101 unconscious errors in the office

China Social Science Press recently released a new book "beautiful girls don't stand in the corner-101 unconscious mistakes that can never be committed in the office, the author of this book is the president of "corporate training international" and a female workplace psychology expert, Dr. cutting-p-frankell. She proposed 101 mistakes that women can easily make in the workplace, and claims that, it is precisely because of the girly manners women have developed from the girlhood that damage their career development. Take a look. Will you make these 101 mistakes?

1. Think that the workplace is not a field

2. Follow the rules and do not go out of bounds

3. Hard work

4. Undertake others' work

5. work only, no rest

6. Naive

7. Budget for the company

8. Waiting for a rabbit

9. Avoid "office politics"

10. Be a righteous person

11. Protect dummies

12. Silent speech

13. not investing in interpersonal relationships

14. did not understand the customer's needs

15. Ask for comments before making a decision

16. flattering

17. Do not be flattering

18. Do not dare to ask questions for the purpose of self-confidence

19. Pretend to be a man

20. Based on actual reports, do not deceive

21. Publish too many personal information

22. Excessive fear of committing crimes

23. denying the importance of money

24. Show your feelings

25. Willing to be bullied

26. Arrange the office like a living room

27. give food to others

28. weak handshake

29. Lack of economic support

30. Serving others

31. Create miracles

32. assume full responsibility

33. obey the rules

34. The right-of-Authorization male is elders.

35. Restrict your own capabilities

36. Ignore the report

37. Escape From the party

38. Work first, life second

39. allow others to take up your time

40. Give up your career goals too early

41. Ignoring the importance of interpersonal relationship networks

42. Refuse to enjoy privileges

43. Search for negative reasons

44. Strive for perfection

45. Failing to define a personal brand

46. despise your job or position

47. Use only nicknames or names

48. Wait

49. Reject Major Tasks

50. Be humble

51. Stay in your own security zone

52. Leak your opinion

53. Traditional Female positions

54. Ignore feedback

55. Willingness to attract others

56. Use questions to express your views

57. Opening Remarks

58. Explanation

59. Request others' consent

60. Apologize

61. Over-use modesty

62. Use Modifier

63. Not answered

64. fast speech speed

65. Terminology unavailable

66. Use of non-Words

67. Uncertain words

68. Drag and Drop voice mails

69. The smile is out of date

70. The gesture is inconsistent with the message

71. Head down

72. Sit on your lap

73. Public dress

74. Put your hands under the desk during the meeting

75. put glasses around your neck

76. Too many ornaments to wear

77. Avoiding others' sight

78. Believe in others is much better than you know

79. Make records, serve coffee and copy data

80. Indulge in improper behaviors

81. show patience

82. Accept promising tasks

83. satisfy others' needs first

84. Denying your abilities

85. Gan dang scapegoat

86. Accept existing facts

87. Let others' mistakes affect themselves

88. Concluding remarks

89. tolerating sexual harassment

90. Crying

91. "sandwich" technique: the "sandwich" Mode means that when you give feedback, you can put negative feedback in the middle of two positive feedback, this will only make the listener unable to grasp the key points of your information.

92. Gentle tone: When we whisper, the information we send is uncertain or unconfident.

93. The tone is too high and unnatural: We will pay more attention and respect to the low voice.

94. answer questions without thinking for a moment: a brief pause and subsequent silence will leave you with confidence.

95. The occupied space is too small: the possession of space also shows our self-confidence and qualifications.

96. Over-active or dull: professional women are between the two.

97. Improper makeup: it is not good to make up without makeup.

98. Improper hair style: the length of hair should be inversely proportional to age.

99. Improper clothing: Clothing should be suitable for the job you want, not the job you have got.

100 internalization of information: the information we receive when we were young affects our children's life.

101. Play a gender card: first, find out what is going on with the problem. Do not think it is gender discrimination without thinking about it.