A letter from a very good daughter-in-law to her mother-in-law

Mother-in-law:

You are just the mother of my husband. Before you get married, you have no meaning in my life. my life comes from my parents. Today's academic qualifications, abilities, education, and people's lives all come from the inheritance of my parents, and you can contribute nothing at all.

So I don't know why, after I got married, I had to live for more than 20 years and become the so-called (your home) person and the person in your home (minimum. The smallest reason is that I have always been younger than my son, who is only 2 years old this year.

To be honest, my mind is unbalanced. My parents have nurtured me for more than 20 years, and you have been the result of their hard work for more than 20 years. In fact, you have never been able to gain the opportunity. So when I help you do things, you have to thank my parents and my labor. If you are not grateful, you should not have a great opinion on me. You always take a magnifying glass to pick bones in the eggs. This is cheap and easy to sell.

I have my own jobs during the day and the economy has always been independent, so I don't have to rely on your son, nor have I lived on your son's salary. In addition, I have the ability to make a living today. I rely on my parents' education and my own learning and growth abilities. So I can't bear the fact that I have to contribute to your family, and I have to look at your face for the money I make myself! I don't owe you, I don't need you to raise it, I don't take you for a dime. I can respect your opinion, but I can't let you take the lead. So now I want to make it clear to you: I am paying for the electricity bill, so in the hot summer, you are not allowed to have comments when I go to bed with air conditioning. I will go to work the next day, sleep Quality is important to us. Also, I want to buy several sets of clothes and shoes. Please remember that these are my own money. The principle of spending money is based on my own capacity. If you want to take care of your son's money, I really don't want to look at your face. Besides, don't always think that your shop is great. If I don't, I will go out to work. Do you think that you can travel overseas for two weeks last year? Where is the money?

I often think that you really have no meaning for me. If you have any formal meaning for me, you are just the mother of my husband, all your kindness and credit are on him. He is the one who wants to reward you, and only my parents can reward me, if my parents are so picky about your son today, will you feel comfortable? How many requirements can your son meet? Therefore, if you want to eat fruit in the future, ask your son to cut it for you, because this is what he should do. Please wash your clothes. After all, you have helped him wash his clothes for more than 20 years (I have never bothered you with a pair of so ). Ask a doctor to ask him to take you to work early. I don't want to get the full attendance fee, and you will sneer at me when I catch a cold, so when you are ill, I cannot raise too much sympathy.

In short, he does what you should do, and I want to give back my filial piety to my parents who gave birth to me. If you want me to help you, you should at least close your picky mouth and be grateful, because I didn't owe you anything to help you because you are my husband's mother, that's all. If it weren't for him to be my husband, do you think you would be honored? In addition, you have read more about the news. Now it's all the time (for housework). Since you didn't pay my salary, I will help you with it and you will have to smile! Finally, if I write this letter to you, you will surely feel that I am not doing the same thing, but people respect each other and I will get along with you on this basis, if you cannot respect my feelings as well, even if I believe that you are an Elder, I still need to clarify the limits.

You will say (the daughter-in-law must know the truth), but I want to refute you here, I have never been raised by you, and I have never owed you, the greatest tolerance and respect for you and me are on your side.

Daughter-in-law