36 Education Gold Rules Interpretation 2nd: No advanced education concept for support, "indefatigable" spirit can only produce "destroy the tireless" result

before, the online crazy biography Wang Jin Education Concept 33, feel some terms and I do not agree with the concept, this is not from my hand, but I very much appreciate the attention and recognition of my friends. Inspired by the matter, I will work more than 30 years of education sentiment has been carefully combed, summed up the 36 education Regulations , on June 14, 2014 in my blog published, to many warm-up education career friends brought inspiration.

  2nd article. Without the advanced educational idea to support, the spirit of "indefatigable" can only produce the result of "destroying people tirelessly".  Most parents, in fact, are both novice parents, neither parental training, nor the background of pedagogy psychology. After the birth of the child, mainly rely on the experience of predecessors, their own from the parents to learn the methods and ideas. Although it cannot be said that the inheritance of experience has no value, there are too many misunderstandings in children's education.  For example, "a dutiful son under the sticks." We can imagine how his heart would feel when a child is often acted upon by his parents. He will reflect on "I am sorry parents, sorry heaven"? Generally not. A child is not a good thing, is a normal. children grow up in the wrong, and children grow up in problems . If you do not understand this idea, if you do not understand when the problem comes out, happens to be the child to understand the problem, learn the right way, he can see the correct method is what? It's the sticks beating and scolding. Therefore, the child can not make mistakes to learn the right way of doing things, the heart is full of pain and anger, such people do not become anti-social people are already lucky, how can become a dutiful son?  when children learn difficulties, they are also more painful and anxious, the easiest thing to do is to give up. Many parents do not understand the difficulties children encounter, never into the hearts of children to listen to their voices, but feel that children become disobedient, lazy. Disobedience, laziness is the external manifestation of children's weariness, and what is the intrinsic reason? it may be because the teacher's words hurt the child, there may be a dark quarrel between parents affect the child's sense of security, it may be just up into the new high school in the face of the huge competition, but also may be due to a momentary negligence resulting in a decline in performance and loss of self-confidence. these real problems can not be understood, their inner pressure can not be released, parents instead blame children, it is worse, do not understand, chicken and duck talk. How can a child be willing to be better in this situation?  there used to be a parent who came to me with a child and said that the child was going to the college entrance exam. Because it is an art candidate, a long time ago spent a lot of money to learn professional, before the college entrance exam parents nag every day, you do not work late, you do not work hard we pay to hit the water drift. Children before the college entrance exam so tense, pressure is very big, parents do not give the child decompression, instead take the things they are willing to pay to the children to obtain results. The child was finally overwhelmed by the pressure, learning efficiency is very low, trance. Can you say that the parents don't love their children? But you ask the children will know that they do not feel the love of their parents, they can not bear such a sense of guilt, where there is a mind to study well?  parents are the children's first teacher, the law that teaches children survival. Parents are children lifelong teachers, guide children to healthy and happy growth. In this process, parents do not continue to study, with the existing experience to educate, at most can teach a person like himself, it is difficult to teach a person beyond the parents. Even more frightening, because of parents ' prejudice, because parents do not sleep in the implementation of the wrong education, the end of the child in the hands of parents, resulting in a decline in academic performance, internal spiritual frustration. It's not a "ruined man."

36 Education Gold Rules Interpretation 2nd: No advanced education concept for support, "indefatigable" spirit can only produce "destroy the tireless" result