12 golden rules that succeeded before age 35
Chapter 1: a goal
A ship with no sailing targets, the wind in any direction is against the wind
1. Why are you poor? The first point is that you have not set the goal of becoming a rich man.
2. What are your core goals in your life?
The fundamental difference between an outstanding person and a mediocre person is not talent or opportunity, but whether there is a goal or not.
3. One step ahead: Success begins with the target
4. A Jenkins-style person will never succeed
Why did most people fail? Only 5% of people can really complete their own plans. Most people do not discard their goals or fall
Lack of action
5. If you want to succeed before the age of 35, you must set your life goals between the ages of 25 and 30.
6. Ask yourself every day, every month, and every year: Have I achieved my goal?
Chapter 2: Two success points
Stand up, adjust your mindset, and make a sprint. It was successful before the age of 35.
(1) Positioning of life
1. People are afraid of entering the wrong line: What is your core competitiveness?
2. Find ways for winners and find excuses for losers
3. Select your favorite from row three hundred and sixty
Everyone can start a business, but not everyone can start a business successfully.
4. Find your own gold treasure
(2) eternal truth: the mentality determines fate. The mentality before the age of 35 determines the fate of your life.
1. People who are not satisfied with the status quo can become rich people
2. Dare to dream and dare to dream. This world will always be a dream chaser
3. Do not be afraid before the age of 35. do not regret it after the age of 35.
4. If you are born from a poor person, you are not a poor person in your life. As long as you keep that enterprising heart forever. Most successful Chinese people come from small places
5. Be a positive thinker
6. Do not defeat the pessimistic one.
Some people are one thousand times richer than you. Will they be one thousand times smarter than you? No, they are one thousand times more angry than you when you are young.
The failure of life is not lost to others, but to the pessimistic oneself.
7. The winners just climbed up one more time than they fell down.
8. I 'd rather hit the wall than at home.
Overcome your failed and passive mentality
(1) find a place to drink
(2) Find a disco and dance
(3) seek help from friends
(4) take positive actions
Chapter 3: Three Skills
1. Manage time: where your time is, and where your achievements are.
People who think of an hour as 60 minutes are 60 times more than people who think of it as an hour.
2. If you do not manage your finances, you will not be charged for money.
3. Self-management, easy to use
(1) start a business without fear of being small, so your mind must be good.
(2) You can renew a special store
(3) do business that others do not want to do
Chapter 4: four concepts of life-saving
Be sure to create a personal style before the age of 35
1. Being human is better than doing things
If you fail, you can do it again. If you fail, you cannot do it again.
(1) be honest
(2) never discouraged
2. Open-minded men have money, and open-minded women have money to help
Married life before 35 years old
3. principles of loyalty: You haven't built up a reputation for loyalty before the age of 35. This shortcoming will plague your life.
4. do little things in detail, but do not be clever.
There are too many Chinese people who want to do big things, but too few people who want to do beautiful things.
Chapter 5: Five Points of luck
Bill Gates said: Life is unfair. Get used to it.
1. There are indeed many lucky adults in life: People who are planning for things, and people who are doing things in the sky: half of the ancient saying in China
2. Opportunities often come unexpectedly, but they belong to those who should not give up.
3. Seize every opportunity in life
Opportunity is like a bird. If you don't catch it, it will fly without a trace.
4. One step earlier and one step later
Chapter 6: Six Requirements
1. Intelligence
(1) You can take away everything from others, but you cannot take away your wisdom.
(2) clever use of your own wisdom
(3) differences between wise men and fools
2. Courage
(1) The power of Courage sometimes makes you "Superman"
(2) dare to give up, dare to "give up"
3. Cultivate your own "leadership talent and leader temperament"
(1) infecting others with passion
(2) "Three o seven rules" to achieve leader temperament
(3) decision making capability
(4) Personality Charm
4. Creativity: do not be a regular person
25-35 years old is the most creative stage in life. Many successful people are at this stage.
5. Wise
(1) know your strengths and weaknesses and focus on them.
(2) try your best to work in the fields you are familiar
6. Perseverance: You will surely become the biggest winner after ten years of persistence in your selected industry
Chapter 7: 7 Learning
1. Knowledge changes fate
2. Learn all the necessary knowledge in your industry before the age of 35
A) eliminate yourself every day
B) in the discussion
3. Those who believe it can only become wage earners
4. Think, practice, rethink, and practice
Chapter 8: eight-point communication
A friend has a better time
1. IQ is important, and EQ is more important: establish a relationship network before the age of 35
2. Networking is financial: how to improve interpersonal relationships
3. Principles of dating
4. Good at communication: Exercise your speech skills before the age of 35
Chapter 9: 9 habits
The power of habits is amazing. The habits you developed before the age of 35 determine the size of your success.
1. Good habits of Positive Thinking
2. develop a good habit of efficient work
(1) Office
(2) Life can be informal, but work should be done in detail
(3) learn to listen without interrupting others
3. develop a good habit of exercise
4. Good habits of a wide range of hobbies
5. Good habits of quick action
Chapter 10: Confidence
1. Self-confidence is the spiritual pillar of success
2. Confidence can win the trust of others
3. build self-confidence on the basis of Creating Value
4. How to Build confidence
(1) set goals for yourself
(2) give full play to your strengths
(3) Planning
(4) do not drag
(5) do not give up easily
(6) Learn to motivate yourself
(7) do not turn yourself into someone else
Chapter 11 11 success traps to be avoided
1. Only credit, no effort
2. Do not "never meet talent", but look for opportunities.
3. Do not make fortune
4. Don't work for money, but let the money work for you
5. blindly follow the trend, and the cloud is everywhere. People do what I do.
6. Xiaofu is safe, not enterprising, and is always happy
7. admit errors rather than conceal them
8. Be down to earth rather than thinking
9. too ambitious to be confident
10. Repeated job hopping is not advisable.
11. Low eyes
12. By no means
Chapter 2 12 efforts
No one can succeed at will
1. Small is not a success, big is not a success, and small is a success
2. The Chinese society has entered the meager profit era: skillful work + dare work + practical work = Success
3. A successful attempt is possible.
4. Do your best to do anything
5. Take things as a career