Biography of Dell Carnegie card, [US] Dell Carnegie card
The following is my book excerpt:
* At this time, Carnegie card is writing a book. This book is called Lincoln rumor. When he conceived the book, on the one hand, he was in the worship of Lincoln, on the other hand, because he hated everything in his family. He found that Lincoln's family life is so similar to his family life. Although he wrote Lincoln, he thought it was entirely about his autobiography.
* At a spring evening in 1944, a grove on the banks of the New York river sat under the tree side by side. They are in a very happy mood and enjoy the sweetness of love together.
In the Bible, God divides people into two halves, half men, and half women, so that these two people come to the world to look for each other. Carnegie is talking about the Tao lexis.
They have been looking for, and someone has not been looking for it for the rest of their lives, so they have been hitting the bachelor for the rest of their lives. Some people thought they were looking for a combination, and they found that they were not the half of their own, so they could not attract each other. Life is dull and boring. Naturally, it cannot be really cool, just live together. This is a pale marriage without color or love. Of course, there are also people looking for each other, their hearts, their spirit, their bodies will become a person, happiness is not full of life, this is a perfect marriage, however, it is not easy to find the half.
After a period of time of mutual love, Carnegie Mellon was formally married in November 5, 1944.
* Carnegie fold said with a smile: "saving is a virtue and an important way for me to get rich. If I have money, I will not waste it. Even if I have the wealth of the world, I will not waste a little more ."
* Anyone's criticism can be ignored if they are striving for perfection.
* In retrospect, the actions taken at that time were too arrogant and impulsive. If I analyze it calmly, I will come to the conclusion that half of the readers of the Sun report may not have seen or noticed this report, in addition, half of the readers who have read this report will think it is not a malicious joke. In addition, after several weeks of direct sales, these people will forget all the contents of this report. If so, what else do I need to get angry?
After so many things, I already have a good understanding of such things. I realized that people in the world don't really care about others' things or ridicule. People spend 24 hours a day focusing on their own things. It can be said that they are more concerned about their own minor headaches than others.
* LINCOLN: "I am not an hour old and do not know much about it. But I can read and write. I have not gone to school since then. On the basis of such a tired education, I have been able to achieve this small achievement. It is all about the future needs and the knowledge I have learned from time to time ."
* Learning to read makes Lincoln see another magical world-a world he never dreamed.
* If a person is really interested in others, he will get more friends than a person who wants to be interested in him within two months.
* Our most important task is not to look at distant, obscure things, but to actually close to the nearest and definite work.
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At ordinary times, there are many problems and ideas that have been entangled in Dell Carnegie card. It seems that it is about to break out. In the lonely and dark street, Carnegie card was walking slowly and melancholy, full of hardships and pains in his life, as well as confusion and confusion at this moment, he was about to crack his head. Despite the cold air blowing from the street corner, he still could not calm down and kicked garbage, bricks, or broken glass everywhere while walking.
Although the blocks nearby are not only dirty and dangerous, the black community is so powerful. However, tonight's Carnegie we are not afraid, and don't care about those gangsters. In fact, he is covered by a greater fear and fear of survival, the helpless sense of loneliness is surrounded by him like the dark night.
As they walked, Carnegie card saw some street vendors roasting chicken and sausage in the charcoal flame, and the smell of incense was also intermittently tempting Carnegie card. He hasn't eaten dinner yet, and his pocket has only two dollars and thirty cents.
The faint charcoal fire is like a spark of stars, but it is a bit like a cool fire. In such a bright fire, the face of Dell Carnegie card came to the fore: Behind the pale red glasses, there was a pair of deep eyes, and the pale and excited face made Carnegie card look a little worn out. The collar is very clean, the bow tie is very beautiful, and the gray suit coat is closely tied. If during the day, the two buttons on the loose suit may be stained, And the wrinkles on the knees may seem to have been flattened every night.
Carnegie was walking slowly to his apartment. As he stepped up the stairs, he forgot that he had lived on the second floor and suddenly came to the balcony on the third floor, that is, the top floor. The sky is gray, and there are no stars and no moon. It is as hard to find a little light as the heart is empty. He is still depressed and has been in meditation for a long time. Suddenly, he asked himself, "Did the landlord find you? How did you go to the third floor and forget to avoid the landlord! Otherwise, he will ask you for rent. It seems that he does not have to go to bed tonight ."
With ease, Carnegie card opened the door, and the light was no longer on, lying quietly in bed. He tried his best to fall asleep early, but everything he had just thought about was on his mind, and he was suffering from several new problems:
"I have to lose my job again. What should I do! My headache is always bad. Am I dying? What will I look like in one, two, or ten years !"
A sleepless night has passed. At dawn, Carnegie card stood up, dressed in trousers, and reached out to pick up some ties on the wall. In my sleepy eyes, I caught it and found that all the nasty black spots were original. The insects dispersed around and searched for the corners of the wall and dark ink in the small fighting room, but they were still shot and killed by Carnegie ol without mercy.
Carnegie Ley remembered a question: "Is it a worm? Are I a worm? Isn't I a weak and powerless worm in the midst of great hardships ?"
When Carnegie was surrounded by melancholy thoughts, there were no friends or relatives around him (more lack of good teachers and friends). He had only one person and several books. While he carefully escaped his apartment landlord's step towards his position, he was always thinking about where his worries came from. Suddenly, he noticed that there was a building that was yet to be completed. It was the famous urwworth building. The 100 feet-High Gothic magnificent building often reminded people of the rapid economic development of the united states. However, when Carnegie card noticed this building, he turned his inner self into such a tall and magnificent building and looked at himself from a very high place:
"The reason why I have a strong resistance is that the dream I described during my college years has now become a nightmare. Is this life? Once upon a time, I had a lively life, and now I have been busy with my scornful work. I have no hope for a rough food ...... This is everything in my life?
"I am not doing this very well. Every day, I just move my mouth and try to push a cart to the customers at most. I need gasoline or lubricants, but why do I still feel very tired and annoying? It's easy to get exhausted, it's easy to get a headache, but it's actually my evaluation of my work. There is no happiness or satisfaction, just bored, hate, a feeling of not appreciation, a useless feeling entangled in me, the soul is not scattered! "Carnegie Mellon was so meditating that he suddenly came to the spacious store and started his day's work.
The manager came and said, "Good morning, Dell! "However, Carnegie did not think much about it, just blindly looking at the manager, and waited for his instructions. Until now, his heart is full of melancholy.
* In fact, public speeches cannot be taught. If I speak to a boy for 50 hours, do you think I can teach him to swim? No, he must teach himself. All I can do is get him into the water and try to give him confidence. Learning to speak in front of the public is just like learning to swim. The best teacher is practice, and the biggest obstacle is fear.
* What is enthusiasm? Enthusiasm is to express the feeling of the heart, explore people's interest in discussing the issues they are interested in, and impress people's inner world.
* A person can be self-affirmed, regard himself as a valuable person, and be able to achieve his goal by understanding himself.
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