A story that must be known in life

1. Arrow breaks

If you do not believe in your own will, you will never be a general.

In the Spring and Autumn and Warring States Periods, a father and his son fought for war. My father was a general and his son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, and the drums thundered. His father solemnly held up an arrow with an arrow inserted in it. His father solemnly said to his son, "This is an arrow of family attacks. It has infinite power, but it cannot be drawn out ." It is an extremely exquisite arrow, thick cowhide, inlaid with a faint copper edge, and then look at the exposed arrow. It can be determined at a glance that it is made with the finest peacock feathers. The son was excited, greedy to think about the appearance of the arrow, the ears seemed to pass through the arrow, the enemy's coach to fold the horse. Sure enough, with the arrow of the son brave and extraordinary, invincible. When the horn of the treasure was blown, the son could not help but win again. He gave up his father's jealousy. his strong desire drove him out of his arrow and tried to see the truth. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow is contained in the arrow.

I have been rolling out an arrow to fight! The son was scared out of a cold sweat, as if the house was suddenly lost, and then collapsed.

The result is self-evident, and the son died in chaos.

The father picked up the broken arrow and gave a heavy blow: "If you don't believe in your own will, you will never be a general ."

How stupid it is to pin the victory and defeat on a treasure arrow. how dangerous it is to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, pin your hopes on your children; pin your happiness on your husband; and pin your life security on your organization ......

Tip: You are an arrow. If you want it to be tough, if you want it to be sharp, if you want it to wear a hundred steps, you can sharpen it, and you can only save it yourself.

2. Value of life

Don't let yesterday's frustration overshine tomorrow's dream!

At a seminar, a famous speaker did not make an opening speech, but held a $20 bill in his hand.

In the face of 200 people in the conference room, he asked: "Who wants this $20 ?" One hand lifted. He went on to say, "I plan to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing ." As he said, He kneaded the money into a group and asked, "Who needs it ?" Some people are still raising their hands. He said, "What if I did this ?" He threw the money to the ground, stepped on another foot, and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the money and the money had become dirty and wrinkled. "Who need it now ?" Someone raised their hands.

"You have taken a meaningful lesson, my friends. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it because it has not depreciated and it is still worth $20. On the road to life, we will be overwhelmed, bullied, and even crushed by our own decisions or adversity. We feel we are worthless. But no matter what happens or what will happen, You will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his opinion, you are still priceless if you are dirty or clean and neatly dressed ."

Tip: the value of life does not depend on what we do, nor on the people we make. It depends on ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!

3. Start up and look pretty good

Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.

Jenny is a little girl who always loves to keep her head down. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the ornaments store to buy a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although she did not believe it, she was very happy and couldn't help but raise her head, I am eager to show you that I don't care if I hit people when I went out. Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher. "Jenny, you are so proud to start up !" The teacher patted her on her shoulder and said.

On that day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be the credit of the bow. She could take a picture in front of the mirror, and there was no bow on her head. It must have been lost when she came out of the ornaments shop. Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance.

Tip: whether it is poor or rich, whether it is beautiful, or ordinary appearance, as long as you raise your head, happiness will make you cute-the kind of cute everyone likes.

4. Green Leaves

Draw a leaf for life, as long as you believe it, there will always be a miracle, although the hope is slim, but it will survive forever

American writer ou; Henry told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf": a dying patient in the Ward saw a tree out of the window, falling down in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the fallen leaves of Xiao, and the health of the patient went from bad to worse than a day. She said: "When all the leaves fall, I will die ." After learning it, an old painter painted a green leaf on the branches. The last leaf never fell. The patient miraculously survived because of the green color in his life.

Tip: life can have nothing but no hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!

5. Flying spider

Faith is a kind of force without a strong urge. When you believe that you can succeed, you will be able to succeed.

One day, I found a black spider had a large network between the two eaves of the backyard. Does a spider fly? Otherwise, from the eaves to the eaves, there is a gap in the middle of the width, how is the first line pulled in the past? Later, I found that the spider had taken many detours-starting from a eaves, knotting, moving down the wall, crawling forward step by step, carefully, and raising its tail, do not let the silk touch the sand stone on the ground or other objects, walk through the open space, and then climb the opposite side of the eaves, the height is almost the same, then tighten the silk, the same will be true in the future.

Tip: the SPIDER will not fly, but it can tie the online ice in the air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent, and tough insect. Its net system is well-crafted and well-disciplined, and it is opened in the form of gossip, as if to be assisted by God. This kind of achievement reminds people of those who have no words and some wise men who have no secrets. As a result, I remember that the spider would not fly, but it still closed the net in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.

6. Shadows are paper dragons.

In your life, there are often countless external attacks, but the impact of these attacks on you is in your hands.

My grandfather made me a dragon with paper. The gap between the Longlong abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts and put them in. They all died in it, and they were not spared! Grandpa said: "The locusts are too impatient. Apart from the struggle, they never thought of biting the dragon with their mouths, and they do not know that they can climb from the other end. Therefore, even though it has a clamp-like mouth shell and a toothed thigh, it will not help ." When my grandfather put a few qingworms of the same size in the faucet and closed the faucet, the miracle came: Just a few minutes, the little qingworms climbed out one by one from the tail of the dragon.

Tip: Fate has always been hidden in our thoughts. Many people do not go out of the shadows of different stages of life, big or small, not because they are born with personal conditions far less than others, but because they have no idea to break the shadows, and do not patiently and slowly find a direction, step by step forward, until the eyes appear new holes.

7. Success is not as hard as you think

It is not because we dare not do things, but because we dare not do things.

In 1965, a Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to chat with some successful people. The successful figures include the Nobel Prize winners, academic authority in some fields, and those who have created economic mythology. These people are humorous and cool, it is natural and logical to see all your successes. After a long time, he found that he was cheated by some successful people in China. In order to let those who are starting a business know the difficulties, they generally exaggerate their entrepreneurial hardships. That is to say, they are using their successful experiences to scare those who have not yet succeeded. As a psychology student, he believes it is necessary to study the mentality of successful Korean people.

In 1970, he took "Success is not as difficult as you think" as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Professor welden, the founder of modern economic psychology. Professor breden was pleasantly surprised to hear that it was a new discovery. Although this phenomenon exists in the East and even around the world, no one has proposed it and studied it before. In addition, he wrote a letter to his Cambridge alumnus, Park zhengxi, who was sitting in the first chair in South Korean political arena. He said in his letter, "I dare not say how much help this book has for you, but I am sure it can shake you any other command ."

Later, this book was accompanied by the departure of South Korea's economy. This book inspires many people, because they tell people from a new perspective that success and "work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies", "three more lights, five more chickens", "head suspension, there is no inevitable connection between the cone and the slogan. If you are interested in a career, you will succeed if you stick to it for a long time, because the time and wisdom God has given you can complete one thing. Later, the young man succeeded and became the president of Korean pan-industry Automobile Company.

Tip: many things in the world can be done as long as they want to do it. The difficulties to be overcome can also be overcome. They do not need any steel-like will, nor do they need any skills or strategies. As long as a person is still living in a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the Creator's arrangements for the world are successful.

8. Always get a ticket

Life is really interesting: If you only accept the best, you will often get the best.

A person who is on a regular business trip often cannot buy a ticket with the correct number. However, no matter whether it is a long distance or crowded, he can always find his seat.

His approach is actually very simple, that is, patiently finding a carriage. This method does not seem clever, but it works very well. Every time, he is ready to move from the first carriage to the last carriage, but every time he does not need to go to the end, he will find the vacant space. He said that this is because there are not many passengers who are reluctant to find seats like him. It is often because there are still a few seats in his compartment, while the aisles and joints of other carriages are full of people. He said that most passengers were easily confused by the crowded surface of one or two carriages, and did not want to dock for dozens of times, there are many opportunities to provide seats from the movements of more than a dozen train doors; even if they think of it, they do not have the patience to look. It is easy for most people to satisfy their needs. Some people feel that it is not worthwhile to squeeze one or two seats with bags. They also worried that, in case they could not find their seats, they would not even have a good place to stand. People who are comfortable with the status quo, enterprising, and afraid of failure will always be stuck at the starting point of failure, most of these passengers who do not want to take the initiative to find a seat can only stop at the first stop when they get on the bus.

Tip: self-confidence, persistent, visionary, and diligent in practice will give you a ticket to stay on your journey.

9. Stubborn stone in the heart

What hinders us from discovering and creating is only a psychological obstacle and an anchor in our thoughts.

Once upon a time there was a huge stone in the garden of a family with a width of about 40 centimeters and a height of 10 centimeters. The person who arrives at the garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or bruised. The son asked, "Dad, why didn't I dig out that nasty rock ?"

Dad replied: "You said that stone? It has been in the age of your grandfather since now. It is so large that you don't know when to dig it. It's okay to dig a stone. It's better to walk with caution, you can also train your response capabilities." After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, his son married his daughter-in-law and became a father.

One day, my daughter-in-law angrily said, "Dad, the big stone in the garden. The more I see it, the less pleasing to the eye. Please move it another day ."

Dad replied, "forget it! The big stone is very heavy. If I can move it away when I was a child, how can I keep it for now ?"

The daughter-in-law's heart is not a taste, and she does not know how many times she fell.

One morning, my daughter-in-law poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone with a hoe and a bucket of water.

Ten minutes later, the daughter-in-law loosened the dirt around the big stone with a hoe.

The daughter-in-law had a mental preparation and may have to dig for a day. No one had imagined that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes to see the size of the stone, which was not as big as imagined, they are all fooled by the huge appearance.

Tip: You can't climb the mountains with the idea of downhill. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mindset.

10. Self-forgetting

Do not treat yourself as a rat. Otherwise, you must be eaten by a cat.

In 1858, a rich Swedish family gave birth to a daughter. Soon after, however, the child suffers from an uninterpretable paralysis and loses the ability to walk.

Once, a girl and her family took a boat trip. The wife of the Captain tells the child that the captain has a bird of heaven. She is fascinated by the description of the bird and wants to see it in person. The nanny left the child on the deck and went to the captain. The child was impatient and asked the waiter on the ship to take her to the bird of heaven immediately. The waiter did not know that her legs could not walk, but only took her to see the beautiful bird. The miracle happened. The child forgot to hold the waiter's hand and slowly walked up because of his excessive desire. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When girls grow up, they forget to devote themselves to literary creations, and finally become the first women to win the Nobel Prize for Literature, that is, sierma; lagouff.

Tip: "forgetting myself" is a shortcut to success. Only in such an environment can talents surpass their own limits and release the maximum energy.

11. optimistic and pessimistic

The optimistic person sees the opportunity in every crisis, and the pessimistic person sees the danger in every opportunity.

The father wants to make a "personality transformation" for a pair of twins, because one is too optimistic, while the other is too pessimistic. One day, he bought many colorful new toys for the pessimistic child, and sent the optimistic child into a car room full of horse dung. In the early morning the next day, when my father saw that the pessimistic child was crying, he asked, "Why don't I play those toys ?"

"It will be bad when you play ." The child is still crying.

My father sighed and walked into the garage, but found that the optimistic child was saving something in the dung happily.

"Tell you, Dad ." The child proudly declared to his father, "I think there must be a pony hidden in the horse and dung !"

Tip: the difference between the viewer and the viewer is interesting: the viewer sees a fried pie, and the viewer sees a hole.

12. Be adventurous

For those who are afraid of Danger, danger is everywhere.

One day, the lobster and the crab meet in the deep sea. The Crab sees that the lobster is taking off its hard shell and only revealing its delicate body. The zombie said nervously: "How can you give up the only hard shell that protects your body? Aren't you afraid of a big fish eating you? According to your current situation, even the rapids will rush you to the Rock. Then you will not die before it will be strange ?" Lobster calmly replied: "Thank you for your attention, but you don't know. Every time we grow our lobster, we must first take off the old shell to grow a stronger shell. Now we are facing the danger, it is only to prepare for better future development." While thinking about it, you can only find a place to avoid it all day, instead of thinking about how to make yourself grow stronger and live in the shade of others all day, it is no wonder that our development is always limited.

Tip: everyone has a certain security zone. If you want to overcome your current achievements, do not set your own limits and be brave enough to accept the challenges and enrich yourself. You will certainly develop better than you think.

13. Try again

What is harder than a stone, or softer than water? However, soft water has penetrated the Hard Rock and persisted.

A young man has applied for a job at Microsoft but has not published any advertisement. Seeing that the general manager was puzzled, the young man explained in less skillful English that he happened to pass by here and rushed in. The general manager felt very fresh and made an exception to let him have a try. The interview results were unexpected and the performance of young people was poor. He explained to the general manager that he was not prepared in advance. The general manager thought that he was just looking for a token to go down the stage and said, "Wait for you to prepare and try again ". A week later, the young man once again entered the door of Microsoft, but he still failed. But he performs much better than the first time. The general manager still gave him the same answer as the previous one: "Wait until you are ready to try again ." In this way, the young man step into the door of Microsoft five times and is eventually hired by the company, becoming the key training object of the company.

Tip: Maybe, our journey of life is full of swamp land and sea of thorns; maybe the scenery we pursue is always mountain, not dark; maybe, our progress is always heavy and stumbling; maybe, we need to explore the dark for a long time before we can find the light. Maybe, our devout belief will be entangled in the dust of the secular world, and we cannot fly freely. Maybe, our noble soul cannot find the Pure Land in reality for the moment ...... So, why can't we say "try again" to ourselves with a strong and confident spirit of the Creator !" Try again, and you will be able to reach the other side of success!

14. Tiandao rewards

No one can rely on talent to succeed. God gives talent, and diligence turns talent into talent.

Zeng guofan is one of the most influential figures in Chinese history, but his childhood talents are not high. One day I read a book at home, but I do not know how many times I repeat an article. I am still reading it, because he hasn't memorized it yet. At this time, a thief came to his house, lurking under his eaves, hoping to get some benefits after the reader goes to bed. But wait, he will not go to bed, or he will read the article again and again. The thief was furious. He jumped out and said, "What kind of horizontal reading ?" Then I will recite the article to improve my strength! The thief is very intelligent, at least smarter than Mr. Zeng, but he can only be a thief, but Mr. Zeng is admired by Chairman Mao Zedong: "the greatest man in Modern Times has his husband ." "Diligence and self-help are good training. It is only a hard job ." The thief has a good memory. He has heard many articles and is very brave. When he sees others sleeping, he can jump out of the storm. After teaching Mr. Zeng, he has to endorse and develop his best fortune. However, unfortunately, he was not well-known, and Mr. Zeng later launched a large number of talents. It is said that the thief had a face-to-face relationship with Mr. Zeng, and he was able to work hard. Unfortunately, his talent did not work hard, it becomes final.

Tip: great success is directly proportional to hard work. If there is one point of work, there will be a bonus. Over time, from less to more, miracles can be created.

15. Good Learning Skills

Only a rat in the cave was quickly caught.

On a dark night, the mouse leader led the mouse out for food. In the kitchen of a family, there were a lot of surplus food in the waste bin. For the mouse, it was like a human who found the treasure. Just as a large group of mice dug a huge meal in the garbage bin and nearby area, a sudden burst of liver and gallbladder split, that is, the cry of a big cat. While they were shocked, they had to escape their lives, but the big cat was no mercy and persistently pursued them. Finally, two little mice were unable to escape and were caught by the big cat and were about to swallow them, suddenly a series of fierce dog bits were heard, making the big cat helpless. After the big cat leaves, the mouse leader Shi ran out of the recycle bin and said, "I have told you that it is harmless to learn another language. This time, I have saved your life ."

Tip: "One more skill, one more way ." Continuous learning is a lifelong commitment of successful people.