Bad temper is actually selfish.

Controlling your emotions is an adult's most basic ability.

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There is no denying that everyone will be in trouble, and everyone will be in a very bad mood.

Sometimes, we will become negative energy because of the pressure of life, the mood is particularly bad, sometimes because of their dissatisfaction and suddenly become irritable, and some people can release their own way the pressure and dissatisfaction of the mood, will not affect others.

And some people, it is not the case.

They like to try to make themselves feel better by losing their temper or even yelling at them, and their behavior can affect others.

People are always determined by the environment, there is no natural bad temper, the so-called bad temper is mostly acquired after the smelly problem.

And those who always like to lose their temper is never consider the feelings of others, in the final analysis, is selfish.

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Many people do not realize that there is something wrong with bad temper.

Between lovers, we all know, girls will often play some small temper, hair and then let the boys to coax her, thereby proving that they have a sense of existence in the eyes of boys. This we do not say, a word, and the line and cherish.

However, a lot of boys in front of the girls should not be angry, said here, some people may stand up to refute me, not to say that love should be equal, why girls can be small temper and boys can not.

In fact, there is no issue of equality between men and women, there is a saying, you do not get used to her, that only let others used, I asked you would like to. If you don't want to, just endure her little temper.

And our male friends may say, there is a sentence is said, men have temper is supposed to ah, after all, men.

Wrong, because it is a man, we can not just temper, you think, the girl will put her life delivered to you, you not only do not tolerate her to her, but also to her temper, everywhere with their own satisfaction for the purpose, this is selfish.

If two of people have contradictions, the bad temper, often are not tolerant of the poor self-control, they always want to vent through the anger, finished will find some excuses, completely do not worry about the feelings of others, this is the most terrible selfish.

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In life, we are always angry with our dearest ones, and treat their attitudes even better than strangers.

Many times, we always relied on his door will have been love us, so accustomed to himself, slowly become a very bad temper, and angry, never consider the family and friends angry will bring them how much harm.

It is not selfish to enjoy the love that your family brings to you while you are trying to make a fuss over the endless tantrums.

I think this, each of us should go to reflect on, to change, do not again to the family disorderly temper, can not be so selfish down.

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In fact, the more powerful people, the better the temper, they understand that temper can not solve any problem. The only way to solve the problem is to face it, and then calm down to solve it.

Think about, in life we lost a lot of love because of anger, how many people hurt, how much delay. Once angry, certainly in a short period of time can not be a normal state to get along with others, more impossible to normal work, really is no benefit.

So, stop feeling bad temper is not a problem, a person's temper can really reflect the person in the end.

The so-called bad temper, is selfish and incompetent.