when people live in the world, they must participate in social interactions. The social networking scope is closely related to their careers, hobbies, lifestyles, and geographical locations. But in real life, why do some people always fail to make friends in social networking, or they leave their friends for a long time, and their relationship with their colleagues is not harmonious at ordinary times. The reason is that this kind of person's mental state in social networking is poor, which hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationships. This kind of mental state is actually a pathological psychology in social networking, the following are common examples:
I. Inferiority some people are prone to inferiority, and may even look down upon themselves. They lack self-confidence, have no guts to do things, and are timid. They follow the instructions and do not have their own opinions. If this kind of psychology cannot be overcome, it will wear out a person's unique personality.
2. the cowardly psychology is mainly found in people who are not deeply involved in the world, who have a low experience, are introverted, and are not good at words. Because of the cowardly, even if you think the right thing in social media, after careful consideration, but cannot express it. This kind of psychology can also be observed by others, and the result is to have opinions on themselves and do not want to be good friends.
3. Suspicion some people often look at each other with untrusted eyes when they are engaged in social networking or work with their friends, without any suspicion, however, they asked others what they said when they were doing things. The result affects the relationship between friends.
4. Reverse psychology some people always love to stick up with others to show that they are unconventional. If you say yes to anything, I think it is bad. You are right, I will say it is wrong, so that others will dislike themselves.
5. Some people in the playing psychology regard making friends as an on-site scene. They may encounter different things and make fun of each other. They love to brag and talk about beautiful things. If they have met someone, they will say how deep they are in contact with someone. This kind of person-to-person interaction is just superficial.ArticleTherefore, there are no friends with deep feelings.
6. financial greed some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "use each other". They can only interact with friends who are useful to themselves and can benefit themselves, and often "cross the river and bridge ". This kind of greed for wealth and wealth will damage your personal personality by drawing on the bad psychology of others.
7. indifference some people treat all kinds of things as long as they have nothing to do with themselves, or mistakenly think that the words are sharp, the attitude is arrogant, and the stride is "personality ", so that others do not dare to approach themselves, thus losing some friends.