Cannot be an assistant for a lifetime

My sophomore cousin called me and said that my college life is boring and I don't know how to handle it. He doesn't want to pick up a girl because "the time hasn't arrived yet". In his heart, he secretly thinks that he should do something, so he doesn't waste his youth, but does not know what to do.

I know that this kid has always been a good boy and has always had perseverance. Otherwise, the College Entrance Examination in Hubei cannot enter the current national key point. I asked him about his study and living conditions. He said that the living expenses provided by his family are sufficient and he does not need to go out to work. Although I cannot earn a scholarship for my academic achievement, it is not good. I am tired of reading books and participating in some clubs in my spare time.

I told him about the interns I 've brought and the assistants I 've worked with over the years.

a recent graduate I brought three years ago. A big boy, hai gui, 1 M 85, pretty handsome, blushing with a smile. I asked him to move his seat to me, arrange work at any time, and teach him some professional knowledge. In my impression, he seldom asked me questions. I asked him for him, then teach him. I don't care about this either, because I have seen more recent graduates. If the day is so plain, then I will make a medium evaluation at the end of his internship. One day, however, one thing happened and ended his internship in the company early.

that morning, I went to the office to open my computer, however, the host does not respond. I don't know what's going on, so I squatted on the ground and shook the host. At this time, the boy said, "elder sister, I am not familiar with the computer, so I can't help you ." I looked up at him. he blushing in a regular manner and looked very bad. I asked him to borrow a screwdriver from the Administration Department downstairs and I took a look at the chassis. He quickly ran down and came over a few minutes later and asked, "elder sister, if you want plum blossom, it's still flat ." I was surprised to take a look at him. If I were him, I either brought all the screwdrivers of several models, or brought exactly what I needed, after all, it's far from going downstairs to the Administration Department. I said, "The Administrative Computer Host is of the same model as ours. You can check it out ." He ran down again and got the screwdriver back. Because it was inconvenient for my high heels, I put my shoes off and squatted on the ground to split the machine case. Wearing a short skirt that day, I was not very eager to directly kneel on the ground to do these things. I really hope that he can build his hand and then watch him with the light. He stood up very awkwardly, and his hands and feet did not know where to put it. I opened the chassis and found that the hard disk was loose. After the hard disk was tightened, it was normal to start up. With a sigh of relief, it is hard to reset the chassis. He kindly asked: "is the computer ready ?" I put on my shoes and replied, "Okay, let's keep the screwdrivers !" In fact, what I want to say is: "Why do I have to say something if I know the consultant! Although work is not divided between men and women, I am a lesbian and your boss. I took off my high heels and kneel down on the ground to split the machine box. After the split, I made every effort to move to the bottom of the table to restore my position, once upon a time, you stood by and didn't help you. If you use one "no", you will be taken off. If you don't say that you are a colleague, you are unqualified. At least as a man, you are unqualified, because you have always been a "Little Boy ".

the lead asked me how he was doing. I said that I want to get started with my job within three months. I am not sure about this child. The company dismissed him of course. When he left, he asked me, "elder sister, I arrive at the company half an hour in advance every morning and get off work half an hour later. I will take the initiative to help you clean the table and pour water for you, why don't you tell the company to let me stay?" I told him that many books telling new employees about getting to work early and getting off work late. However, these are just forms. If you cannot make your work smooth during work hours, all your time will be wasted; nowadays, there are basically aunts in the company who clean tables every day, so you don't have to do this. Help me pour water, you don't do it, and my assistant will do it too, this should be, not as one of your work assessments. He reluctantly pleaded, "I just want to find a good Unit to study, but I don't want to pay. You can help me tell the leaders ." I looked at this simple child and sighed. I said, "Even if you don't pay, the company will pay for it. For example, if one of my responsibilities is to bring new people, part of my salary is the cost of bringing new people. You did not get the money, but the company paid me, which is also the cost of the company to hire you. In addition, the computer you use is an asset, and the loss is costly, plus free lunch, coffee and fruit, and toilet paper. These are all small money, but they add up a lot. In addition, the company's personnel are compiled. If you leave behind, the number of interns will be less than one. The company has been measuring for a long time and does not want to waste such a place. Do you know ?" He nodded rather than understanding it. Although he did not want to, he had to leave without any help.

My cousin interjected and said, "If I went to a company for an internship, it would not be like him ."

I smiled: "That's hard to say. The problem he encounters is that he will not repair the computer. Who knows that you will not meet at that time ."

The cousin said, "If not, there is no way ."

I said, "I will tell you another intern. you may understand this ."

Another intern is a girl who graduated from Fudan University. The girl is shorter than me and thinner than me. The girl had a few habits. She never asked me questions in the morning. She gave me a list one hour before she got off work. The list lists things she didn't know that day. There were not many questions, about three or four. One day I asked her why she asked questions every day. She said: "You have a lot of work to do from morning till night. If I interrupt you halfway, it will affect your work progress. Almost all your work will be handled soon after work, at this time, the question will be more appropriate." I asked, "What are you doing all day ?" She said: "reading books, Baidu. If you have any questions or professional terms that you don't understand in the book, you will be asked by Baidu first. This will not waste your time. I can also think about it systematically ." I nodded with approval and said, "Baidu is more comprehensive than me most of the time, but Baidu sometimes fails. After all, work is flexible and unexpected ." After a while, she asked me to bring her whenever I go out for a meeting or meet a customer. I didn't ask why, because I know that the more I contact the customer, the more I can understand the customer's needs, and the more I can work. When we go out for a meeting, I often need to bring my laptop or projector. My laptop is usually accompanied by an accompanying male colleague. I hold a relatively light projector myself. Since she followed the meeting, she took the initiative to take the projector. Sometimes her male colleagues don't go. She takes the notebook and the projector in one hand. She refused to give me a try. She joked: "elder sister, you will be brave enough to fight with the customer later. You need to save your strength ." One and a half months later, I gave her a very urgent but not very important job. It was a survey report. The report was very in-depth, but took a long time. I sent it to her the morning before, let her give it to me at noon the next day. I have estimated the time. It's okay for an intern to work for 8 hours. Early the next morning, she handed me the report. I casually said, "This early ." She smiled embarrassingly: "Give it to you early, and you should submit your comments for modification so that I can give you a better report at noon ." I smiled and opened the report. To be honest, I did a very good job with the skill of an intern. What's even more rare is that she included a lot of pictures in the PPT and carefully arranged the version. I asked her what time she had done last night, and she said with a red face: "More than 11 o'clock ". I nodded and said nothing. When her internship period was over, I turned to her and asked the company to pay her a salary. Later, she stayed in the company, and her position quickly rose. Now, it is said that she has started to bring new people.

The cousin said, "You want to say that you must take the initiative to do things seriously, right? But what does this have to do with my questions ?"

I said, "You should not only take the initiative seriously, but also think a step forward so that you can do more and develop more quickly than others. As for why I want to tell you the two cases, because they are all fresh graduates! In the next two years, you will also go their way. Their starting point is the same, but their ending points are completely different. In your opinion, they can only be simply summarized as character determines fate. Not only that in my opinion. There are a few other words before the phrase 'character determines destiny. 'thinking determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determines character, and character determines fate '. All problems are ultimately ideological issues, that is, the way of thinking. After thinking about it and doing it, you will naturally have accumulated experience and become a habit. This habit will naturally affect your life. Don't think that a job is a question you think about after graduation. It's too late to think that way. Do not want to learn, but do not know what to learn. People have lived for a lifetime. They don't know much about things, and they also want to learn things! Two ways to improve are the fastest. One is reading a book, and the other is chatting with people who are smarter than you and better than you ."

My cousin asked, "What books should I read? How can we find people who are smarter than me and better than me ?"

I said: "People must be knowledgeable, so they should read more professional books besides professional knowledge. If you want to separate them, start with philosophy and history! As for social networking, this is mutual. To what extent do you do, what kind of people will naturally attract. You are not good. There are no topics for others to chat with, and there is no depth for you to chat with others. It is a waste of time ."

My cousin asked why he wanted to look at philosophy and history. I said: "Philosophy makes people learn to think, and history makes people familiar ."

My cousin asked, "Have you ever come here like this ?"

I said yes, and at that time I also did a lot of work at the same time, for example, generating accounts for the company and writing articles for the magazine. My cousin joked: "You are a woman. At that time, you didn't want to find a good man to marry, but you were so busy ."

I laughed: "I am energetic and don't delay it !"

I told him: "If you meet a good girl, you still need to fall in love. Not to mention whether university feelings are the most pure, but at least dating also requires experience. In this respect, we must never have a short board. Otherwise, even if your career is successful in the future, you will only be able to fall into the loser of your feelings ."

He understood everything and asked him what else to explain. I said, "I want to tell you about my current assistant ."

This is a 37-year-old woman with more than half of my salary. She is not married, has no children, and has a small apartment in this big company. I never cook and love to go to a nightclub. Unfortunately, my eyes are full of wrinkles. I told her to write a Commission Application Form for the clerk. There are eight typos for the four hundred-Word application, and one sentence is not fluent, because she is much older than me and an old employee of the company, if I don't want to scold her directly, I will ask her to change it one by one in front of her. When I was about to send an email to the lead, I found that the file name still had a typo. The "Commission" was written as "hug ". I gave her a speechless look and did not speak. She was embarrassed to say: "If this is sent to the leadership, the leadership should not go crazy ." I said, "Pay attention next time ." I didn't say much.

I asked my cousin, "do you know why I didn't tell her ?"

My cousin asked, "Is it because she is older than you ?". I said, "I am not sorry, but the first half of her life has been mixed up like this. Mixing has become a habit and it will be very difficult to change it. She is just an assistant, and basic work is complete. I will only tell her to take it seriously and check it several more times. I will not say anything more. Because it is useless ."

My cousin said, "I want to say this to me. Do you want to say that teenagers do not work hard? Is it sad to be a boss ?"

I said, "Yes, 20 don't work hard, 30 do assistants, 40 do assistants. Can't people always work as assistants all their lives ?"

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