Why didn't I go anywhere?

When I was 18 years old, I went to college and asked you what your ideal was. When I was 22 years old, I went to college. After I got a job, I went back to work. When I was 26 years old, my job was stable, you say you have bought a room and then say that you have a car and a room at the age of 30. You say you want to take your wife together when you get married. If you have a child at the age of 35, you say you want to take a bigger child; the 40-Year-Old has grown up. You said you had to raise the old man and then went there. At last, you didn't go anywhere."

This sentence is displayed on Weibo. As I read today about the various comments of Dongdong's book next year on Douban. Most people do not hide their envy and yearning for the living conditions of travel, wandering, traveling far away, and on the road. They all say that they can freely and freely go on their own. However, most people have said that they can't leave now. The distant dream is unrealistic, Utopia, no money, poor English, and how to travel without work or income ...... Many reasons. And youth is gone for one reason after another.

I can't help remembering another thing. Whenever someone else knows that my major in college is psychological, more than 90% of people will immediately show that they are interested in psychology and want to learn it. However, few of these people have actually borrowed psychology professionals. Most people just talk about it and will never put it into action. Do they want to learn? I believe it is. I just don't think so much about it. I didn't try to learn psychology in my spare time and try to read a professional psychology book. They have many reasons: They don't have time, they are tired of going to work, they have children at home who can't read books, they are under pressure to read books, they are preparing for other exams recently, and so on. So they will never learn psychology, but they will always just want to learn it.

Thanks to myself, I have always been a female with amazing mobility. If you want to do something, you have to do it. Everything is empty in your mind. Even if the result is different from the expectation, you will not regret your efforts. Just as I did not hesitate to choose my dream psychology as a major a few years ago, even though there were many twists and turns, there is no such thing as a happy result, but I never regret it. The process of moving forward toward my dream and striving for it again and again makes me know that it seems like something on the cloud is generally out of reach, and it is not that far from doing it.

A dream is actually at your fingertips. The key is whether you have tried to reach out to it.

Ask people if they want to travel, if they want to wander far away with their bags, or travel around China or the world. I believe most people will think about it. But few really do. The most difficult part of this is not money, not English, but whether you have the courage. As a traveler said, when you decide to start, the most difficult part of the trip is over.

Recently, I began to question my original plan with a strong desire to start. Do you want to wait until March 13, next September? Is it necessary to wait until next September? By next September, can I make the trip as expected? Will there be some unexpected obstacles?

I originally set my departure in next September for two reasons: I don't have much savings on hand. In order to be able to take a long time, I have to save more money, this takes time. Second, I am afraid I have to deal with job-seeking problems after traveling or returning from a trip. It may be easier to find a job with more work experience.

Now, I have overturned my arguments. For money, by September this year, we have been able to carry a savings on the road. Taking the cheapest train, living in the cheapest Youth Tour, eating the cheapest food, spending no money, or picking up high tickets can take some time, if you gradually master some poor game skills on the way, you may be able to extend it. I think this is enough. As a matter of fact, it is unknown whether I can stick to the journey for a month for the first time, and the planning is too long. Is there a huge difference between one year and one year in terms of job qualifications. What's more, if I want to change the industry, my previous work experience will play a lower role.

In fact, these are superficial reasons. The deepest reason is that I am worried that once the incident is delayed, it will be like the first part of the article-"In the end, you have not gone anywhere ."

I am worried that, even if I am highly motivated, whether I can keep this ideal or dream in the face of the complicated world. Will your dreams be wiped out by reality before March next September. In other words, after one year and three months, I can leave all my firm efforts to take this step. Once any "unexpected" occurs, such as the sudden arrival of love, such as the sudden emergence of a good job-hopping opportunity, such as unexpected family changes .... this makes it impossible to make a line in next September, So when will the next line become. When I gradually gain more chips and desire in my life's game, do I still have the courage to let everything go.

Suddenly, I found myself unable to start because of money and work, and I will not be able to leave myself until next September. In fact, I envy those who have given me many reasons for no action, isn't it the same.

"At last, you didn't go anywhere ."

 

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