A calm and peaceful heart and a spirit of endless struggle

Graduation 1.5, the work of the classmate did not change the work of very little, most have changed several. Instead of the classmate, in the first two days to see my bare words, I could not help but began to complain to me.

This 1.5, endless overtime, indifferent colleagues and leadership, tortured her to depression. There was a time, she because of the pressure is too big tinnitus, feel a force in the chest, unable to breathe, and even eat feel pressure to eat not go down.

She wanted to resign, but on the one hand the family does not agree, on the other hand did not consider what to do next, or no good under the house, she chose to continue to endure this no happiness can be said work. Before that optimistic and lively girl completely disappeared, replaced by this painful repressed "patient", make people distressed.

Another girl is the national Top 20 university graduates, the first job is in a bank guest service, she did very happy, but the salary is very low, completely can not support themselves, parents have always wanted her home closer. Eventually, she reluctantly went home to the examination into the public institutions, a very good unit.

But at dinner yesterday, the girl was arguing with her parents about her work and I was there. She said, the job is too depressed, do not happy, the reason is very simple: first, she felt that she did not have a promotion opportunity, and secondly, in the unit day is not afraid to speak loudly, long time in the state of repression, feel that they may have to break up again, and, because just go to the company, do not know the extra, do Boss always come to criticize, depressed can imagine.

I suggested that the first girl quit because I was afraid she would go on. The whole person was really depressed. 1.5 of the work, will be a happy little girl turned into a depressed depression patients, such a work is determined not to do! You don't have to worry too much about finding a better one, you forget that there are two possibilities when you make a choice, why is it going to be a bad thing? What makes you unhappy is a soft violence that is far more powerful than the pain of flesh. Life is so long, you want to continue to go on, you have to choose a road you like, hesitation life is doomed not to have too big surprise.

The second girl, may be more of their own problems, although the unit atmosphere is poor, but not so far. Only to work for half a year, how to jump to the conclusion that he has no promotion opportunities? About the work, I believe most of the new people have been such an "injustice", I just joined the work, not the end of tea pour water, print copy, dry some do not have a head of life?

Life always has a time, you have to endure some unacceptable things, to do things you do not like, and the results are often unexpected surprises. Too quick, may not have a good harvest anywhere, the immediate result is to have your pole rise to a certain height to appear, and you are still in the horizontal plane want to see the shadow, anxious some.

You do not have to worry about the boss can not see your performance, even if the end of tea pour water, long time will always notice you. Any thing, there is a process, the process you do not have to be impatient, just do the right things, your ability will be highlighted in imperceptible. Believe me, the gold will always shine, you do not shine, because your purity is not enough, but your bosom is too little, time is too short.

A long life, we are not going to keep going? Life always has to experience good bad, experience happiness and pain, there will always be a period of pain and endurance, there are always some time to make you happy. So, anyway, we still have to go on, learn to understand, to tolerate the pain, learn to self-regulation, learn to understand the people around, and occasionally can stand in the other side of the angle to see the problem.

Mr. Yang Jiang said, "We have so longed for the fate of the waves, to the last found that the most graceful of life scenery, is the inner calm and calm ... We have been so looking forward to outside recognition, until the end to know that the world is its own, and other people have no relationship. "This sentence to happy and unhappy with us, learn to peacefully with the people around, but also learn to really love themselves."

When you should sharpen your knife, do not rush to wood, this will hurt the sword, hurt the hand, in the road should be hard, do not rush to see the results. Time is long, you have to heart, rational to find a suitable road, may begin this road will be full of hardships, but the most beautiful flowers are always in the harshest environment.

Please believe that calm and peaceful heart and the spirit of endless struggle, will make you brilliant bloom!

A calm and peaceful heart and a spirit of endless struggle