Colleague relationship mouth must magnanimous big _ life Health

Tiangagen (a hotel staff in Shenzhen): As the saying goes: mouth, tongue. So, when I work, I try to do more and talk less. This allows you to accumulate more work experience, and can let busy work to wash away the extra time, avoid boredom, gossip about other people's right and wrong. Even in the work, I never anticipate to colleagues, but who is not, the heart naturally clear. Colleagues have been together for a long time, it is inevitable to knock knock, such as trivial matters, I never dispute. Even if I met my colleagues to slander me, framed. I only take this kind of unpleasant as the spider silk as gently erase, because I firmly believe that the body is not afraid of the shadow crooked, the incident eventually has the day to get to the bottom. For those who have hurt my colleagues, as long as the storm has passed, never brooding, not to say "gold without pure, no one is perfect." Forgive and forgive is the wisest choice. And I often ask myself. Do I have a fault? A little more introspection, give a person happy, give oneself convenient. If this attitude to deal with the relationship between colleagues how to ask for bodyguards escort, and how to be dealt with by beating?

A little more tolerance and understanding

Tan Weihui (Shenzhen Longhua Town company): I told a story of "Three feet":

In ancient times, a prime minister's housekeeper was going to build a backyard, hoping to leave a three-foot alley outside the garden, but the neighbor was a squire, he said it was his turf and was resolutely opposed to mending the alley. The housekeeper immediately edits the capital, see the Prime Minister after replying to the housekeeper gave up the original plan, the Squire quite surprised, determined to see the Prime Minister's reply, the original Prime Minister wrote a poem: Thousands of miles home only for the wall, let him three feet and why, the Great Wall of today, not the Qin Shihuang The squire deeply moved, the initiative lets the ground three feet, the last three feet lane becomes six feet lane.

Tolerance is the dew, it can hatchet, if colleagues more tolerant and understanding, colleagues will not be so difficult.

Keep the right distance from your co-workers

Liu Yuemei (company staff): There used to be a colleague, a few years older than me, I always treat her as an elder sister, what the truth is said to her. Did not expect the year-end evaluation advanced, has always thought that the performance of a good she actually did not comment on, so she is convinced that I am the director of personnel in charge of the little girl to tamper with, let me how to explain her do not believe, since then we both form the same stranger. Soon, the company has a lot of my rumors, I really angry, every day is crying, do not know how to clarify their own.

Later, I had to switch to a new unit. Now, my colleagues and I only talk about work, do not talk about life, work on time, leave work on time, colleagues who do not understand my private life, but everyone is very respectful of me, because my ability to work is not bad. I finally understand that many colleagues are not fit to be friends. To maintain a certain distance from colleagues, is the most beautiful.