10 minutes of daily life skills that can be learned and used for life

1. When you are ready to give a speech, always put a bottle of water on the table. When you suddenly can't remember what to say, drink saliva. The listener will not feel anything unusual.

2, in the electrical store can not find anyone to explain it to you? Then stand in front of the most expensive TV set, staring at the price tag. There will be a fart on the ground.

3. Suspect someone is tracking your car? Then come to the four right-hand corner! This way, your driving route can form a circle. If that guy's still there, he's definitely stalking you.

4. If you are afraid that someone will steal your blue pen, give it a red cap, because no one will steal a red pen.

5. If you are found to have done an embarrassing thing in public, it's okay to say you're playing "the real Big Adventure."

6, 15 minutes of laughter, equal to 30 minutes of sit-ups.

7, in the store, the cheapest thing is not on the top shelf, is at the bottom of the shelves, and not in the eye of the horizontal line.

8. Need to remember what you must bring before leaving home? Put it in your shoes, and you'll never forget your shoes.

9. Not sure if you're hungry? Ask yourself if you need an apple. If the answer is "no", then you may not be hungry, but bored.

　　

9, tell you how to buy a juicy orange or grapefruit, no matter what it looks like:

Pick up oranges or grapefruit. If it is smooth, it must be no juice, and the taste will be very dry.

Walking through the fruit stalls and picking the heaviest oranges or grapefruit in the same size, it must be the most delicious.

10. How to buy Strawberries:

Smell it. If they smell like strawberries and buy them, they'll taste amazing, and if they look pretty but they don't smell, they won't taste.

11. If you feel something similar to dust in your eyes, do this:

Look down, keep your eyes wide open, and blink.

Also, if that thing is stubborn, move your eyeballs: move in the opposite direction of where you feel pain. So if it hurts at the top, follow the above steps, but move the bottom of your eyeball.

12. How to read quickly

Let's start with the basics.

Most people read the words in one word, and then think that the pronunciation of the words is reflected in the mind (also called "Inner Language"). But why are we doing this? I hate kindergarten reading training, which forces children to read aloud in class and at home. What the hell was that? In short, it is not the most efficient way to read, both in terms of speed and understanding. So the first thing you need to do is eliminate the sound in your head. It only took me one hours. Use your eyes only to read. Why do you do this? Because the speed at which you read words is never as fast as you understand. The process is a bit hard, but it's worth trying.

For those who cannot suppress the "unconscious" reading, I have a suggestion: please control your breath while you are reading. As Sean O ' Connor points out, we breathe when we read, even if it seems so emotionally deficient, because we are used to reading these words aloud. In many cases, you even notice the movement of your lips, even if it is closed. Control your breathing to remove the "inner language", just breathe when you need it (don't overdo it, or I'm not responsible for stifling myself). When you feel you can get rid of these sounds, return to normal breathing.

When you think you can basically eliminate the sound of your brain, you've got the key to fast reading. Now that you have read with your eyes, try to read two or three words at a time, and continue to ascend after proficiency. Believe me, if you persist in eliminating the sound of your brain, your progress at this stage will be very fast. After a period of training, when I read a non-fiction reading, each page only takes 15-20 seconds, and the book is a guide, filled with things to understand. I am not exaggerating, this is my "obsession" in this training proof: I can read one line at a time. Another tip: Keep your eyes wide open when reading. Try to put more words into the bottom of your eyes and then move your gaze down as fast as you can, and you will eventually find your own rhythm.

13. (Western Etiquette)

Left (left,4 letters) with 4 letters on hand-fork (fork);

Right (right,5 letters) with 5 letters on hand-spoon (spoon), knife (knife), glass (glass)

14. (Social skills)

Establish and maintain a human-to-human relationship. This is the way to survive.

Look in the mirror and watch your body language.

Feel the sound and frequency of your speech.

Recall what other people have said.

Listen carefully to the models of the world of others and then, before you answer them, build up their models in your own mind.

Practice 1 minutes a day with 1-5 different people.

After one months, your social skills will be rocket-like Ascension.

15. (Peculiar way of thinking)

When it comes to analyzing a problem, most people are accustomed to writing ideas in their mind in order on paper or on a whiteboard. By putting these ideas into a list, you will unconsciously give the problem a solution to the structure, thus ignoring the intrinsic link between the various ideas. Therefore, I suggest that these ideas be randomly written in a different place on a page or whiteboard. When you are done, take a step back and observe the inner link between these ideas, which helps to think in the big picture and get a better solution.

16, Socrates "three filter" (Socrates ' Triple filter)

In ancient Greece, one day someone met the great philosopher Socrates, and he asked, "Do you know what I heard from my friends?"

"Wait a moment," Socrates replied, "Before you tell me anything, I need you to pass a little test." It's called a ' triple filtration ' test. ”

"Three filters?"

"Yes," replied Socrates, "It's better to wait before you tell me about your friend, and then filter what you say." So I call it a three-filtration test.

The first filter is true (Truth). Are you sure that what you're going to tell me is true? "

Not The man said, "In fact I just heard from my friends and ..."

"Well," said Socrates, "so you don't know if that's true." Next is the second filter, called Goodwill (Goodness), what do you want to tell me about your friend is a good thing? "

"No, contrary to ..."

"So," continued Socrates, "You will tell me some bad news about him, but you cannot guarantee that it is correct."

"You will continue your test because there is also a filter, it is called useful (usefulness)." Do you have anything to tell me about your friend that works for me? "

"No, I suppose not." ”

"Well," Socrates continued, "If what you're going to tell me is not necessarily real, it's not good news or even useless, why the hell did you tell me?"

17, people tend to remember the first thing that happened and the last thing that happened. The middle thing is not well remembered. So, if you're going to introduce yourself, it's best to do the first or last one. During the interview, the same is true.

18. If you work in a bar or front desk, put a mirror behind you. In this way, when the customer loses his temper, he can see his ugly face in the mirror. A mirror can significantly reduce their chance of vexatious.

19, after the quotation, no longer speak. This technique is useful if you are doing sales work. In other areas, this technique is also useful. I had a job before and I was selling my membership card in a gym. There was this old guy who was guiding me, he said, and once you and the customer had finished the greeting, you quoted your price. From then on, the one who first opened the mouth loses. It seems to be unfounded, but it does look like that. There is usually a long time of embarrassing silence, but ultimately, the customer will buy it.

20, if you ask someone a question, then they answer half, you wait, they will finish. Just wait, keep eye contact, and in the end, they'll talk.

21, public speech or bungee jumping before this tense moment, chewing gum just fine. It is said that human beings automatically stop chewing (eating) when they are in danger, so it is safe to eat, and that is what the brain tells you. It worked for me anyway.

22. What people finally remember is not what you said, but how you make them feel. Almost all people like to talk about their own things, so, ask questions more.

23, when you learn new things, try to teach friends, or let them ask you related questions. If you can teach a man a glass of water, you will surely have a bucket of water.

24, if you see someone, very happy, and the happy, then they see you will also dance. It may not be the first time, but the second time must be.

25. The body reacts to stress--breathing accelerates, the heart beats faster--and the reaction is the same when you summon up courage. So it's good or bad, it's all in your thoughts. Anyway, your body is already ready, so you can watch it.

26, pay attention to other people's feet. When you join someone else's conversation and find that someone is just turning your upper body around and your feet are still in the same direction, it means they are not welcome to join you. Similarly, when you talk to your colleagues, you feel that he is concentrating on talking to you, his body is facing you, but his feet are not toward you, and he may have been overwhelmed by the conversation.

27, pretend to be a big, until you do it, and confidence is more important than knowing. Don't be intimidated by anyone, life is not easy, all by acting, those who scare you are also acting.

28, what you pretend to be, you will eventually become what it looks like. Install force to force, beg Ren Chengren, dwell on, will have echoes. Recommendation: Zhengzhou Vitiligo Hospital

29, although not to you to frighten, but if you must be brazen stare at someone, the eyes gathered in the middle of his two eyes, waiting for them shy. If they move out of sight, they won't look at you anymore. At this time, you can stare at their eyes with impunity. For at least 45 seconds, OH.

20, the establishment of interpersonal networks. Become a source of information for your friends, and of course they will be your source of information. It is also good to have a drink with a former colleague.

31, if you are in front of the car slowly like the grandfather in the open, you wish to kill him. Pretend that he's really your own grandfather. And then your anger is gone.

32, Stand straight. Do not slouch, do not pockets hands, head to raise up high. Don't think it's a cliché. You will feel good about yourself and the people around you will feel your confidence.

33, do not say "I think", "I think", unless it is really necessary. These words will make you and self-confidence, it is not good for you.

34. When you are anxious, clean up your home or work desk. You will be happier and more feeling than before.

35, the first meal, the first wine, you please. You don't know how long you're going to feel good about yourself.

36, parents Please note: Give children the right to choose, let them think they control their own life. For example, when I wanted my child to put on shoes, I would ask him, "Do you want to wear the stars or the sharks?" It is important to note that this is also useful for adults.

37, attitude decision action, but action also decided attitude. As one of my former teachers put it: You Can Dance because you are happy, or you can dance to make yourself happy.

38. When a group of people laugh, people will immediately look at the people closest to the group.

39. If you want to establish a close relationship with someone, or get someone's trust, learn the posture of his body. If he legs up, you too. If he leans on the back of the chair, you lean against the back of the chair, and if he leans forward, you lean forward. Imitating the body posture is a subconscious confidence in each other and the performance of freedom. If you cross your arms in front of your chest and find that someone has done the same, congratulations, you're a charmed person.

40, Benjamin Franklin effect. In the student age, looking for a girl to borrow a pencil, borrow notes, ask her to help you cram lessons, compared to lend her things, help her lessons, girls are more likely to fall in love with her borrow a pencil of the poor/stupid boy. This is also useful when flirting, such as having a girl ask you for a drink. It's a matter of three birds: you get the benefit, she will subconsciously like you, and she will accept your help in the future.

41. Hot and explosive shortcut keys

1.1 Want to save a Web page as a PDF? Press the shortcut key ctrl+p, and then change the target printer to "Save as PDF" on the printed page that appears, and finally press save to finish, forcing the grid to be full.

1.2 Ctrl+shift+n, turn stealth mode on. Your browsing history and cookies will not be retained. Enjoy yourself.

1.3 Suffer from chrome open too many pages so that too much card? Just press Shift+esc to open the Task manager, want to shut down there, there is no need to ctrl+w a one off.

1.4 Key combination ctrl+shift+t is used to recover accidentally turned off the page.

1.5 Alt+home quickly returns you to set up your homepage.

Ctrl+h Quick View history.

Ctrl+j quickly view the download history.

Want to quickly select the address bar? Press F6, equivalent to press ctrl+l, and then equal to Alt+d

1.6 To quickly delete your browsing history, simply press and hold the Ctrl+shift+delete key to quickly delete it.

1.7 Ctrl+tab Switch page labels from left to right, ctrl+shift+tab switches from right to left.

1.8 Ctrl+1 is used to quickly return to the beginning (that is, the leftmost page), Ctrl+9 quickly returns to the rightmost page.

1.9 Want to read all kinds of novels but complain that the screen is too small? Press F11 to enjoy the full-screen thrill immediately.

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10 minutes of daily life skills that can be learned and used for life