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"World Greeting Day" was born for world peace.
November 21, 1973, in order to promote peaceful coexistence between Egypt and Israel, the Australian mark and the Mitchell brothers, at their own expense, printed a large number of promotional materials on greetings sent to world governments and world celebrities, the first world greeting Day was born.
38 years later, the purpose of "world Greeting Day" was also made by sending greeting letters, calling on the world's celebrities to play a role in promoting world peace and developing into a world-wide prayer for peace.
Yesterday is "World Greeting Day", on the network, about this festival topic many, everybody rushes chat very lively, very happy. Back to real life, the vast majority of us are shy and shy, not only not accustomed to accept greetings from strangers, in the face of colleagues, friends, relatives, also rarely take the initiative to send greetings. The way of information transmission is becoming more and more developed, people become indifferent?!
In this warm and sweet holiday, do you give a warm greeting to the people around you?
Evening News reporter Zhang Zhang Zhang Xuan Zhengzhou Evening News
Internet
World Greeting Day is hot.
On Sina Weibo, the topic of "World Greeting Day" ranked first in the hot topic.
"Leaves fall, and the last season of the year, alone in a foreign land you, this winter, because what no longer afraid of the cold?" A scarf, a cup of hot coffee, or a smile? Sometimes as long as a concern greeting, simple language can also warm hearts ... "the micro-topic of this paragraph attracted a lot of netizens, many people have written down to family and friends blessings.
"World Greeting Day, I hope that those who are like me floating friends at the end of the year will be able to harvest a satisfaction and comfort bar." ”
"World Greeting Day gives me the first feeling is warm." A sincere greeting, a sweet smile, will bring happiness to the whole world. Although far away from the network, but the heart of the friendship has not been reduced. ”...... There is such a warm word on the web.
"I didn't know there was a world greeting date this holiday." "Seeing such a topic, the 28-year-old Hu soon posted a microblog on the internet and wrote greetings to friends and family." "Although it is only a simple sentence, but in such a season it will make people feel particularly warm." ”
Besides writing blessings and greetings on the Internet, there are many netizens call to stop the hurried footsteps, to meet the person a smile, a blessing, or pick up the phone to greet the distant relatives and friends, "Today is the world Greeting Day, please pick up the phone, greetings to the people concerned!" ”
Reality
Nine adults are "wary" of greeting.
On the street, "World Greeting Day" does not seem to arouse much attention, and few people take the initiative to send greetings to people around them.
Hello! "11 o'clock in the morning, the University Road Taoyuan intersection, the reporter tried to greet a middle-aged woman." The other side heard, footsteps slowed down, then with suspicion, vigilance glance glanced, after a few seconds, she replied: "What's the matter?" "A slight slowdown has not stopped.
When the reporter told her today is "World Greetings Day", just want to greet her, her expression surprised, ask a question to express puzzled: "Is it?" I do not know. Then the trot departed.
For the next 1 hours, 30 passers-by all said they had not heard of any world greeting day. Nearly 90% passers-by, in the face of "Hello" show vigilance and preparedness.
"World Greeting Day?" I don't know! "In a website of Xiaomin said, greetings to the family and friends around the relatively simple, but the greeting to strangers is too abrupt," I once in the street to praise a girl sincerely, think she dressed very beautiful, but they are very alert, for fear I am a liar-like, Blunt said thank you, hurriedly walked away. " ”
Do not say that in the street to greet strangers, xiaomin even with their door to the neighbors are several years after the start of greeting.
In fact, I also know a greeting three points warm, relatives, friends will be timely greetings, but I am not accustomed to the sudden greeting, such as strangers, too abrupt let me unwell, the best is related to the part, greetings is natural. ”
Investigate our customary and unaccustomed greetings
It's warm in the hallway, in the pantry, in the bathroom.
"I like to greet colleagues, although the usual busy each, not too much communication, but say hello to feel very warm." "The company copy Li said, every day to work to open a computer work, everyone in their cubicle busy," now many units are such office, colleagues in the day-to-day communication is not much. ”
Li said, generally in the corridor, the tea room, the restroom meeting colleague's probability is biggest. "Greet in these places, let me very warm, very kind, sometimes is a ' hello ', sometimes is praised ' you this dress is very beautiful ', very casually." ”
Zhengzhou Bus long greeting people like Mu Spring breeze
If you often take the No. 205 bus, you will meet the bus four company star conductor Xu Yaping warm greetings. "Hello, welcome aboard!" "In the starting station, Xu Yaping will stand for the guests, and on the line every station, he will give every passenger on the bus to send a friendly greeting."
This is not only Xu Yaping, Zhengzhou Public transport company required all line conductor, at each stop, to the first passengers on the bus to send greetings.
The conductor's greetings, let the passengers like Mu Spring breeze. They said, "Welcome aboard" when you get on the bus, can bring a day of good mood.
An overly warm greeting makes people uncomfortable.
Although many people like to greet, but too enthusiastic "greetings" still can make people feel uncomfortable.
"I can't stand a pedicure near a unit. "Home in the east side of the Li Xiangyu said, the first time I met this scene, is on the staircase, when the foot treatment hall is named, the head of a group of staff rushed him in unison shouted:" Welcome! ”
"I was so scared I almost fell. Li Xiangyu said, now he will deliberately avoid the roll call to the foot treatment hall.
And the public Chenlili said: "And friends to K song, just enter the door, men and women of the queue growth of two columns, bowed together to yell ' Welcome ', and all the handsome men and women, really embarrassing ah, let us these guests pear!" ”
Thinking
"Not indifference, but the development of the Times."
On the network, about the World Greeting Day topic Many, everybody rushes chat very lively, very happy. Back to real life, we are not accustomed to accepting greetings from strangers. Some netizens asked: "Is the information transmission developed, we have become indifferent?" ”
Netizens "Fight for love" but do not think so: "We are not indifferent, but because of the development of the times, so different from the past." ”
In the 780 's, even by the early 90, people passed greetings in a single way, most of them by correspondence, writing a letter, often a few days to send. Later, the popularity of the telephone, mobile phones have gradually become more.
From the text message, fly a letter, to QQ, MSN, and then to send Micro bo "@" Bo friends, now we do not need to meet at any time to distant friends, relatives to pass greetings.
Compared to the previous era of information underdevelopment, now everyone's greetings and content has changed too much, "many people do not like to talk when they meet, but very active on the network." The way of communication has changed, and this is not to say that we are indifferent.
In addition, with the changes in the times, the public greeting is also changing dramatically.
In the past, people's biggest problem was to get food and clothing. "It became a greeting that was always on the tip of the tongue." Later, the reform and opening up, economic development diversification, we meet the total habit of asking, "What movie Are you watching recently?" "Where did you travel again?" "To this day," Taobao body "," roaring body "and a variety of network popular words, statements emerge endlessly, each other's greetings content more colorful up.
Japan: To meet more with a bow to the ceremony. The more familiar person meets each other to bow with each other two or three seconds advisable, if meets the friend, bends down the time to be slightly longer, when meets the elder's time to wait for the elder to be able to rise, sometimes even must bow many times.
Indonesia: The traditional etiquette of meeting friends or acquaintances is to greet each other with the right hand, and to shake hands with the average person.
Malaysia: People want to greet with both hands (right palm into the palm of each other's hands) for a moment, hands slightly touching the forehead, and then hands micro-touch the chest before.
Africa: When people meet and ask each other "How are you sweating?" to show concern and greetings. Because of the fever in Africa, the people who get the fever, the skin will become dry, and the healthy people's skin is generally moist, so here, the skin sweating or not is a measure of people's health signs.
Nepal: When the two sides meet, both hands together, the mouth of the word "Namas". In the mountains, when the hosts meet, the host sticks out his tongue and expresses his welcome to the guests. For the tongue and heart are scarlet, and the red tongue represents the heart of sincerity.