[ZT] I 've struggled for 18 years before I sat down with you for coffee.

My white-collar friends, I have made great efforts for something that is readily available to you.

From the moment I was born, my identity is quite different from yours, because I can only report to the rural hukou, and you are a city hukou. If I keep my registered permanent residence in rural areas when I grow up, I will not be able to find a formal job in the city, and I will not be able to enjoy pension and medical insurance. So I want to go to the city, and I want to get the big city account that you have when you are born through my own struggle.

Being Admitted to college is my only chance to jump out of farming. I fought hard on the zhuanqiao and watched my classmates fall into a batch. The road was getting narrower and narrower. I was a leader, but I don't know whether I was happy or worried.

However, the pressure on your study is much lower, the competition is not so fierce, and your homework is not very heavy. If you don't want to take the college entrance examination so hard, as long as the score is not too poor, you can have a chance to receive a place to pass in the third year of high school, even if the score is poor, it will also be scanned into a local tri-stream University, and I may have to get a high score for that tri-stream University, because the number of places allocated by region is too large for Shanghai.

Our exams are the same, but our scores are different. However, when we receive admission notices, the tuition fee is the same. I was lucky. I finally paid the tuition fee for the first year after I joined the student loan. I was not feeling in my heart when I looked at the students who were holding the admission notice and were so sad that the family was almost desperate. In the era of industrialization of education, universities recruit not only outstanding students, but also wealthy parents.

When I came to the metropolis of Shanghai, I found that compared with my classmates, I was really scum. I can't paint, play music, read martial arts novels, and recognize MP3. In order to understand the concept of "store-type supermarkets" in the marketing management class, I watched the product for a day in a curious manner, and I have never seen such a variety of products.

I have never touched a computer. For this reason, I spent half a year in the school room to learn the basic knowledge and operation skills you learned in middle school. Chinese and foreigners cannot understand English pronunciation. I can only spend another year correcting my pronunciation.

I can endure the ridicule of city students. If I don't have a toy dish for a few weeks, I can spend all my time in the library and study room on Saturday and Sunday, and I can run around the playground in the lonely and boring night. I think one day when I graduated, when I was able to earn a salary in this metropolis, I would be the same as your peers who grew up in the city-be a Shanghai citizen, my parents will also be proud of me because their children work in Shanghai!

After graduation, the salary of about 2000 yuan per month may be enough for you, but for me, I want to rent a house, I have to pay the water, electricity, coal, telephone fee, and student loans. I also want to send some money to my family so that my younger siblings can continue to study. The rest of the money is only enough for each meal, I still cannot sit in Starbucks with you for coffee!

Now I have completed my master's degree in Shanghai, and now I have a job with an annual salary of 70 thousands or 80 thousands. After 18 years of struggle, I can finally sit with you for a coffee. I have already integrated into this international metropolis, and it is no different from white-collar friends around me. However, I cannot forget the hard times of my struggle, the old classmates, and the long wishes they can never achieve. Every time I see a student fighting for fate, my heart will always have a heavy sense of responsibility.

When I was a master's degree in Shanghai, I once discussed a marketing case of Vida paper. One of my colleagues who had three years of work experience and were currently the personnel and administrative manager of a Sino-foreign joint venture company, propose a solution: We should push Vida paper to the market of 0.9 billion farmers by developing high-end tissue products. I was surprised by her courage to propose this solution. At that time, I asked her if she knew how the farmer's brother was dealing with greasy faces after dinner, and she looked at me doubtfully, I wiped two times with my hands on both sides of the corner of the mouth, so indecent action she cast a look of disdain.

In a macro-economics class, another of my classmates criticized laid-off workers and teenagers who drop out of school to work for farming: "80% because they did not work hard and did not learn a specialty when they were young, so now you are laid off! Can those students work while studying? It is said that many students can earn several thousand yuan a summer vacation. Are they still worried about tuition fees? "My classmate is not familiar with rural areas.

I was born in the 1970s S, and my peers are gradually becoming the mainstay of society. Our behavior will affect social and economic development. Fairness in this world is relative, and this is not terrible, however, it is terrible for the young people who have grown up in a superior environment to turn a blind eye to injustice.

it took me 18 years to sit with you for a coffee.