscles
　　
As soon as his dad heard me, he understood what I meant. So they went down and I went to work.
　　
There is a lot of data. I had to make it back at four o'clock P.M.. My husband hasn't returned yet. I threw his parents' pockets into the garbage collection of the Community and prepared dinner.
　　
At, my husband came back and asked me where they were. I didn't know. I told him the story just now, so he hurried to the playground to find it. Half an hour later, he came back angrily.
 
 

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2. Did you watch the TV program on Jiangsu TV regarding the marriage between Huang Jia and Ma Jun?

As soon as he came back, he shouted to me: You went to work in your class. Why did you drive them out?
　　
I said: When I went to work, there was no one in the house. The old people didn't know about these appliances or anything. In case of wrong dialing, It would be troublesome.
　　
He continued to scold me: I have never seen a woman like you. I have searched the whole community and haven't seen them. Please contact me immediately.
　　
When we were just about to find out, the call came in. It turned out that he was calling his father. He suddenly talked to Yan Yue and his father. It turned out that his parents had already gone home, his dad said he just wanted to see us. Now that we have to go to work, he went back.
　　
He and his dad have been around for a long time. I think it will be okay if both of his parents go back.
　　
After he finished the call, he punched me in and targeted my head. I thought Venus went straight and fell to the ground. I was blinded. Oh, my God, I have been married for six years, he never beat me. I suddenly shed tears.
　　
He continues to rush over, ride on me, aim at my head, his body is a storm-like fist, beat and scold: cheap woman, you cheap woman.
　　
I'm desperate, and I'm still crying, let him fight.
　　
He beat me with blood before giving up. Then he went back to the room and went to bed. I lie on the ground, tears until dawn.
　　
I was desperate. Really, I didn't care that he was from the countryside, he was poor, and he was with him.
　　
I want to divorce him. I will never forgive him!

[Poster] (1): Is it just a North-South difference? After reading Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Super mediation", it's quite uncomfortable
After reading Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Super mediation", I am in a heavy mood. Many posts on the Forum have said things about North-South differences, but the story I want to tell right away involves not only this, but also human dignity, marriage variations, and chilling so-called love.

A Shanghai girl is in love with a young man from the north. The girl is from a local place and the young man is from a rural area in the north. It should be said that the living background of the two men is quite different, and there are many sensitive issues in it, such as urban and rural issues, North-South issues, and rich-and-poor issues. The two men's wedding rooms are expensive, but it is estimated that the two men are not safe because of the conflict after marriage.

Conflict 1: when the male's parents come to the son's house in Shanghai, after a while, the female's friends also need to borrow the female's house for various reasons. Naturally, the female is full of promises, but as soon as a friend enters the house, he finds that the woman's in-laws are also there. As soon as she says she wants to leave the house, she insists on staying, so her friend stays with him. The next morning, the woman's in-law went silently.

Conflict 2: The woman thinks that her in-laws are difficult to cook. The original saying is "every time you make such a big pot, it's disgusting .", Please note that this is said in front of the host, in-laws, and in the husband. I think she has the direct and naive virtues, or someone who has studied the North-South gap has come to speak, however, if someone notices the girl's expression, they will find that it shows dislike, contempt, and disdain. It has never been concealed. I am afraid this will not gradually become a habit of north and south, more are the defects in education and personality. In contrast, my mother-in-law's evaluation of daughter-in-law: she is still good to us. This sounds bitter. This mother-in-law does not have the ability to serve daughter-in-law.

In other words, the most "great" character in the family-the female's mother has appeared. Although I try to keep myself objective, but in my personal feelings, this is really a very annoying lady in the city. Just listen to her,

She said she didn't like this son-in-law. She spent only 1 million yuan on the wedding for her daughter. The conversation was filled with pride.

She said that there is no reason for her daughter to give birth to a child with her maiden name, but I think the reason is self-evident, similar to the fact that a rich man gives birth to a third-party woman.

After a daughter has a child, she will not allow her grandmother to hold the child because "the rural people are unhealthy and it is not good to infect the child". Here, let me describe the face of this woman, she first denied it. Later she asked her son-in-law, the "elegant" woman first gave a glance at her mouth, and slowly floated to the host while looking forward, then you said, "You know that rural people always have bad hygiene habits. Our children are very delicate. I am afraid that she will cry in her grandmother's arms. ", She uses the word "we" and naturally draws a line with the other party.

She asked her son-in-law to apologize, saying that she spent 1 million but slapped her daughter (which sounds like buying a thoughtful family-style service with money ), the son-in-law defended that she was angry with her mother because she was insulted. If she wanted to apologize, she also asked her mother to apologize. After hearing the son-in-law's words, she grabbed her daughter and went away, to divorce.


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3. Did you watch the TV program on Jiangsu TV regarding the marriage between Huang Jia and Ma Jun?

I watched this farce on TV and felt sad only for this man. Didn't he see his old mother as a helpless child who had been wronged? Didn't he feel contempt and disdain for himself from his wife and mother-in-law? In such a humiliating life, when should he let his mother endure? This is the greatest thing in the world.

If he is a real man with backbone, if he can cherish his dignity as a person, then divorce! If there is no place in Shanghai, you can go to another city. Can a big man still find a place? Besides, he is already wrong. Before he got married, why did he choose to continue with his family of mother-in-law who lacks education and emotion? Is it for the so-called love? Or to live a life without having to struggle? If it is the former, it can only be said that he is not rational enough. If it is the latter, it is his own humiliation, and even an outsider I want to marry him.

I have nothing to say about the Shanghai woman who broke down 1 million. This is a person who does not even have the respect and friendliness between basic people, an out-of-style excitalist, a person who has been buried for half a lifetime by money, has lost her life.

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[Landlord] (2): Female: Huang Jia from Shanghai; male: Ma Jun from Shanghai
　　
Two college students got married six years ago. I have been working in Shanghai. A male graduated from a famous university in Shanghai and has beautiful women.
　　
According to the woman's introduction in the program, this is the first time that a male's parents came to Shanghai. The female was not happy, saying that a friend invited her to stay at home for a few days and forced her parents to return to Liaoning, which was just a thousand miles away.
　　
The name of the child seems to be Ma lei. When she was born, she wanted her son to be surnamed Huang. Later, the mother-in-law proposed that the child be called Ma huang. Failed.
　　
When a male's parents come to Shanghai, they want grandchildren, and their babies want to hug, the mother-in-law thinks that male parents are dirty and have infectious diseases. I am afraid that my mother will break down my child, and my mother will say that all the children are crying to attract a classic saying that your children in rural areas are too crude to handle our children.
　　
During mediation on the court, the male mother first came up and went to the stage to apologize. The female mother rushed to the stage in the middle of the mediation and shouted for half an hour. When paying for the face of Shanghai residents, they look down on the faces of outsiders.
　　
Finally, under mediation by the Mediator, the male gave in and apologized. The male's father also told his son in a thick phone call and apologized.
　　
I reluctantly accept the apology, but refused to apologize, saying: Welcome to our house!
　　
　　
The Chinese are the best.