The survey says 20% people are not home for the Chinese New Year because of high prices and reminders of marriage.

Yesterday, the Spring Festival travel into the next day, "Home for the New Year" has become a hot topic in the city.　　"With an ideal outside, the ups and downs do not want to tell people ..." Baoqiang of a song "Money no Money Home for the New Year" Red over the north and south, because no matter where you are, in this special holiday, home, is always in the end of the desire to fight. Yet there are a group of young people who are struggling to return to their home, go home, need is high cost; Go home, need to face is the parents urge marriage this helpless but also bear pressure; home, need to give a gift of size to a lot more than their range ... "New Year" becomes a burden.　　Thus, the "fear of family" became their pronoun.　　What are they thinking about in the face of the coming reunion? Survey: 80% of respondents were scheduled to return home for the Spring Festival yesterday morning and noon, this reporter in Foshan railway station, ancestral temple, season Hua Yuan subway station and the North Korean children's clothing city distributed 50 questionnaires, the data showed that despite the rising prices, but this year still 80% of the respondents said they will not change their plans to go home, However, 20% of the respondents said that they will not go home this year, prices expensive, tickets difficult to buy, work busy, mom reminders marriage ...　　Have become the reason why they don't go home. "Fear to return" reason one: the price rises the expense to pay too much to bear back: The hand letter spends too many to wait for the living room in the Foshan railway station, Mr. Wang's baggage appears to be more conspicuous than other people.　　In addition to the two black suitcase and some woven bags, he also pulled a baggage car, which is loaded with a treasure brand gas cooker and the three Lang Tatsu soybean milk machine, packaging is very good. "This soya-bean milk machine is less than 100 yuan, two hundred or three hundred pieces at home." Mr. Wang said he would take some kitchen utensils every year, "last year we took a pressure cooker and went back." "The baggage of Mr. Ding's home is a dark blue canvas bag," said Mr. Ding, which has three down coats and is for the family. "My wife bought it and spent seven hundred or eight hundred dollars." "Prices have risen a lot this year," he said. Going home costs more than usual.　　"In Guizhou, Mr. Wei told reporters, although buy things are similar, but their own home this year to buy a hand credit more than 2000 yuan, more expensive than last year 20%."　　Not return: Not enough money to return to the small Deng last June, the first job was to find a network company in Foshan, work for several months, the monthly wages of 2500 yuan, excluding rent, traffic information, water and electricity and living expenses, there is nothing left. Her "home account" is such a calculation: Round-trip train ticket 600 yuan, to parents of the money is about 1000 yuan, no less than 500 yuan, other expenses, such as classmates, friends of the party will also close to 500 yuan. Because this time is the peak of the wedding, the gift will cost about 400 yuan, rough statistics at least 3000 yuan. Deng's year-end bonus is less than that. "Now prices are going up, and dozens of dollars of red envelopes are already out of hand." Xiao Deng said. Finally, for economic reasons, Deng decided to leave home after years.。　　In a survey of respondents yesterday, about 6% of respondents felt that "prices are too high to go home too expensive" so they chose not to go home. "Fear to return" reason two: parents urge to marry too lazy to listen to nagging home: Bring wedding photos home yesterday morning, in Foshan railway station waiting for the K841 train back to Guizhou Zunyi small Wei mood is very good. This is his wife who lives in the South China Sea after registering for marriage, the first time back to Guizhou hometown for the Spring Festival. "Finally married, the old man of the family no longer talk about me." Wei said he also prepared a big gift--the huge wedding photo, which he and his wife had just taken on New Year's Day.　　This gift is now brought home ready to give parents, not to take back to Foshan, hoping to make parents happy. Not return: Afraid of parents nagging no object However, in Nanzhuang a ceramic factory work Coguorong but not so worry, home in Maoming, mother frequently call: "When will you come back?" Can you bring a girlfriend home? Coguorong feel very helpless. Mother asked better, family relatives more long-winded, very unbearable. "Coguorong is only 25 years old this year, but he said, because the hometown people are married earlier," bring a girlfriend home also more face. "Fear return" reason three: The ticket is not good to buy work too busy to want to return: work too much block back home the road from Sichuan Miss Zhang had already bought the ticket of 21st, but because her husband's factory to work overtime, she had to return the ticket. "Originally glad to go home, husband said to work overtime until 26th." Miss Zhang was very disappointed. She said she was not sure after the refund, still can buy the ticket after 26th. She and her husband to work in Foshan for six years, only a year of spring festival back home.　　Now that the children are still home, they are eager to be reunited. Do not want to return: tickets too difficult to buy too lazy toss "tickets difficult to buy!" Every time I go home, I have to squeeze, like war. "Ms. Yao, who lives in the South China Sea, has just got married this year, and she plans to stay at her husband's house for the New years," he said. Xiao Xu is a Meizhou person, he also chose not to go home for the new year. "I just came out to work, and it doesn't matter if I don't go home."　　Xiao Xu said, his colleagues around are also ready to stay in Foshan for the new year.　　No, go home. In the survey, the House of the New Year has become a family choice in Foshan New Year's main way. "There is no girlfriend afraid of parents nagging will not go back, in this is certainly not like some of those who are dating so many programs, I intend to play the new Year at home playing games, watching movies, a relaxed year."　　Mr. Shen, who lives in Hui, said. And nearly 30% of the family is planning to take advantage of the opportunity not to go home to a short trip nearby. "The money to save the red envelopes is enough for me to soak in a hot spring." "Deng said.　　Nearly 20% of those surveyed said they would choose to spend the new year at relatives and friends in Foshan. Save money: Optional unique hand letter if from the point of view of saving money, rich in foshan characteristics of food, such as blind maleCake, Daliang and Zhongshan almond cake is a good choice, each package also does not exceed twenty or thirty yuan, affordable and old and young.　　As for buying clothes or gifts for children, the wholesale market is a good choice, the city of the children's clothing to Amoy to more than 30 yuan of beautiful small coat, in addition to the Internet can also buy style playful cute doll dolls, twenty or thirty yuan of the doll a bunch of choices also removed from their own goods home hard. Experts: Increase mutual understanding "fear return" no longer fear of the Sun Yat-sen University Sociology and Anthropology School of Sociology, associate Professor Wan Xiangdong said that the spring festival appeared "fear of" the main reason for the family is the first face problem. "Fear of" the majority of people are in the cause did not achieve the desired ideal, home feel no face. Second, intergenerational ethical issues. There are differences in intergenerational values between the younger generation and their parents. For example, many young people now want to marry later, but their parents cannot understand.　　These are the values of conflict, exacerbated the "fear of return" mentality. First, young people should not put too much pressure on their own expectations, Wan Xiangdong said. This "fear return" face factor can be alleviated. In addition, intergenerational ethics requires mutual understanding. China has a tradition of respecting the old, but parents should also be more understanding to their children. (Deng Chen Xinyu Zhongmin Chen Xinyu Lio Banjie Qian Feng Zhang Yujierong)