20 stories to be aware of when people grow up

1, broken arrows----do not believe their will, will never do the general.

During the spring and Autumn Period, a father and his son fought a war. Father has been a general, son is just pawn. Another trumpet blew, and the drums were thundering, and the father solemnly lifted an arrow, which was inserted with an arrow. Father solemnly said to his son: "This is the home attack treasure arrows, with the side, the power is infinite, but must not be drawn out." ”

It is an extremely beautiful arrow bag, thick cowhide dozen, inlaid with faint light of copper edge, and then look at the tail of the arrow. One eye can be identified with the finest peacock feathers. Son beaming, greedy to infer the appearance of shaft, arrows, the ear as if the arrows, the enemy's manager fell to the horse and killed.

Sure enough, with a treasure arrow son heroic extraordinary, invincible. When the Horn of Mingjinshoubing sounded, the son could not help winning the heroic, completely abandoned his father's exhortations, a strong desire to drive him to pull out the dart, trying to see what. Suddenly he was stunned.

A broken arrow, a broken arrow in the arrow bag.

I've been router the war with a broken arrow! The son frightened a cold sweat, as if in an instant lost the pillar of the house, collapsed will collapse.

The result is self-evident, the son died in chaos in the army.

Brushed the smoke of the Mist, father picked up the Broken Arrow, heavy spit a way: "Do not believe in their will, will never do the general." ”

How foolish it is to put the victory and defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is to give someone the heart and handle of life. For example, the hope rests on the child, the happiness rests on the husband, the life security rests on the unit body.

　　 warm hint: oneself is an arrow, want it tough, want it to be sharp, want it to bead, never miss, sharpen it, save it all can only be oneself.

2, the value of life----don't let yesterday's frustration make tomorrow's dream fade!

At a seminar, a famous orator did not say a prologue, but held a $20 bill in his hand.

Facing 200 people in the boardroom, he asked, "Who wants this 20 dollars?" "one hand lifted up. He went on to say, "I'm going to give you one of these 20 dollars, but before I do, please allow me to do something." He said to knead the money and then asked, "Who wants it?" "There is still someone to raise their hands.

He added, "So what if I do that?" He threw the money on the ground and set foot on it, and crushed it with his feet. Then he picked up the money and the bill had become dirty and wrinkled.

"Who wants it now?" "There is still someone to raise their hands."

"Friends, you have had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that note, you still want it, because it's not devalued, it's still worth 20 of dollars. On the road of life, we will be many times by their own decision or encounter adversity knocked down, bullying or even crushed to pieces. We feel like we're worthless. But no matter what happens, or what is going to happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his opinion, dirty or clean, neatly dressed or ragged, you are still priceless. ”

　　 Warm reminder: The value of life does not depend on what we do, we do not rely on the people we meet, but depend on us! We are unique-never forget this!

3, the head of the very beautiful----don't look at it is a black cow, milk is white.

Jenny is a little girl who always loves her head down, and she always thinks she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store to buy a green bow, the shopkeeper constantly praised her wearing a bow is very beautiful, although Jenny does not believe, but very happy, not to hold up the head, anxious to let everyone see, go out with people hit a bit did not care.

Jenny came into the classroom and bumped into her teacher, "Jenny, you're so beautiful!" The teacher patted her on the shoulder and said.

On that day, she was praised by many people. She thought must be the credit of the bow, but the mirror before a photo, the head there is no bow, must be out of the jewelry shop when with a touch lost.

Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people are too concerned about the appearance and lose a lot of happiness.

　　 Warm reminder: Whether it is poor or rich, whether it is the appearance of the fairy, or plain, as long as you raised your head, happiness will make you become lovable-the kind of lovable that everyone likes.

4, for the life of painting a leaf----as long as believe, there will always be a miracle, hope, although slim, but it lives forever.

Henry, an American writer, told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf": In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree in the room from the window, falling down in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him, and the body deteriorated with it, one day less. She said: "When the leaves are all out, I will die." An old painter was told that he had painted a leaf of green veins on the branches of a tree with crayons.

The last leaf has never fallen down. Only because of this green in life, the patient miraculously survived.

　　 warm hint: life can not have a lot of things, but only can not have no hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!

5, fly the spider----faith is a kind of no strong force, when you believe that you can succeed, you will be able to succeed.

One day, I found a black spider in the backyard between the two eaves knot a very big net. Can a spider fly? Otherwise, from this eaves head to that Eaves head, the middle has a Zhang Yu width, the first line is how to pull past? Later, I found that spiders have gone a lot of detours-from a eaves head, knot, follow the wall down, step by step forward, careful, tilt the tail, do not let silk to the ground sand or other objects, through the open space, and then climbed the opposite eaves head, height almost, and then tighten the wire, and so on.

　　 tip: Spiders will not fly, but it will be able to tie the nets in midair. It is diligent, sensitive, silent and tough insects, its network of sophisticated and rules, gossip shape open, as if to get God help. Such achievements make people not think of those who are quiet and some of the wise. So, I remember the spider will not fly, but it is still the net knot in the air. Miracles are the result of persistent people.

6, Shadow is a piece of paper dragon----life, there are countless attacks from outside, but how these blows will affect you, the final decision right in your hands.

Grandfather used paper to make me a long line. The space of the long dragon cavity only can hold a few locusts, put in, they all died inside, no one spared! Grandfather said: "The locusts are too impatient, in addition to struggle, they do not want to use their mouths to bite the long queues, do not know that the forward can be climbed out from the other side." Thus, although it has iron-clamp mouth shells and jagged thighs, it is useless.

"When Grandpa put a few of the same size of the Green worm from the faucet, and then close the faucet, the miracle appeared: only a few minutes, the young insects climbed one by one from the Dragon's tail.

　　 reminder: Fate has been hidden in our minds. Many people can not walk out of different stages of life or big or small shadow, not because they are born personal conditions than others, but because they have no thought to the shadow paper Dragon Bite, and no patience to slowly find a direction, step by step forward, until the present new caves.

7, success is not as difficult as you think----not because things are difficult we do not dare to do, but because we dare not to do things difficult.

A Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University in 1965. While drinking afternoon tea, he often went to the school café or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authority in some fields, and people who have created economic myths, who are humorous and juchongruoqing to see their successes as natural and logical. For a long time, he found that at home, he was deceived by some successful people. Those people are generally exaggerating their entrepreneurial hardships in order to keep them out of business, which means they are using their success stories to scare those who have not yet succeeded.

As a student of the Department of Psychology, he thought it necessary to study the mentality of Korean successful people. In 1970, he put "success is not as difficult as you think" as a graduation thesis, presented to the founder of modern Economic psychology will, Professor Brayden. Professor Brayden, after reading, was pleasantly surprised that he thought it was a new discovery, although it was widespread in the east and even around the world, but no one had ventured to come forward and study it. Pleasantly surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumni-hee, who was sitting at the top of South Korean politics. He said in his letter, "I dare not say how much this work has helped you, but I am sure it will vibrate more than any of your decrees." ”

The book was followed by a South Korean economy that took off. This book inspires a lot of people, because they tell people from a new angle, the success and "Labor its bones, hungry its body skin", "shift lights just before dawn chicken", "head cantilever, Cone thorn stock" does not have the inevitable connection. As long as you are interested in a cause, you will succeed in the long run, for the time and wisdom God has given you is enough to accomplish one thing. Later, the young man was also successful, he became president of the Korean Pan-industry automobile company.

　　 warm hint: many things in the world, as long as want to do, can do, the difficulty of overcoming, also can overcome, do not need any steel-like will, not need any skill or strategy. As long as a man is living with a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangements for the world are in the right place.

8, Forever ticket----life is really interesting: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.

There is a person often travel, often can't buy a check in the ticket. However, he can always find his seat, no matter how crowded it is on the long haul.

His method is actually very simple, is patiently a car in a car to find the past. It doesn't sound like a clever idea, but it works. Every time, he was ready to walk from the first car to the last car, but every time he didn't have to go to the end to find the vacancy. He said it was because there were not many passengers like him who were so persistent in finding seats. Often there were several seats remaining in the compartment where he was seated, and in the aisles and carriages of other carriages, they were overcrowded.

He said most of the passengers were easily confused by the crowded surface of the one or two carriages, and were not careful to think that in dozens of stops *, there was a lot of opportunity to provide seats from the flow of the more than 10 doors of the train, even though they did not have the patience to look for. A small foothold in front of the party is easy for most people to meet, in order to one or two of the seats packed with bags crowded to squeeze some people also feel unworthy. They were also worried that in case they could not find a seat, they would not be in a good place to stand. And life in some of the status quo is not thinking enterprising fear of failure of the people, can only stay in the beginning of no success, the reluctance to take the initiative to find the seat of the majority of passengers can only be in the car when the initial place to stay to get off.

　　 Warm tips: self-confidence, perseverance, visionary, diligent practice, will let you have a journey of life forever ticket.

9, the heart of the stone----hinder us to discover, to create, is only our psychological obstacles and the thought of the stone.

Once there was a family garden with a large stone, about 40 centimeters in width and 10 centimeters in height. The person who comes to the vegetable garden will kick to that big stone carelessly, not fall or bruise.

The son asked: "Dad, that nasty stone, why not dig it away?" ”

Father replied: "You say that stone oh?" From your grandfather's time, has been put to the present, its size so large, do not know what time to dig, nothing boring digging stone, as a walk carefully, you can also train your reaction ability. ”

After a few years, this big stone left to the next generation, then the son married a daughter-in-law, when the father.

One day, daughter-in-law angrily said: "Dad, the garden that big stone, I look more and less pleasing to the eye, some other people move away." ”

Dad replied, "Forget it!" That big stone is very heavy, can move the words when I was a child moved away, which will let it stay now ah? ”

Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad, the big stone don't know how many times she fell.

One morning, daughter-in-law with a hoe and a bucket of water, the whole bucket of water poured into the big stone four weeks.

More than 10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law stirred the soil around the big stone with a hoe.

The daughter-in-law early has the psychological preparation, may want to dig a day, who did not think of a few minutes to dig up the stone, look at the size, this stone is not as big as imagined, all are deceived by that huge appearance.

　　 warm tip: You climb the mountain with the idea of downhill, it is impossible to climb the mountains. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. Change Your world, you must first change your own mentality.

10, the pursuit of ecstasy----do not treat yourself as a rat, or it must be eaten by the cat.

In 1858, a wealthy family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. Soon, however, the child was infected with an unexplained paralysis and lost his ability to walk.

Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the boy that the captain had a bird of paradise, who was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see for herself. So the babysitter left the child on deck and went to the captain himself. The child was impatient to wait, and she asked the waiter on the boat to take her to see the Birds of paradise at once. The waiter did not know that her legs could not walk, but only took her to see the beautiful bird. The miracle happened, the child because of excessive desire, unexpectedly to pull the waiter's hand, slowly walked up. Since then, the child's illness has healed. When the girls grow up, they devote themselves to literary creation, and finally become the first woman to win the Nobel Prize for Literature, namely, Lagro.

　　 tips: Ecstasy is a shortcut to success, only in this environment, talent will surpass their own bondage, releasing the greatest energy.

11. Optimists and pessimists----optimists see opportunities in every crisis, and pessimistic people see distress in every opportunity.

The father wanted to make a "character makeover" on a pair of twins because one was overly optimistic and the other was overly pessimistic. One day, he bought a lot of bright new toys for the pessimistic children, but also put the optimistic child into a house full of horse dung in the car room.

The next morning, the father saw the pessimistic child is sobbing, then asked: "Why not play those toys?" ”

"It would be bad to play." "The child is still crying."

Father sighed and walked into the car room, but found that the optimistic child is happily in the horse dung in the dig.

"Tell you, Papa." The child triumphantly declares to his father, "I think there must be a pony in the dung heap!" ”

　　 Warm tip: The difference between optimists and pessimists is interesting: optimists see doughnuts, and pessimists see a hole.

12. Dare to take risks----for those who are afraid of danger, danger is everywhere.

One day, lobster and hermit crab met in the deep sea, the hermit crab saw the lobster is to take off their hard shell, only reveal the delicate body. The hermit crab was very nervous and said, "lobster, how can you give up the only hard shell that protects your body?" Aren't you afraid of a big fish to eat you? In your present situation, even the rapids will take you to the rock, when you are not dead to blame it? ”

The lobster calm and leisurely answer: "Thank you for your concern, but you do not understand, we lobster every time we grow, we must first take off the old shell, in order to grow a stronger shell, now face the danger, just for the future development better and prepare." ”

Hermit crab carefully ponder, oneself all day only to find can avoid place, and do not think how to make oneself grow stronger, all day only live in other people's shade, no wonder forever limit own development.

　　 Warm tip: Everyone has a certain security zone, you want to cross their current achievements, please do not zoned self-limited, the courage to accept the challenge to enrich themselves, you will certainly develop better than imagined.

13. Try again----what is harder than stone, or softer than water? But the soft water has penetrated hard stone, perseverance only.

A young man went to Microsoft to apply for a job, and the company did not advertise. See general manager puzzled, young people with not too skillful English explanation said oneself is happened passing here, rushed in. The general manager felt very fresh and made an exception for him to try. The results of the interview were unexpected and the young people behaved badly. His explanation to the general manager was not prepared beforehand, the general manager thought he was just looking for a pretext to go down the steps, he casually said: "When you are ready to try again."

A week later, the young man walked into Microsoft's door again, and this time he was still unsuccessful. But his performance was much better than the first time. And the general manager gave him the same answer as last time: "When you are ready to try again." "In this way, the youth has 5 times entered the door of Microsoft Company, eventually hired by the company, become the focus of the company's training target."

　　 warm hint: perhaps, our life journey on the swamp everywhere, thorns, perhaps we pursue the scenery is always the mountain heavy water complex, does not see steady, perhaps, our walk is always heavy, falter, perhaps we need to grope for a long time in the dark, can find the light; Our pious faith will be entangled by secular dust, not free to soar, and perhaps our noble souls may not find the Pure land in reality for the time being. So why can't we say "Try again" with the boldness of the brave, with a firm and confident voice? "

　　 try again, you may reach the other side of success!

14, Tiandaochouqin----No one can rely solely on the success of the day. God gives talent, and diligence transforms genius.

Zeng Guofan was one of the most influential figures in Chinese history, but his talent as a child was not high. One day at home reading, to an article repeatedly do not know how many times, still reading, because, he has not been back down. At this time his family came a thief, lurking in his eaves, hoping to wait for the scholar to sleep after the benefits. But wait, wait, just don't see him sleep, or go to read that article. The thief is angry, jump out to say, "This level read what book?" "Then recite that article again, and go away!"

The thief is very clever, at least more clever than Mr Tsang, but he can only become a thief, and Mr Tsang has become the Chairman Mao admired the people: "Most of the modern people of the source." ”

"Qinnengbuzhuo is good training, a point of hard work." "The thief's memory is really good, heard a few times the article can be back down, and very brave, see others do not sleep unexpectedly can jump out to" great anger ", the lesson once Sir, but also to endorse, go away. But unfortunately, his name is not classical works, Mr Tsang later opened a large number of talent, supposedly this culprit and Mr. Zeng have Yimianzhijiao, can go to cast one or two, unfortunately, his talent did not add diligence, became increasing multiplicity.

　　 Warm tip: great success and hard work is proportional to, there is a point of labor has a harvest, accumulate, from less to more, miracles can be created.

15, strive only a cave of the mouse was soon caught.

On a dark night, the mouse leader led the little mouse out to forage, and in the kitchen of the family, there was a lot of leftover food in the dustbin, as if the man had discovered the treasure.

Just as a large group of rats in the garbage bin and the vicinity of the big dig a meal, suddenly came a burst of their liver and gall, it is a sound, that is a big tabby cat's cry. They shocked, more their own escape, but the cat never mercy, constantly chasing, finally there are two small mice to avoid, was caught by the tabby cat, was about to swallow the occasion, suddenly came a series of vicious dog bark, make the cat unprepared, embarrassed escape.

After the cat left, the mouse leader Shiran from behind the garbage can come out and said: "I have said to you, learn a language beneficial harmless, this time I saved your life." ”

　　 warm tip: "More than one skill, one more road." "Continuous learning is a lifelong commitment of successful people.

16, the danger of----flood before the first embankment, Jackal in the future sharpening.

A wild wolf lying on the grass diligently grind teeth, the fox saw, said to it: "The weather is so good, everyone in the rest and entertainment, you join our team!" The wolf did not speak, continued to grind his teeth, and sharpened his tooth. The Fox asked curiously: "The forest so quiet, hunters and hounds have gone home, tigers are not wandering near, and there is no danger, why do you grind so much?" "The Wolf stopped to answer:" I grind teeth is not for entertainment, you think, if one day I was chased by hunters or tigers, until then, I want to grind too late. And usually I grind the teeth well, then can protect themselves. ”

　　 warm tip: Things should be prepared to prepare for the rainy day, so that when the danger suddenly comes, not rush. "Book to Time to hate less", usually if not enrich the knowledge, cramming is too late. Some people complain that there is no chance, but when the opportunity for promotion to temporary, and then sigh oneself usually do not have enough knowledge and ability, so that can not be competent, also had to regret.

17, the dilemma----is to give a barrier, is a new known condition, as long as willing, any obstacle, will become an opportunity to transcend the ego.

One day, the lion, known as the King of the Forest, came to the gods: "I thank you for giving me such a majestic physique, so powerful, so strong that I have enough power to rule this whole forest." ”

The Tenjin listened and smiled and asked, "but this is not the purpose for which you came to me today!" It seems that you are troubled by something! ”

The lion roared softly and said, "God knows me!" I really have something to ask for today. Because although my ability is better, but every day when the rooster is ringing, I always wake up with a chicken sound. Oh, God! Pray for you, give me another strength, let me no longer be frightened by the Rooster sound awake! ”

The Tenjin smiled: "You go to find the elephant, it will give you a satisfactory answer." ”

The Lion Hing hurried to the lake to find an elephant, and did not see the elephant, they heard the elephant stomp the "Bang Bang" sound.

The lion sped to the elephant, but saw the elephant stamping his feet in a huff.

The lion asked the elephant, "Why do you have such a big temper?" ”

The elephant desperately shaking big ears, shouting: "There is a nasty little mosquito, always want to get into my ears, I am itching to death." ”

The lion left the elephant, secretly thinking: "The original size of such a huge elephant, but also afraid of so skinny mosquitoes, then I have what good to complain?" After all, the rooster is not only once a day, but mosquitoes are constantly harassing the elephant. I'm a lot luckier than he is. ”

While walking, the lion looked back at the elephant, who was still stamping his feet, and thought, "God wants me to look at the elephant, and it should be to tell me who is going to get into trouble, and it can't help everyone." That being so, I have to * myself! After all, as long as the chicken, I think as a chicken is to remind me to get up, so a thought, the chicken sound is also good for me? ”

　　 warm hint: in the road of life, no matter how smooth we walk, but as long as a little encounter some bad things, we will habitually complain God treat us, and then pray for God to give us more strength to help us through the difficulties. But in fact, God is the fairest, as it is to lions and elephants, every dilemma has a positive value for its existence.

18, always a lesson-----face difficulties, many people wearing a magnifying glass, but difficult to fight some, you will feel, the difficulty is so.

It was a storm that day, and it was as if there were countless crazy monsters in the Roaring brawl. The snow looked for the object of the attack, and the wind sobbed around to search.

Everyone is shouting cold, reading the mind seems to have been frozen. The stomping sound of a house.

The nose red and red Ouyang teacher squeezed into the classroom, waiting for a long time the wind swept into, the wall of the "middle school Students Code" a drum, a joke-like roll to the air, another somersault planted down.

The former very gentle Ouyang teacher uncharacteristically: The face of serious solemn even cold, like outdoor weather.

The noisy classroom quiet down, we looked at Ouyang teacher in amazement.

"Please put on the rubber shoes, we go to the playground." ”

Dozens of pairs of eyes are asking.

"Because we have to stand at the playground for five minutes. ”

Even if Ouyang teacher under "not in this class, never on my class" The word of intimidation, or there are a few prettily girls and a few very horizontal boys did not come out of the classroom.

The playground is in the northeast corner of the school, the north is an empty vegetable garden, and then the north is a big pond.

On that day, the playground, the garden and the pond were made into a whole by snow.

Short a lot of basketball stand by the Snow Regiment playing "Pa" sound, roll up the snow Pellet Snow Regiment choke people can not open the open eyes. The face is like countless handful narrow knives in the draw, thick clothes like an iron block of ice, feet like stepping on the water with ice ballast.

We huddled under the eaves of the classroom and refused to step towards the playground.

Ouyang teacher did not say anything, face we stood still, take off down jacket, sweater off to half, Snow helped him complete the other half. "On the playground, stand up!" "Ouyang teacher face pale, a word to us to say."

No one was silent, so we went to the playground and lined up three columns.

Thin Ouyang teacher only wear a white lining coat, lined coat tightly wrapped he more thin.

Later, we stood in the playground for more than five minutes.

In the classroom, the students think they are not the enemy of the snow, in fact, they stood for half an hour, they can live, so that they only wear a shirt, they can also stay.

　　 warm tip: Just like many of the pain in life, it is not as serious as you think. It's not going to hurt if you don't take it seriously. You feel pain, it is because you think the wound is painful, afraid of the pain of the wound.

19. The ships of the great sea----The ships sailing on the great sea without injury.

Lloyd's insurance company bought a ship from the auction market, which was launched in 1894, 138 times in the Atlantic Ocean, 116 times on the rocks, 13 fires, 207 times by the storm, but it never sank.

Lloyd's insurance company decided to buy it from Holland and donate it to the country on the basis of its incredible experience and the considerable benefits it has brought to the premium. The ship is now moored at the National Ship Museum in Cyclen, UK.

However, the ship was famous by a visiting lawyer. At that time, he had just lost a lawsuit, the principal also recently committed suicide. Although this is not his first failure to defend, nor he encountered the first suicide, however, every time he encountered such a thing, he always have a sense of guilt. He did not know how to comfort those who had suffered misfortune in the business field.

When he saw the ship at the Cyclen Ship Museum, there was a sudden thought, why not let them visit the ship? So he took the history of the ship and hung it with a photograph of the ship in his law firm, and whenever the business's client asked him to defend him, he advised them to look at the ship, winning or losing.

It makes us know that a ship sailing on a large sea is not without injury.

　　 warm tip: Although repeatedly frustrated, but can be strong perseverance to survive, this is the secret of success.

20, Donkey philosophy----life must tide over the counter-current to move to a higher level, the most important thing is to always see themselves.

One day a farmer's donkey, accidentally fell into a dry well, the farmer racked his brains to find a way to save the donkey, but a few hours later, the donkey still in the well in the pain of wailing.

Finally, the farmer decided to give up, he thought the donkey is old, not worth the trouble to save it, but in any case, the well will have to fill it up. So the farmer invited the neighbors to help bury the donkey in the well to relieve its pain.

The farmer's neighbours had a shovel and began to shovel the soil into the dry well. When the donkey learned of his situation, he began to cry miserably. But surprisingly, after a while the donkey calmed down. The farmer looked curiously at the bottom of the hole, and the sight appeared to surprise him:

When the dirt from the shovel falls on the back of the donkey, the donkey's reaction is amazing-it shakes the dirt aside and stands on top of the shovel's dirt pile!

In this way, the donkey will shovel all the dirt on it to shake off at the bottom of the hole, and then stand up. Soon, the donkey rose proudly to the wellhead, and then ran away quickly in the face of astonishment!

　　 warm tip: Like the situation of the donkey, in the life of the journey, sometimes we will inevitably fall into the "dry well", will be a variety of "sediment" dumped on us, and want to get rid of these "dry well" The secret is: "Sediment" shake off, and then stand up to the top!

20 stories to be aware of when people grow up