The frequent use of "trumpet" causes the split of personality

　　The trumpet is also known as a vest, which is an account that is registered with a user in order not to let his true identity be found. Today, more than 70% people own the trumpet, and when they are using two different numbers, will show a different impression to the person, an account of his "very pure and serious", and another account on his "very evil", which is not "personality split", just because of the use of the trumpet. Some professionals believe that the "trumpet" of the frequent appearance, reflecting today's people a kind of self defense mentality.

Xiao Lu is the director of a TV dating program in Guangxi, because of the program, she needs and many guests on the program to contact. Just started work, she still use her usual QQ number and guests to communicate, but two months later, she resolutely applied for a job QQ, dedicated to contact with guests. She said: QQ is a relatively private thing, some mood and things do not want to let those unfamiliar people know, and, I want to separate their work and life. ”

Reporters in the survey found that many people have a "trumpet", and some people are also open to more than a "small". In this newspaper official Weibo "Do you have a trumpet?" The survey found that 76.4% admitted they had a trumpet and 23.5 said their trumpet was "often used"; 11.8% said no s, and 14.3% said that although there was no trumpet, "I recently wanted to open one." This shows that the opening of the "trumpet" has become a modern people in the network life is a more common phenomenon.

The use of "small" generally has three kinds of situations: one is to distinguish between life and work, do not want to share their feelings and privacy with more people, one is to avoid the elders, relatives and other "surveillance", there is only to play games or lottery.

Depth】

So "small" for what?

In Nanning, the work of a publishing house Lele opened a personal microblog "trumpet", she said it is to "be able to spit out the groove." Lele is a micro-blog control, when more and more people around her microblog, she felt a little "pressure Alexander", especially these followers also "latent" her colleagues and leadership. "At ordinary times, some things I do not like at work will spit on the micro-blog, once a leader suddenly asked me on the micro-blog complaining about one thing, scared I never dare to talk on the microblog." Lele felt that her private microblog had become a "monitor" for some people around her, which made her insecure, but she did not want to give up such a pressure platform, so "want to go or open a small bar."

In an interview, the reporter found that fear of being "watched" is one of the reasons why many young people use the trumpet. With the development of network technology, today's parents, also began to "tide" up, playing QQ and Weibo. Many of these young people are parents ' QQ friends, or they are concerned with their parents ' microblog. As a result, Weibo and QQ seem to have become parents ' monitors.

"Often just changed after the QQ signature, will have the parents ' telephone to be attentive." "Nanning, a citizen Cheng said, although the parents by observing his QQ signature to obtain his current situation, and then to care about him, he also felt warm, but more to make him feel uneasy." To this end, Mr. Cheng specifically applied for another QQ number to escape the parental "surveillance."

Problem】

"Trumpet" frequently used to split personality

The frequent appearance and use of trumpet also brings a lot of problems. A university counselor in Guangxi, Ms. Huang is a micro-bo control, usually work and life will use a different micro-blog account, and the work of Weibo fans are mostly her students. So, on the job Weibo, Ms. Huang is a "dignified" teacher, and on the microblog of life to restore their own "epilepsy Mania" of the original. For a long time, she often appear the phenomenon of improper operation, such as the content should be sent on the private micro-blog on the job microblog, there was a mistake, and even become students "gossip" of the conversation. This makes Ms Huang crazy, and even "this trumpet almost makes me mad." "And she feared that she would endanger her mental health in the long run.

Coincidentally, a netizen in various different websites use different account to express all aspects of their own, issued such an exclamation: "Micro-blog on my day up, I am in the space is dejected, everyone online I am funny cute, watercress in my is unrestrained uninhibited, sooner or later to split the personality Ah!"

Analysis】

"Trumpet" Highlights defensive psychology

"Trumpet" frequently appeared, refraction of what people today's psychological state? In this respect, Guangxi vocational and Technical College Mental Health Education Center Director Zhang Analysis, said that today's society, people are experiencing a crisis of trust, most people do not want to easily trust strangers, so they face different people use different "s", Defend itself by defending itself.

It is noteworthy that some network products operators also began to pay attention to the "small" phenomenon. In the recent upgrade of the new version of Sina Weibo, increased the "directed release" function, that is, you can selectively publish their microblog content to the people want to present, to a certain extent, to meet the users "privacy protection" needs.

So, how to successfully switch identities in various "trumpet", to avoid "personality split" and to maintain a healthy mentality? Zhang said that the existence of the self should be recognized in a positive manner and accepted and respected. At the same time, to have a strong open attitude, can fully accept a large number of information. In addition, you must have confidence in your ability and potential, to be "self-aware" and to further define your identity.