Alone, not alone.

Lin Huiyin said, the real calm is not to avoid the car horse noise, but in the heart to repair the fence plant chrysanthemum. If you want to measure a person's inner strength, see if he can be alone, if you want to measure a person's style, look at what he did when he was alone.

People in this life is not a struggle with others, but the process of self-cultivation, stand alone to get freedom, can not bear loneliness is easy to be diverted or interfered with others.

Alone can help us to hold the heart, let us feel the true meaning of life, intentions to summarize the madness noisy life brings us the revelation, this is a person's mature sign, but also a person become strong self-reliance sign. At this time we, more is by faith in the care of their own hearts, as long as the belief that they will be very strong, then we are also lonely, but only endure loneliness and criticism, to find the most real self.

Sometimes, someone else will turn you into a monster, and I will try to explain it to others, but I won't do it now, because you can't make everyone happy, and it's not necessary. We must take seriously the work, the affection and the love, but this absolutely cannot be our life all. Because only solitude can clear the mind and the bad information in the mind, so as to accept more good new things. Most girls will be lovelorn, but by looking for the next love or with friends to eat and sing to fill the empty heart, often the effect will be even worse, so not only will not let oneself become good, but will let oneself find not self.

Two years ago, I had a problem with my feelings, and I felt my emotions fall into the trough all of a sudden. I was just in time for the 11 long vacation, and that night I stayed awake. I think I have a lot of places do not good enough, for example, not much for the other side, living ability than poor, as if only work will not live, too dependent on drivers and assistants. So, I decided to do not need anyone around the trip, the next day I woke up, I picked up the puppy, dusted the dust on the car, kicked the four tires can use, confirm all OK after the departure. This is the first time I have a long distance, frankly, this is a great challenge to my body and mind, I have been listening to the navigation, began to depart from Beijing to my hometown of Qingdao. I know that the distance of nearly 800 kilometers is a lot of challenges for me, but since I'm leaving, I'm going down.

Just out of Beijing, I was caught in the middle of a lot of trucks, the truck is about to be bought and sold pigs, I looked at their desperate eyes, listening to their hoarse call, I think, the end of life is so cruel, but I can not stop anything, so I looked at my puppy said, obediently, you are so lucky, I hope you will not be reborn in the next life to do animals, I dare not look at these animals to slaughter, heart bursts of sadness.

Alone, not alone.