Achieve comprehensive growth in the University

[Preface] in addition to learning, a university must have enough contacts to develop comprehensive capabilities. I am optimistic about the role of the student community, but the role has changed from deep participation to behind-the-scenes support, and the development of the Community is truly handed over to college students. A classmate who experienced discord in community activities sent me a letter, and I also wrote the following to raise new requirements for him.

 

I wonder if you have removed it from your anger? Seeing your letter at that time, I first thought of me more than 20 years ago. It was so true that I even felt lonely from time to time. As you grow up, as the space for participation increases, you will find that the world we are facing is huge and complicated. When there are more people, everyone has their own personality, some are acceptable and some are unacceptable. The same is true for all kinds of things encountered. A little bit of shadow disappears in the fairy tale ideal world. This is the real world we face, a world we must accept. A person, one thing, And Byebye can be a choice, but there will always be contact. Maybe, only when you get my age can you know that it is difficult to find your position in an environment that you are not willing to face, work with others who are unwilling to accept but have to be together, and do things well. People who are not really familiar with the situation can be referred to as those who have strong adaptability. High people are indeed wise. They can solve all kinds of contradictions in the conversation and laughter, and naturally they can be bent to take full care of the overall situation, they often make great contributions. However, there are also people we look down upon who have no position to take the lead. Your future should be broad, so what you need to cultivate now is to learn to accept and learn to coexist with others in this environment. Because you are living in reality, you must do this. In fact, after changing your mindset, you will find that the world is diverse and there are various kinds of people. This is the highlights of the world. It means that there are many types of things, and there are many groups of people. It is boring to go all over the world. I have a limited understanding of your seriousness. You will be a talented person with solid professional competence in the future, but professional competence is not the most critical factor in your career success. The key factor is the ability to be compatible with the environment, which is gradually cultivated in the real world. When college students play together (including the games we don't know) and participate in community and social practice, they enrich their lives and increase their experience in these areas. You are right and insist on doing your own thing seriously, but in addition, the University is also a place for all-round growth. You need to have other circles, growing more comprehensively in participation. Back to the problem you encountered, the other party's rudeness is certainly not correct. You can also understand that you are "angry at the time", but you must learn to exercise restraint. While waiting for a decrease in the concentration of young hormones, you must take the initiative to learn the skills to deal with such things. When students talk to me, my principle is who calls me and who I say. This is my principle. I don't have to comfort you when talking about others. In this case, "if you have something to do, you can do your own thing if you have nothing to do" is serious about your style, but you have never thought about welcoming new people or other things, it is not enough to keep the stalls. Unexpectedly, there may be a lot of new students who need to do their jobs. Since you are on duty in your department, it is inappropriate that you have been present as the owner, but you have left. At this time, students in the association chatted about various things casually. It is a major event of the Community to welcome new people. They are not standing here. Okay, maybe I should have said it again. At the founding of the Community, we regarded "going to the administrative flavor" as a style. Now we can't help but bring in some undesirable discord. I accept this situation in my helplessness. Provide a real environment for mutual cooperation between the students, so that they can make some impact in a timely manner. This may be an irony that I have been worn out by reality and I still claim to be an idealist. However, we do have to settle down before we can talk about anything else. Take the initiative to seek change in everything. This is the topic of my last conversation with you. It seems that you have taken the initiative to respond to this issue, but it is actually a passive choice. Take the initiative to seek for changes, the premise is based on reality. I hope that you can find out the direction you need to work on and become a comprehensive person.

 

 

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Achieve comprehensive growth in the University