A fragile life.

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Yesterday, singer Liao Beina died of breast cancer, only 33 years old. The circle of friends was brushed and the news about her was overwhelming. A promising star died young enough to make everyone feel the same.

Life is really fragile ah, around too many people left us, natural and natural disasters can not be avoided, and loved ones with the time, but it can be well cherished.

Say two stories around you.

Story One:
He worked in the state-owned enterprise for half a lifetime, although no official fat, but good health, family happiness, and a son in the key university, the days are also good. He is a good fellow, although never to curry favor with others, but in the company of the popularity of particularly well, who saw him are polite to greet. All say good people life is safe, but fate but with this nice fellow opened a joke.
He is a fat, slightly some high blood pressure, has been wanting to thin down, weight loss tea diet pills have tried, no use. Once, a friend told him, that who who, before you still fatter, every day insisted on running, half a year to thin down. With a try mentality, he insisted on running 10 laps on the playground at home next to the school after supper every day. One months later, the effect is very obvious, the beer belly down! He tasted the sweetness, and began to run wildly, like a demon, in the morning without light to run one hours to go to work, eat dinner and go to run two hours in the evening. You may ask, he is so good physically, not tired? In fact, he is also tired, every night more than 8 o'clock stained with a pillow to sleep, playing with thunder as loud. This exercise method, young boys are unable to carry, let alone a more than 50-year-old uncle.
One time, a young man running together invited him to ride a bike on the weekend, said: riding a bike like exercise effect, but also can ride to the suburbs to see the scenery, double benefit, we have a few people go weekly, you also try it. He took the attitude of trying again, pushing the women's bikes at home, on the road. From then on, he fell in love with the ride, and on the weekend he rode out on a day and paid for a road bike. This time the wife will not be happy, "can you wear helmet protector ah?" "It's uncomfortable and uncomfortable." "Big summer, go to bike hot not hot ah?" Can the sun go down again? "What's the matter, I'm not alone, and others are not too hot." "For this matter, the wife protested several times, invalid, finally had to lock up his bicycle, not let ride." But he is a persistent person, he secretly bought a bicycle, locked in other people's house downstairs, the weekend for a variety of reasons to slip out of the bike.
One evening, the sky was dark, and the cycling team was heading home from the suburbs. Halfway through a very long downhill, the speed is very fast, he rode in the last side of the team. Suddenly, the front of the people heard bang when a loud bang, hurriedly brake back to see, no street lights, nothing to see. Everyone with a mobile phone light, went back for a while, only to find that he fell unconscious on the ground, nose and ears are bleeding, the bicycle has been smashed into a group.
He was sent to the intensive care unit, his wife was anxious for a few nights did not sleep, the son also flew back overnight, to visit colleagues crammed full of corridors. The doctor said that there was a bleeding point in his brain that fell unconscious before falling, head to the ground, the situation in the head like a box of tofu fell on the ground. Not a few days later, he left the personnel.
For the next six months, his wife looked as old as 10 years old, and his son was not admitted to his favorite school. If he had listened to his wife's advice, if he did not go out on a hot day to ride a bike, if he had a protective gear. Well, Ben doesn't have that much if.
In fact, our life is not just our own life, the decisions we make will affect other people. Most of the time, think of the most intimate person, think of the person you love, perhaps the result will be different.

Story two:
She and he at the same university, there are several sides, but there is no intersection. She had a crush on him from seeing him for the first time and would sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to be accosted by such a boy. I didn't think the fantasy really came true, she was accosted, she still Misty, gave him the number. Later, they were together. Like other couples, they are on campus, go to study together, go to the cafeteria to line up, save money to buy gifts for each other. The original story can be developed like a small fresh campus idol drama, but who has developed into a death drama.
One day, he had a high fever, ate two days of school hospital open cold medicine and fever medicine, the condition has not improved, has some vague consciousness, even the body is a little puffy. He was sent to the city's big hospital, the doctor said, looking at symptoms like nephritis, need further examination. The students are coming, the teacher is also on the phone to inform his parents, he lying in bed, comfort lying on his body crying her, always said, nothing, nothing. For the next few days, he was examined, and he was not diagnosed. He was in a coma in bed, and she had no strength to cry. Then, the doctor found that his organs began to fail, this only to find the real cause, in fact, is not nephritis, but the lungs grow a thing. It was too late, because missed the best treatment time, he soon died.
Because of misdiagnosis, lost a life, such things may not be a news. But for her, feel the sky is falling down, every day in the quilt crying, roommate how to comfort her no use. She told every good friend that I would never love another person in my life.
A few years later, she graduated and found an enviable job in the metropolis. One day, friends on the social networking site found her and the new boyfriend's photo, very well-matched, we have sent a blessing. Who does not know in her heart, whether has forgotten many years ago which he.
A person's life, will lose a few of the most important people, sickness and death, can not be avoided. At the beginning, will feel God injustice, this kind of thing how can happen to oneself, there is no way to accept. But time will heal everything, will let people slowly out of the past, back to look at, some sad, but still will go down.

A fragile life.