Breakthrough Fixed Thinking 2

First, break through the fixed thinking

I have to say, this is the accumulation of my blood, I suffer from it.

1. Remain cautious.

Subjective view, is not feasible. All of our own subjective view of the world is not feasible.

The world is changing every moment, and what I think is not necessarily the actual situation. So, be cautious and give yourself a posterior.

Be cautious and see the situation before you move. See your opponent's intentions before you move. What I think is not necessarily the actual situation, I think the good--the result may be to make me uncomfortable. This to me, is the lesson of blood!!!

Never use the way you feel good to face the outside world. The essential reason--what you think, is what you think, is what you have accumulated in the past, but what you are facing is now, it is a new situation, that doesn't necessarily apply. Never subjectively think of what is happening in the present.

I have countless pain, weakness, and the tangled encounter, that is the cause. Of course, also I want to be happy ah, my greed.

2, abandon the past phenomenon

The point I want to make is to abandon past perceptions of society and people, to abandon past impressions and perceptions of one person, and to abandon all knowledge of the past.

The reason for abandonment-because all this is a phenomenon, the phenomenon is constantly changing. It's the truth.

(1) To deal with past good experiences

That's the thing to do. But remember not to be used, to decide for yourself.

The past is different from the present, and the present phenomenon cannot be changed. Thanksgiving, there is no wrong, but that should be their choice, not for others. Should face every moment of the new situation.

(2) Every moment of man is now.

Now is the fact that cannot be changed. And can only face the new situation now. You can thank former classmates for their help, or think someone is okay. But remember, that is the past, the past phenomenon can not change the present phenomenon, to face is the present phenomenon.

(3) It is useful and meaningful only to live in the present.

Reflection of the past, is to not repeat the same, is to learn to deal with the right now. But remember, now is now, the past is the past, to be sensible to realize this fact. Every moment of man is now.

To be decisive is to be impeccable.

To live in the present is truth.

Must come back to the road of seeking truth from facts.

The world is changing. Do not be subjective to see the world, not to do other people's slaves.

3, specifically how to do?

Stay cautious. Prepare for the posterior. See the situation in action.

Think about how to get rid of yourself. It's about the present, how it can work. The purpose is now that everything is being used now, rather than putting what you have accumulated into the present. To recognize this primary and secondary relationship. Live in the present, deal with the present and serve the present.

Faced with the present situation, then, now the generalist line. Discard the past and discard the accumulated phenomena of the past. Should use a new attitude to face the present people and things, see how to do.

Which is to abandon the present

Technology to keep pace with the times, everyone knows. But I was confused about dealing with people. Should be ready to give up yesterday on a person's treatment, facing the current situation to deal with the current people, at any time can abandon the new approach. This is flexibility. This is the boldness.

"It is not reckless to take up and put down", but to deal with the specific situation.

4, what should stay?

(1) Effective methods for learning knowledge and accumulating experience. -This is the most important.

When new situations are met, the information and knowledge are quickly accumulated in this way, so that the current situation can be handled well.

The more direct, the more effective. For example, to judge with interest--to identify what interests the other party wants, and to know how to deal with it suddenly.

This whole method needs to keep up with the times and accumulate. Because sometimes, in an inherently way, you can't get information about a new situation. For example, in the past when I was dealing with someone and I couldn't understand it, I would ask someone directly what was going on? Now, is this going to work?

(2) Thanks for the thanks.

This is a must. But remember, it's up to you to do it. Not the slaves of others.

Second, the hypocrisy of human society.

Human nature has a greedy side. People, in the face of their own desire for happiness, happiness, important sense, self-confidence, is very greedy, good camouflage, hypocrisy, where the bloody scramble for their own, this is the hypocrisy of people.

All these sins are not to die. But it is inexcusable to deceive others. You have no obligation to tell me the truth, you go more than you want. I have no obligation to forgive, and my pain is not yours to bear.

So who's real? Hypocrisy, hypocrisy, want to fight for anything, this is called real.

But in this sense, it does not matter sincerity. Before the so-called sincerity, is based on mutual understanding of the truth, the same rules of doing things, each other's hearts have a tacit understanding of the foundation. Feel like each other, laughing with each other understand that this is true. Each other can have the same interests, understand each other, this is true to each other.

Well , now give the real next definition: mutual understanding, acceptable, beneficial work style, is true.

And the strength of each other, the means of the same degree of people together, that for each other, it is not true. For people with different values, it is not true. Moreover, today's society has changed, not already, but for thousands of years, and so on.

What is real? is mutual benefit, can carve up the benefits together, it is a tacit understanding, is true. The mainstream media, written against the gang doctrine, but opposed to what, what is true. The real situation is that human society is the collective and collective interests between the partition, who survived who is the victor.

Of course, there is compassion in this world. But in the face of competition, human society is the fact that the collective and collective interests between the partition, is the gang doctrine. If you have the power, then history is written by you, and compassion is on who. You have to kill the others first, and live well. Do not need to pay attention to other things, if on their own ability to go up, then kill the people who stop, I myself? Why are you blocking me? The reason for compassion is that it is done with compassion, which is the final result. So, just kill the competitor, focus on the ability to play well.

Everyone, but to live in a balance. If someone bothers you to concentrate on your studies, then kill them.

Now the logical order is done. 1, go up, live well. 2, compassion. Compassion is a result, based on a good living. Who finally survives, does compassion, who is merciful, this is history written by the victor. Lofty ideals, only need to go up, to kill all interruptions, all waste of time. First of all, you live well.

Human society, this is hypocrisy.

Third, the reality of hypocrisy

1, the reality of the unilateral.

No matter how beautiful the literary works are. That's not true. No matter how good the psychology books are written, there is a certain one-sidedness. The book, is the past people, wrote in the past. Not all human beings have written. To put it simply, the next second may not work. It has to go through practice to see if it's OK. From this point of view, a lot of text, are one-sidedness. Still have, very childish, even some, hypocrisy extremely.

Life, this is to seize freedom, live on their own to be impeccable. To be the truth, not to appease and give up, and not to doubt about yourself. On the other hand is the details of the treatment, how to better express the extreme feelings, Thanksgiving or intentions, let others accept, this is the accumulation of knowledge problems, need to learn. Simply put--just two points (1) of Truth (2) knowledge. Other, what to appease and give up, is to deceive, unable to play the ability of the people, for the service of others.

There is no denying that some people will use the knowledge for other purposes, the person has changed unchanged, is the result of natural selection, what people's own reasons, family, social reasons, are one-sided. My understanding is that natural choice, selection.

Disguise the ugliness of human nature. Good and comfortable, happy, in fact, is the measure of all standards, only the advantage to live, this is the only standard. Others, however, are mere use and hypocrisy, understandable but not forgiving.

2, on their own can not be picky.

Human society, this is hypocrisy. It is important to be alive that the interests of different gangs are partitioned together to be advantageous. Need to be thankful that the opportunity that others give, is the opportunity that the person in the circle gives, is to walk with the person around, is and own interest group peaceful. Regardless of profit together, live their own life, this is the meaning of living. People, on their own, that should be allowed. By others and disguised, that is hypocrisy.

On your own people, do not have a second suspicion of yourself, because it is impeccable. Desperate for their own lives, do what they want to do, people are for the benefit of, if for the other have a second hesitation, that can only be said to see not clear hypocrisy, see drive the truth, stupid. The fact is, each by each, with their own in exchange for their own happiness, as long as the best you can do, on their own people, impeccable. If you live, you can play as much as you would have if you were on your own. On their own words, what to do, do not have to be asked by others, but to do their own things. Don't bother with other people.

3, can do. is to rely on their own, live out of their own, as much as possible.

Care about the people around you, and like-minded people together. You can do it with people in your circle. But remember, rely on yourself, choose for yourself, try to do good.

Everything can be thrown away, just do the right things to do now.

To be, not to deceive and compromise. To be, is the truth.

Iv. Sources of writing

From childhood, there is no difference between poor students and eugenics, no thinking. In many cases, I am a subjective judge, do not care, an accident. But things have changed, and it is true.

Now, a lot of people are taking part in the job. I don't know what the situation is.

Don't repeat it. New approaches are readily available whenever new situations are to be faced.

Breakthrough Fixed Thinking 2