Awakening after 40

After forty years, I realized that my friend is like a fish in the water. The fish in the deep water layer and the shallow layer will never walk together, both grass-roots and xiangui cannot be true friends because they have different experiences in life. The most important thing is that they treat the world and nature differently. Even rich and rich, officials, and officials will not become real friends. Because there are benefits, differences, trade-offs, priorities, concerns, and separation, the hearts of worldly interests are blinded by the true feelings. Therefore, there will be no true sense of affection.

It was only after forty years that I realized that young people are amazing, but maturity is even more appealing. Looking at women is no longer just like youth and beauty, but more important to maturity, peace, nature and clarity; more important to women's mind, generosity, wisdom and benevolence; more emphasis is placed on the connotation behind the stability and maturity and the occasional softness.

Forty years later, I realized that I would like to sincerely thank the person who has waited for your life, because he is the harbor of your life. I want to smile and face the person who once hated him, because he makes you stronger; sincere thanks to those who have loved you, because they have made you understand love. thanks to those who have betrayed you, if not, you will not understand the world. To those who have secretly liked you, I sincerely wish him happiness, because when you like him, I also hope that he will be happy. If you are trustworthy, you must get along with him well and never meet a few sincere friends or real friends in your life.

After forty years, I realized that men do not like to be controlled by women, especially those who do not like to be controlled by those who do not have the power of mind. This will not only lose self-esteem, but also distort the soul. They need to communicate with each other peacefully. There is no high or low level of feelings, and no need to control and grasp them. Feelings flow freely, and deliberate control and pursuit will not have a sense of truth. The sincere feelings of the Earth require a tacit understanding of the soul, and even a natural spiritual communication.

Forty years later, I realized that things in the world are complex and simple. You are simple, and the world is simple. If you live a beautiful and brilliant life, you have to bear the pain. Everything has two or more sides. Right and wrong are sometimes hard to tell. What you like is probably what others hate and hate. The world and nature do not develop or destroy as you wish.

After forty years, I realized that the happiness index depends entirely on the mentality. The treasure and preferences that have been around for years do not necessarily bring comfort to the soul. In the face of dealing with and hypocrisy, it may end up with an increasingly empty mind. Both ambition and sorrow are the tragedies of life, it is far better to be plain and carefree.

Forty years later, I realized that, in the whole life, you don't have to worry about a few more heterosexual confidants. It's the ups and downs of your life and the wonderful Chinese chapter. However, you should be more caring, greedy, understandable, and demanding. Put emotions in a free space, to treat others with extensiveness, that is, to treat yourself with extensiveness; To treat feelings with extensiveness, that is, to treat the soul with extensiveness. Let each other do not have to bear the burden of feelings, so that the sunshine and warmth always shine and soothe the feelings of life.

After forty years, I realized that there were not many opportunities for affection, friendship, and even love. In my spare time, I quietly think about how many reliable friends and confidant I have lived for decades. Don't look at and differentiate friends from what you call your status, or from what your official post can control. These so-called friends may be the least reliable 'friends '! In addition to work, there is a wider space for people to live. Work and positions are not the only thing in life. As the saying goes: You must be a confidant in your life. I may have thought about how miserable my soul is, even a confidant. Should we always reflect on ourselves and treat others really well? More tolerant, more generous, more benevolent, true feelings for the truth, this is the root of people.

After forty years, I realized that my wife or husband had long been seemingly dull and even unbearable. However, years have already merged into one another. Even if it is hard to tolerate, it is part of life. When we are together, we may not cherish it. If we separate them, we will find it hard to leave.

After forty years, I realized that the meticulous care and love for our children not only make us feel tired, but also make our children unable to survive. When I was a child, I was afraid that they would endure hardships, be afraid that they would suffer, be afraid that they would be overwhelmed by the storm, and be afraid that they would be too scared. When they grow up, we still want to bear deep sorrow and pain for our original fear? I don't know how to see the rainbow without going through the storm. That's all right!

After forty years, I realized that no one of us can win the game with time. Life is short. It is not a vague sentence. I feel a lot of feelings for people in their forties. Face everything calmly, live yourself, live self-confidence, think what you want, do what you want, love yourself, and love others. Regardless of the time and place, you must cherish your fate. Whether it is your passthrough of your life or your long-term confidant, it is a wonderful memories of your life. 'The sea of people is rare to have a few real friends, please do not care about this situation '! Don't wait until you can't do anything.