Yu Minhong: You can't do big things without being able to control your emotions.

Yu Minhong: You can't do big things without being able to control your emotions.

On the afternoon of June 23, October 20, the first activity of beiqing education lecture hall was held in the Conference Room of Beijing Youth newspaper, mr. Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental Education Technology Group, presented his own experiences and experiences with the wonderful lectures on "successful abilities and qualities.

In his lecture, Yu Minhong focused on three major parts: work ability, social ability, and self-ability. As an entrepreneur, he also talked about entrepreneurial ability, business ability, and leadership ability.

Yu Minhong believes that success is the success of mentality. Everyone can stick to difficulties and difficulties, understand and resolve obstacles encountered in life, and open the way for themselves. This is the success. He believes that success must be able. The first is the ability to work. Everyone works in the early stages of society. There are two other capabilities that are very important. The first one is professional competence, that is, the ability to make full use of the capabilities that others cannot do, and the ability to integrate capabilities that others cannot train.

Work Ability

All capabilities have a rising channel

Speaking of talent, Yu Minhong said: "For example, Yao Ming is naturally tall. Even if we are as flexible as Yao Ming, we cannot play basketball without that height. Like Jay Chou, he was born with a voice that could not be clearly spoken, which is also a talent for him to become a king singer. Some people look like they do, and we have a lot of talent ."

"What you do with extreme labor capabilities is something someone else can't replace. For example, Li suli, she can sell car tickets to the national labor model and National People's Congress representatives. In fact, as long as you love it, you can do it to the extreme ."

Yu Minhong believes that most people have technologies. Conversely, if we want to develop better in our society, we need technologies that others cannot achieve. You cannot do anything better than others, also, practice makes perfect and is also a technical capability. The ability to work can be converted into technical capabilities, and the ability to work can be converted into research and creative capabilities. Therefore, there is a channel for Improving the ability.

Yu Minhong believes that there are no high or low levels of these six capabilities, but that people need to take up one of them based on their own capabilities. Which one is suitable for their own capabilities? If there is no such thing, we will surely be respected by the people in the ultimate realm of labor. He said: "We want to live and focus on our own health. Otherwise, it will be inversely proportional. If your company is doing well and you are younger, but you are not healthy, you have to worry about your health every day. Therefore, the premise of pursuing happiness, happiness, and struggle is to ensure our physical and mental health and happiness. This is a very important prerequisite ."

Social Ability

Working with others is essential for your career

With regard to integrity, Yu Minhong said: "We emphasize integrity in China. However, because China's social process is very fast and the establishment of business has not yet reached the standards, there will be hooligans."

He also said: "On the other hand, people must be good. The first is to set rules, and the second is to encourage people. That is, the rules must not be broken. Otherwise, people will feel that they do not know what your rules are. Therefore, it is easy for people who have rules and are good at encouraging them, the probability is very small. When both integrity and encouragement are in place, this system is established. That is to say, this is an inevitable trend. In the future, the credibility system will be gradually established, which takes time to establish ."

Yu Minhong believes that cooperation and cooperation are an important part of his work. With regard to cooperation and cooperation capabilities, he gave a very vivid example: "For example, if the Lions are really not hungry, they will also prey on elephants, one time, eight lions put down a bull, enough for everyone to eat, but they will also bite each other and compete for food. Then they will lick each other after eating. But the wolf will be very powerful, and they will not hurt their partners. They just killed a rabbit and will eat it together. Neither the wolf nor the wolf can starve to death. Their order is very good, so it is impossible for an organization to have no order. In addition, a wolf has the survival of the fittest, and the first wolf has another wolf challenge every year. If it fails, it will go to the lonely grassland on its own. This is what we talk about in enterprise management. Therefore, we are working with people every day. This capability is also very important. It is also a necessary capability for your career.

Self-Ability

Cannot control emotions, cannot do big things

Yu Minhong said: "We live in different societies and groups every day. Couples must also control their emotions, while dealing with people must also control their emotions. People who cannot control their emotions cannot do big things, just like Zhang Fei and Guan Yu. Although they are talented, they cannot control themselves. In the end, something went wrong. Liu Bang has never heard of him angry, so if Liu Bang has no control over his own capabilities, he will not have the history of the Han Dynasty in 400. Therefore, the control of emotions is not an embodiment of your own tenacity ."

Yu Minhong believes that endurance is what children need now: "endurance is also very important. This is what we need for young children now. It's like a child's foot is stinking and throwing smelly so everywhere. Of course this is not correct, but another child threw the so downstairs, and then he didn't control himself. The so picked up a fruit knife and stabbed it into the other's heart. The child died on the spot and was put in jail for 18 years. In this way, two very beautiful young years will disappear. When a person says something bad about you, don't say that the other person's character is low, but think about whether you are not doing well. If you are doing well, but the other person wants to say it, you have to talk about it ."

"A successful person should also have the ability to judge, and the time to judge things ." He said, "a wrong thing is wrong at the wrong time, and the right thing is wrong at the wrong machine. As we all know, Sun Tzu's Art of War is the most typical book. So many military forces in China have used Sun Tzu's Art of War to win a lot of battles, however, many people use Sun Tzu's Art of War to lose their lives. Like Ma Yi, the Street Pavilion fell down, and he was also the back of Sun Tzu's Art of War, but the enemy besieged him on the mountains, and there was no food or water. He finally failed ."

Yu Minhong stressed that physical health is the first condition for hard work: "I have been working in New Oriental for 15 years and I am still working, therefore, we must ensure that both our health and our psychology are healthy. Many of our disabled people are more mentally healthy than normal people, just like hawking, so we have to exercise from a young age ."