There are many factors of destiny, but what is the key to the fate of the first? You may not be able to guess. The answer is: spouse, the person you often sleep with.
Most people have a bad fate because they find someone who can destroy him. Fornicated not able to open the pancake shop to the whole song chain, a very important reason is that Pan Jinlian bring him destruction.
Also, half of those who have bad fortunes are finding a sleeper who will inspire him.
Your bedside person, the impact on your fate is too critical, because you 50% of the achievements in the hands of the people around you, even if he (she) do nothing, he (she) can "Hypnotize" you.
The person who sleeps beside you is either to destroy you or to be your motivational teacher.
From day to night, from night to day, everyday, year after year, his or her expectations for you, and what you say, are deeply imprinted on your subconscious mind and ultimately determine the success or failure of your life!
Buddhist Life-Companion