An unsuccessful person's "success"

Someone said this to me: "He is a self-taught student ." I'm not angry at all when I hear this. Because what people say is true. I am indeed an untalented person and an unsuccessful person. In 1977, I graduated from high school and took part in the first resumed College Entrance Examination. Although I scored nearly thirty points more than my own subject, however, because I don't know how to volunteer (the top universities like Jilin University and Wuhan University), I was transferred to a medical major that I did not report at all and was not interested in at all. To take a postgraduate student in chemistry at the University of Science and Technology of China, I have endured the unbearable pains of ordinary people. I have taught myself for ten years (almost from scratch ). However, the name is Sun Shan because the English language is five minutes different. It is no longer possible to take another test. Because of the long-standing study and absence of exercise, especially the freezing time in the room in winter, he suffered severe periodic paralysis in 1981. The postgraduate entrance exam is even more serious. I almost climbed to the test room. The ten years of self-study for postgraduate entrance exams were also difficult to endure. Now, sitting in a low-temperature room for a little longer, it will cause muscle pain, four limbs, and even unable to stand and walk. After graduation, I was assigned to a medical college, and my school was afraid of losing talent to limit my postgraduate entrance exam. So I moved back to my county to work. This is not the case. graduate students are not only ill, but also fall from a university in a big city to a small unit in the county. Looking back on the past few decades, I really want to see the yellow river ice and the snow will fill the Taihang Mountains ."
　　
Today, the story of success is everywhere. None of these "writers" and "authors" are successful people. Failure is the best way to educate people, and failure is the best way to stay awake. Today, I am not a talented person or an unsuccessful person. I also want to join in and talk about the "success path" that the failure tells me ".
　　
I. ideal goals and success
　　
Ideals and goals are the driving force and the direction of struggle. Success only belongs to those who never give up. If you have no ambition, you will have no achievements. If you have no pursuit, you will have no achievements. Many people cannot do big things, but cannot become successful people. Often they are not incompetent, but lack lofty ideals and goals.
　　
Think of the injury that you cannot get; bear the injury that you cannot pick. Ordinary things can do extraordinary things, show extraordinary spirit, and achieve extraordinary life. An unrealistic ideal goal is equivalent to having no ideal, no goal, or even worse. Therefore, our ideals and objectives must be realistic: subjective conditions, objective conditions, and social needs.
　　
2. Interests and success
　　
If ideal is indirect motivation, interest is the direct motivation for success. Success lies in obsession. If you are obsessed with something, you will become a genius in this regard. But if you are obsessed with something you shouldn't be obsessed with, you can destroy people. If those who are obsessed with online games can use that obsession to learn, they will certainly become a learning genius. In this way, I don't know how many parents will laugh and be so happy that I can't sleep.
　　
If you love someone you like, hard work is a kind of happiness. If you do what you love, you can enjoy it if you are tired and busy.
　　
Diligence and concentration are the guarantees of success, but only love can work hard and concentrate. If I hate something, will I work hard and concentrate on it?
　　
Iii. Hard work and success
　　
Victory lies in persistence, and success lies in hard work. If you don't climb to the peak, you won't be able to succeed if you don't work hard. Happiness will not fall from the sky, and success will not go from the ground. Ordinary people will be "not ordinary" if they are diligent ". When the word is lazy, everything goes wrong, and when the word is diligent, everything goes wrong.
　　
4. Confidence and success
　　
Self-confidence is a successful friend, and inferiority is the enemy of success. Self-confidence makes people smart, and inferiority makes people stupid. Only with self-confidence can you give full play to yourself, improve yourself, and achieve yourself. The more self-confidence, the more likely it is to succeed, the more confident it will be.
　　
We must always trust ourselves and never trust others. If you are superstitious about others, you will despise yourself. If you are superstitious about others, you will lose yourself. If you are superstitious about others, you will kill yourself. Self-confidence, self-knowledge, superstitious, and foolish.
　　
V. Methods and successes
　　
It is time-saving to approach the road, and time-consuming to take a detour. The road is the way. After the goal is determined, only by selecting and using the correct method can you achieve your own ideals and goals and achieve success.
　　
6. outlook on life and success
　　
Happiness determines happiness, life determines life, and value determines value. Only those who create value for society can have value in their lives. If a person is always thinking only about himself and having comfort and enjoyment, can he achieve real success?
　　
7. Morality and success
　　
In my opinion, morality is also a manifestation of ability, intelligence, and intelligence. Who wants to live in a dangerous building? Who would like to have a dangerous bridge? Similarly, who is willing to use dangerous people? Who are willing to make dangerous friends? In the snow, it is an unforgettable thing to remember. Only by being human can we do things. The more you lose yourself, the more you lose yourself. The more you lose yourself, the more you exist, the more you succeed.
　　
8. Courage and success
　　
Both daring and timid are big. If you are not afraid of difficult questions, you will be afraid of your head; if you are not afraid of high mountains, you will be afraid of soft legs. If you do not dare to think, you will not dare to do it. If you do not dare to do it, you will not succeed. Many people are mediocre and mediocre in their life. They are not incompetent, often because they have no courage.
　　
9. Concentration and success
　　
Do not look around when you are walking. The fruit of tree branches is big, and there are many achievements for people to learn from each other. Stone drops because they are always on one point. If you are not attentive, you will fail.
　　
10. Reason and success
　　
It is hard to break a car with a spring, and it is hard to lose people with reason. Emotional use is often a bad thing, and rational work is often done. This is because only when people are rational can they stay awake and have a correct sense, understanding, and thinking.
　　
11. Sequencing and success
　　
The slope is steep. Step 1 climb the building and Step 10 fall behind. Learn, exercise, experiment, knowledge, experience, and materials. If you have knowledge, experience, and materials, do not fail. Many people despise small ones and only want to do big things. Such a large person cannot succeed. The reason is that there is no accumulation of knowledge, experience, and materials for hours.
　　
12. Thoughts and success
　　
Think more beforehand and worry less afterwards. Think before and after the event, less sorrow. Think twice beforehand and do nothing afterwards. Think twice, think twice.
　　
13. Careful and successful
　　
Failure is often caused by carelessness, and success is often caused by carefulness. This is because: only careful can discover details, and only careful can discover the truth. Only by observing carefully can we discover something. Only by thinking carefully can we make some innovations. But note: being too careful and careless is not helpful to success. Because, if you are too cautious and careful, you will be afraid of your head, fear the wolf, fear the tiger, and dare not dare to think, dare to do.
　　
14. attitude towards failure and success
　　
Eating will be paralyzed, walking will be broken, and doing things will fail. Failure is a part of success and a guide to success. Fear of failure means fear of success; avoidance of failure means avoidance of success. If you cannot treat failures well and actively accept the lessons learned from failures, failure will never be the mother of success.
　　
15. Usual accumulation and success
　　
Accumulation is wealth, and accumulation is success. The most typical example is our literary creation. If we do not have the accumulation of life, understanding, language, and writing, can we write good articles?
　　
16. Habits and success
　　
Good habits help people quietly, bad habits harm people quietly. Allow others to depend on others and defeat themselves. Therefore, although bad habits are hard to be changed, they must be changed.
　　
17. Opportunities and successes