21 beliefs of yifa JIU

1. I am the best, and I will succeed!
Someone once did this experiment: he put a flea in a glass and found that the flea jumped out easily. Repeat it several times and the result is the same. According to the test, the height of a flea jump is generally about 400 times that of its body. Therefore, a flea can be called a high jump champion in the animal community.
Next, the experimenter put the flea into the cup, but this time it immediately added a glass cover to the cup, and the flea hit the glass heavily. Flea is very confused, but it won't stop, because the life style of flea is "jumping ". Once and again, the flea began to become smarter. It began to adjust its height based on the built height. After a while, I found that the flea never hit the lid again, but it beat freely under the lid.
One day later, the experimenter began to gently remove the lid. The Flea did not know that the lid had been removed, and it continued to jump at the original height.
Three days later, he found the flea still jumping there.
A week later, I found that the poor flea was continuously jumping out of the glass.
In real life, is there a lot of people who have lived in this kind of "flea life" when they were young and often tried to succeed? But they often do what they want. After repeated failures, they started to complain about the unfair world, or doubt their capabilities. They did not pursue success at any cost, instead, the criteria for success are lowered repeatedly, even if all the limitations have been removed. Just like although they were removed from the "glass cover" just now, they were already hit and scared. They did not dare to jump again, or they were used to it. They didn't want to jump any more. People are willing to endure the life of losers because they are afraid to pursue success.
Can't a flea really jump out of this cup? Absolutely not. However, the height of the cup cannot be exceeded by default.
It is very easy to let the flea jump out of the glass cup again. You just need to take a small stick and suddenly knock on the cup heavily; or take an alcohol lamp and heat it under the cup, when the flea is so hot, it will jump out.
Sometimes. Many people do not dare to pursue success, instead of failing to pursue success, because they also default a "height" in their hearts. This height often implies their subconscious: success is not possible, there is no way to do this.
"Psychological height" is one of the root reasons why people cannot make great achievements.
Do you want to skip? Can I skip this height? Can I succeed? How much success can be achieved? The answer to all these questions does not need to wait until the results of the facts appear, but you just need to look at how everyone thinks about these questions at the beginning and you will know the answer. Do not set limits on yourself. Tell myself loudly every day: I am the best, and I will succeed!

2. I am the root of everything
"ABC sentiment Theory": Our emotions are mainly rooted in our beliefs and our evaluation and interpretation of life situations.
Shu benhua's famous saying: Things themselves do not affect people. People are only influenced by their views on things.
We may not be able to influence things, but we can at least adjust our mood.
Countless facts tell us that the root cause of all results is often not things 4, but ourselves who have the right to make different comments and explanations on things-I am the root of everything!
Let's stop complaining, because I am the root of everything.

3. I think I am
What kind of self-expectation will naturally choose what kind of belief;
What kind of belief do you choose;
What kind of attitude will you do;
What kind of behavior will happen.
Therefore, to make the results better, let the behavior better first;
To make behavior better, let the attitude be better first;
To make your attitude better, let us first make your faith better;
If you want to make your beliefs better, let yourself choose a better self-expectation first.
In your own mind, what do you think you are and what you will eventually be.
Because, as the core conclusion of Self-intention psychology:
I am what I think, and we are what we think!

4. Success is due to attitude
The "influence training" organization has performed tens of thousands of surveys. The results show that 80% of the most critical factors that determine a person to become a winner are the "attitudes" of personal self-value, such as various abilities; 7% is an objective factor such as luck, opportunity, environment, time, talent, and background.
Whether we can control objective factors is also because of your attitude, which is rooted in our attitude towards objective factors and the skills to grasp objective factors. 100% of success is due to attitude!
Let's remember this fascinating conclusion. Let's use this way of thinking to think about success, use this way of thinking to analyze the past, grasp today, and prepare for the future.

5. The past is not equal to the future
Just as today's skill levels are determined not today, but yesterday's attitude towards skill; tomorrow's skill levels are determined not tomorrow, but today's attitude towards skill. Today is determined by the past. Our tomorrow is determined by the past and today.
The past is not equal to the future.
Past successes or failures only represent the past, and the future depends on the present. Success in the past is not equal to success in the future, failure in the past, or failure in the future. Success or failure is not a result, but an event in the life process. The most important thing in life is not where you come from, but where you want to go. No matter how unfortunate or mediocre the past is, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you must have hope for the future. As long as you maintain hope for the future, you will be full of strength now.
Now let's make a decision: tomorrow, what kind of people do I want to be?

6. People are great for their dreams
A great man is great because he has made a great dream.
A great man is great because he is practicing a great dream.
Wei's greatness stems from his great dream.
There is a wise man cloud; people are great for their dreams.
American black leaders Martin, Luther, and Kim are great because they dream that black people and white people are equal and free. Sun yat-sen is great, it is because he has been practicing his life to overturn the dream of the Chinese people's feudal empire for thousands of years. *** it is because his self-designed dream of Strengthening the Chinese people has truly strengthened the power of more than Chinese people.
People are great for their dreams!
For thousands of years of feudal civilization, the Chinese nation once created brilliant achievements, but at the same time, many negative thoughts and behaviors in traditional culture have unfortunately banned people's minds. Negative is also a kind of ignorance. If you are ignorant, you will be poor. If you are poor, you will be beaten. In modern history, we have to accept the brand that others impose on us. We suddenly fell into the quagmire of blind inferiority from blind arrogance. Today, pessimism and negative ideas are still imprison the countless Chinese people.
I have a dream that 1.2 billion Chinese people will be able to live actively without being negative or pessimistic. No complaints. Design a great dream for ourselves, and our life begins to become extraordinary. We can become a great person just as if we have spent all our life to practice that great and glorious mission.

7. It is not impossible, but the method is not found yet.
People in the past must think that "water cannot flow back." We know that it is because they have not found a method for pumping water; people now think that "the sun cannot come out of the West." The future may say, that's because we haven't found a way to let humans live on another planet where the sun just exists from the West.
It's not impossible, but we haven't found a method for the moment. Let's not frame ourselves too much, and don't always "set our own limits ".
If "impossible" has become the "mantra" of a person or an enterprise, they are used to saying "this is impossible, that is impossible" to themselves, they may be doomed to be brilliant in the tide of competition, and eventually eliminated by those who don't say "impossible" and only focus on finding a method.
There must be a reason for failure and a method for success.
Let us adjust our focus and delete the negative word "impossible" from our "Private Dictionary" or "Enterprise Dictionary" forever, even if we encounter problems, we can at least say that it is not impossible, but the method has not been found yet.

8. There must be methods for success
In the "creativity" training, there is a famous training case: How many uses does the paper clip have?
First, you may have to say: folder files.
Open your mind and you may have more functions: Making Ropes, nails, wires, buttons, ornaments, hairpins, hooks, toothpicks ...... A Japanese scientist claims to have listed 2400 applications for paper clips. A scholar in Nanjing declared that he could list 30 thousand types!
How many uses does a paper clip have?
As long as you are willing to find it, do you agree that the answer is: countless! Since a small paper clip can be used in countless ways, how can we solve a problem without "countless" methods?
Break the mindset and never limit yourself. There must be a reason for failure and a method for success.
There is a Guinness Book of Records in the world of Shanghai: 100 random numbers ranging from 0 to 9 in 90 seconds. Including forward back, reverse back, and Arbitrary positioning back. If you see the live performances, you will surely be impressed by the performer's "extraordinary" skills.
After systematic research, I found that the method is extremely simple, and almost everyone can do the same. To prove this, I often perform performances for students in the training course and enable my TA and even students to do it.
Currently, I am applying for a new Guinness record: 5 ~ 300 random digits are stored in 10 minutes. The method is also simple, and I believe everyone can do it.
The specific method is right brain memory, that is, graphic memory. For example, remember "1" as "a forest tree", "2" as "a goose", and "15" as "a round of moon ", "79" is a string of balloons and so on. These are called "number tags", and then treat each two digits as a corresponding fixed "number tag" for a specific 100-or 200-digit string ", then, place these labels in a "pre-defined" Location Map "you are familiar with, such as your room, office, or some specific locations on your human body. At this point, you only need to remember these figures, and you are equivalent to remembering this string of numbers.
3 4 2 4 1 6 4 1 3 5 4 6 5 1 3 1 3 0
4 6 8 4 6 1 7 9 8 5 4 3 2 1 4 6 4 0
1 3 4 7 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 2 4 6 4 3 1 3
4 6 6 9 4 3 3 3 1 6 4 1 3 3 3 4 7 1 0 0
3 5 7 2 5 8 7 9 1 2 0 0 3 1 1 3 5 4 5
5 4 6 5 4 3 2 1 8 7 5 6 4 4 3 1 4 6 9
5 3 4 8 7 8 9 7 4 1 3 2 3 2 2 1 5 4 1
1 2 3 1 5 6 7 4 9 6 9 8 8 8 7 0 5 4
5 4 5 6 9 7 8 7 3 3 5 6 4 4 4 5
1 6 9 4 5 0 1 3 7 0 3 8 2 1 7 0 7 8 4 5
After following the above methods, you can easily achieve the same result as I can.
A simple and easy solution can be found for all seemingly complex things or seemingly difficult to solve problems.
There must be a way to succeed, just as there must be a way to remember.

 

9. Find ways for winners and find excuses for losers
To succeed, there must be an excuse. If you have an excuse, you will never succeed.
Only losers can look for excuses to whitewash their failed behaviors.
Winners will always focus on finding methods.

10. Destiny is in your own hands, not in others' mouths.
I have had a very interesting and influential experience in my life.
Once, I went to meet a successful career friend and chatted about fate.
Second, I asked: Is there any fate in the world?
He said: Of course.
I asked again: What is fate? What is the purpose of struggle since it is doomed?
He didn't answer my question, but with a smile, he grabbed my left hand and said that he would like to look at his hand first, and I am a fortune teller. He told me the lifeline, love line, career line, and so on. Suddenly, he said to me:
Stretch your hand and make an action as I do. His action is to raise his left hand and gradually clench his fist.
He asked: Are you ready?
I was confused and replied: Hurry up.
He asked: where are those fate lines?
I am mechanically answering: in my hand.
He asked: Where is the fate?
I suddenly realized:
Destiny is in your own hands!
He calmly continued: No matter how others tell you, no matter how "Fortune Teller" calculates for you, remember that fate is in your own hands, not in others' mouths! This is fate.
Of course, if you look at your fist, you will find that some of your lifeline remains out and has not been captured, what can it do for you? Fate is mostly in your own hands, but there are still some in the hands of "Heaven. Throughout the ages, the significance of "struggle" is to use the efforts of its life to exchange for the "destiny" in the "Heaven ".
I sat quietly and felt like a spring in my heart ......
Fate is in your own hands, not in others' mouths!
Later, a trainee talked to me about her relationship and asked for help. She is 30 years old and has no boyfriend. But not her boyfriend, but when she was 23 years old, a fortune teller told her that she had to wait until she was 33 years old to get married. Afterwards, she had several chances to talk about her friends, but every time she talked about the critical moment of marriage, she remembered the words of fortune teller, so she would say to herself: I have to get married until I am 33 years old. Now I cannot get married for a long time. I love it for a long time. Please break up early! In this way, we have been suffering from mental pain until today.
I remembered this story and told it to her. Of course, I did it again by following the "original version. In the process, I found her feeling surprisingly similar to that of me. After that, she stood up and shouted: Oh, I was hurt by the damn fortune teller!
After that, we agreed and laughed.
Destiny is in my own hands, not in others' mouths. This belief almost changed my life.
In 1995, I started to talk about success and training. At that time, I didn't know how many people poured cold water on me, or even directly ridiculed me that you didn't succeed. Why did you teach others how to succeed? I did have a lot of low tides in my life: I went bankrupt twice. After I went to college, I did about a dozen different jobs. I worked as a university teacher, as a civil servant, and as a singer in the karaoke room, I have worked as a painter, managed food farms, visited rural areas, opened restaurants, worked as assembly line workers, renovated, engaged in real estate, and worked as a salesman ...... In the first two years of its first attempt to start a business in Shanghai due to Zhuhai's failure to start a business ......
Every time a low tide comes, and every time I suffer setbacks, I almost secretly grasp my left hand and secretly say to myself: fate is in my own hands, not in others' mouths. Really, it is strange that every time I grasp my hand, I almost immediately feel the infinite confidence and motivation in my heart.
This belief has always helped me to this day. It should be equally useful to you for things that are so important to me. May you try?
Now I grasp my hand and say to my subconscious: fate is in my own hands, not in others' mouths!

 

11. daily support
In our life, we are eager for opportunities, but we often don't know what opportunities we want or what they look like. Even if you know that when the opportunity falls, you are often not ready. Occasionally, you are lucky to seize the opportunity. However, you may fail to seize the next chance. Or, because they do not have enough capacity and endurance to keep them up, stick to the end and never give up until they succeed.
The real opportunity is by no means an opportunity. It comes from our definition of the opportunity, our understanding, preparation, and grasp of the opportunity.
Everyone will have good luck, and everyone will be equal before the opportunity, but it may not be equal to seize the opportunity, because to help one day, you must be self-help.
This is an old saying that everything is proving to be in China: Tian assists self-help!

12. The harder you work, the better your luck will be.
Opportunities are foreseeable, and luck can be planned.
Everyone will have good luck, on the condition that you must make unremitting efforts to create luck and prepare yourself. Because luck always takes care of prepared people.
Remember: The harder you work, the better your luck will be.

13. If I want to, I can
Success comes from "I want ". If I want to, I can: I must, I can.
It is not the ability that determines your success, but the "You must succeed" decision that "you will certainly prepare the corresponding capabilities". It is not the existing method that determines your success, instead, "You must succeed" determines that "you must find a successful method ".

14. determination to determine success
The great philosopher Socrates once said a famous saying to a scholar: to learn from me, you must first have a strong desire for knowledge, just as you have a strong desire to survive.
This is also true for the pursuit of success. To succeed, we must first have a strong desire to succeed, just as we have a strong desire to survive.
Success comes from what I want. If I want it, I can do it. If I stare at it, I can do it.
It is determination, not the environment that determines our success.
Only determination can ultimately determine our success.

 

15. When the mountains are not over, I will be there.
In the process of pursuing success, we will not always be smooth sailing, we will certainly encounter difficulties, we will certainly encounter bottlenecks, and we will certainly encounter a "head-hitting South wall.
There is a classic story in the back-to-Education's Quran, a master who has been practicing "mountain migration ** for decades. He first performed a mountain migration in public, then the end of the story is enough to let you remember for more than three days --
There is no mountain-Moving Technique in the world. The only way to move a mountain is: if the mountain is not there, I will be there.
There are so many things in the real world that we cannot change, or at least temporarily, just like the "Mountains. "Mountain migration **" reveals that if things cannot be changed, we can change ourselves.
If others do not like themselves, it is because they are not enough;
If you cannot persuade others, it is because you do not have enough persuasion skills;
If the customer is unwilling to purchase our products, it is because we have not produced products that are sufficient for the customer to purchase;
If we still cannot succeed, it is because we have not found a successful method;
To change things, you must first change yourself. Only by changing yourself can you change others. Only by changing yourself can you change your own world.
Mountains. If it doesn't come, let's get there!

16. Make a little progress every day
I used to perform push-ups every day for nearly two years. Maybe you can imagine that at the end, I have to do more than 600 times each day!
The reason for doing this exercise is that I am not close to myself when I come to Shanghai to make a living, and my living conditions in various aspects are poor. I know that my body cannot collapse, do not get sick comrades start this simplest sport. At that time, apart from being physically unable to collapse, the most important thing was to face the huge survival pressure, and my will cannot even collapse. Every day, I insist on doing push-ups, especially if I have to do hundreds of jobs at a time. It can really hone my endurance and Will. Sure enough, I got two birds in one fell swoop.
It's actually a little easier to implement one 600 push-ups at a time, that is, to make a little progress every day.
On the first day, I started to breathe when I had ten. Starting from 10, one is added every two days, then one is added every day, and then two or five are added every day. Finally, I can increase by 10 every day.
Success means improving every day!
Success comes from geometric superposition of many elements. Just as the multiplication formula adds 0 and 1 at a time, the product will multiply quickly.
For example, a smile is a little more than yesterday, and a little more than yesterday. Innovation is a little more than yesterday, and the efficiency is a little higher than yesterday ...... In time, we will have a very different tomorrow than yesterday.
Success means that simple things are done repeatedly. Success means making progress every day.
If a person makes a little progress every day, even if the progress is 1%, imagine, what can block his final success? If an enterprise "makes a little progress every day" and becomes part of its corporate culture, when everyone can make a little progress every day, imagine, what obstacles can block its Final glory?
Competitors often fail, but they forget to make progress every day.
The winner is not smarter than us, but a little better than us every day.

17. There was no failure, but for the moment there was no success. A Hollywood star named SIVIS and Shi tailong, who paid as much as $30 million, was running in Hollywood when they were young, earning only $1 a day. For the sake of life, I went to the boxing gym for sparring, And I was beaten with a nose face every time. Later, he decided to become a movie star, so he went around to sell himself. He was denied for 1850 times and had not given up yet. Finally, he finally played the leading role in the movie Rocky. The script of Rocky is prepared by Shi tailong himself. The prototype of the life of the hero in the play is his own. Since then, he has become an American spiritual symbol of "self-transcendence, tenacious struggle, and individual struggle.
In the eyes of Shi tailong, the world has not failed, but has not succeeded yet.
The KFC fast food restaurant is owned by Colonel sandse and started his business at the age of 65. At first, he tried to promote his recipe for fried chicken to get some cash, entrepreneurial capital or share Shares to earn a portion of his income. He did not expect that he had not sold it for 1029 times! Finally, I was forced to start my own business. Therefore, we have the myth of KFC today.
In the mind of Colonel sentd, the world has not failed, but it has not yet succeeded.
There is a common feature. In the dictionary of successful users, there is no word "failure", but "not succeeded yet ".

18. Failure won't be a final decision
The history of the west of Levi's "cowboy king" is also full of ups and downs and legends. His "Magic Weapon" for winning is that, whenever he suffers setbacks or blows, he will never complain, and he is very excited to say to himself: Great! This happened to me and gave me another chance to grow. The occurrence of all things has its own cause and effect and will help me.
Successful people are masters of "spiritual victory". Over the ages, the larger the industry, the more powerful the spirit.
A successful journey, frustration is inevitable, and frustration is inevitable. Successful people do not have a low tide, but they will never "Stay" for too long in the low tide.
In the pursuit of success. If we really encounter setbacks, frustrations, or even failures, let us immediately say to our subconscious, like the "cowboy King" Levi's, which is always positive: great! This happened to me and gave me another chance to grow. Everything has its own cause and effect, and it will help me.
There is only one step between greatness and mediocrity. The process of their lives is the same. They fall, and climb again, but the number of successful people falls is less than once, the average person falls only once more than once. People who got up for the last time call them "successful ". People who cannot climb for the last time, or who do not want to climb up, dare not climb up, define them as "losers ".
In the face of failure, please always remember the belief that the essence of failure is that there is no failure in the world, but there is no success at the moment. Failure will never be a final decision if you do not accept the defeat!
Belief is a huge energy supply station in life. Here I want to repeat it again, and what kind of belief will lead to what kind of life. Life itself is a series of choices. Therefore, to succeed, to be happy, to succeed in your family, friends, colleagues, company, and team, Please carefully select your beliefs.

 

19. Stick to the end and never give up
One of the three giants of World War II, British Prime Minister Qiu Gill is a very famous speaker. His last speech in his life was at the graduation ceremony of a university. Perhaps Qiu Gill was too elderly and the whole speech lasted for about 20 minutes, however, he only spoke two sentences in the whole process, and they were all the same:
Stick to the end and never give up! He became a classic speech in the history of his speech. It's not that Qiu Gill is confused. The students on the stage have been deeply shocked by the voice of the great man of the century. With his life's success experience, Churchill tells people that success has no secrets at all. If there are two, the first is to stick to the end and never give up; the second is to follow the first tips when you want to give up: stick to the end and never give up!

20. Everyone can succeed
Many People unconsciously stick to the belief that success is a minority thing.
Do you think so too?
If you think that success is a matter of a few people, your subconscious will put yourself into the "majority.
If you think that success is easy to say, you may also strive for it on the surface, but the fear of "success" in your heart will make you dare not go all out and dare not expect it, in the end, you may simply not do it.
If you can read this book and do not need to explain it again, you are confident in this belief:
Everyone is successful! If so, it indicates that you are joining the "minority" winners.

21. Act now
One of the most expensive costs of life is that everything is waiting for tomorrow.
"Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow, and tomorrow, I am born to be tomorrow, and everything will become a success ."
Tomorrow will never come, because it is already today.
Only today is the most important day in our life. Only today is the only day we can grasp. Only today is the day we can use to surpass our opponents and make our own day better.
Do not pin your hopes on tomorrow. Hope will always be today, and hope will be now.
Action now! Only action can turn our dreams into reality.
Action now! Only a large number of actions will let us constantly surpass our competitors and ourselves.
Action now! Action now !! Action now !!!