Lily NET expert: How to step in love 4 stages

Recently, the Lily network special expert Ranqi should be the invitation of the big Lecture hall, for the young workers of PetroChina Southwest oil and gas field, the doctors and nurses of Chengdu Third People's Hospital and the undergraduate students of Chengdu University have made the lecture about dating. The key content of Ranqi lectures is how to deepen the relationship between men and women in a step-by-step way. Ranqi divides men and women into 4 stages: The accosted stage, the cognitive stage, the dating stage and the couple stage. He explained that you found a man who attracted you, start a conversation with him, and then get his contact, which is the pick-up stage; When you have a contact, you can text or call him until you meet again, this is the stage of understanding; from the time you meet again, you go on dating until you say something or you're intimate. , this is the dating stage, the next is the couple stage, can enter the lovers stage, the pursuit even if successful, after the relationship between the impact of long-term relations, does not belong to the scope of this article. During the pick-up phase you noticed a nice heterosexual at the party and you wanted to meet him. Then you need to let him know that you wish, but you do not have to express your wish as a complete act, you just give enough signal, action to let him to finish, this is the attraction. The understanding stage enters the level of the cognition stage, in the intercourse you also may take the initiative, does not have to wait for him to contact you first. It doesn't make sense to stay reserved in this area, you can just text him and call him, talk a little, and build a habit between you and him--that's normal for you to connect with him. When you meet him in the dating phase, your relationship goes into the dating phase. In addition to the first time you hinted that he would like to ask you, you can take the initiative to ask him, such as the second can be to thank you for the first time he came to save you. Active attack at this stage is very important, find a variety of reasons to ask him out, contact with the more time he was tempted by you the greater the opportunity, this is the level of male thinking. The next point of the couple stage is to upgrade the dating relationship to the relationship, this time to return to the 9:1 law, completely throw the bosom is not smart, will hook up to both safe and stimulating. For example, you can say after a warm walk, "it's so cold today, feel cool" or "a little tired, really want to be able to rely on", and so the gang together on the time, almost finished the seduce. If you feel you need some more seasoning, you can quote some of the stories in romance novels.