Tutorial computer (III)

The old lady is a very emotional person. If you boast that she is comfortable, you will find that she is no longer awkward. Then, even if you say that she understands wrong, she will cooperate to understand what you mean, instead of defending yourself with a high profile. I found that she needs to be praised very much. After being praised, people will become gentle, instead of the hedgehog ready to wear armor at any time. I think she needs to know that others accept her. If she knows that others accept her, she will be able to relax and her understanding will be improved a lot.

It is said that children who lack love in childhood will always have fear, inconfidence, and tension in their hearts after adults. This is my mother's estimation. They had to suffer too much in that year and year. I guess the childhood of her old man said "love", and it is estimated that even survival is difficult. It is said that when I was a child, my mother was sent to an orphanage run by the Americans because she was poor. Later, she died of illness, and her name was listed on the list of children to be killed. She was seen and taken home again by her neighbors, to return a life. I guess her childhood experience should be poor, depressed, lacking in love and fear. In fact, many aggressive people in daily life are also those who lack love.

With this writing, I suddenly realized that many of my habits that upset me may come from deep-seated anxiety. She needs more tolerance. Think about ourselves. What do we need most when we are in a hurry to collapse? No, what we need is a strong hug, right?

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