Cultivate self-cognition

From: http://www.globalrencai.com/step-one-to-cultivating-your-image-develop-self-awareness/

The biggest obstacle to building your professional image is to cultivate self-cognition. According to research, people have limited understanding of themselves, so it is very difficult to achieve this.

Our opinions on ourselves are usually different from others' impressions on us. First, we tend to regard our behaviors as responses to the external environment. People always say, "I yell at him because he is in a hurry ." Second, we will always find excuses to excuse ourselves. For example, "I yelled at him because I had a bad time today. I usually don't ."

We may not associate our occasional bad temper with our character, but others may judge you for one outbreak.

I have a deep understanding of this. In particular, on behalf of my customers, I need to perform word-of-mouth verification on my headhunting targets.. What we do is a 360-degree comprehensive verification, which means we have to call the verification object's former bosses, colleagues, subordinates, and so on. Our investigation is very in-depth, not only to check whether the object has the results he said, but also to know how he has achieved these achievements, that is, their usual way of working. This is because the company culture is very important. For our customers, it is critical to select leaders that conform to the company's identity and values. Our word-of-mouth verification always exposes many problems. it's not because our verification object hides the way they work, it is because many people do not realize what their behaviors have impressed others.

Cultivating objective cognitive abilities can make you take a huge advantage in your career development. Therefore, we should try our best to cultivate this ability. You can let trusted colleagues supervise you and pay special attention to the reactions of others to you. Always remind yourself that your behavior determines your image and people. Not only will your intentions and hopes be judged by others, but your behavior will also become an important basis for others to evaluate you.

However, it is not so easy to cultivate accurate self-cognition. No one is as intelligent, generous, and impressive as he expected. But once we learn to face ourselves objectively, we can begin to change our behavior and become the kind of person we want to be.

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The brain makes decisions, depending on the subconscious. Subconscious is an experience gradually formed by a person in the process of growth and experience. People often make decisions without thinking. Experience is not absolutely reliable. Therefore, we need to deeply understand ourselves. How? What the ancients said: this is the truth about the three provinces of Japan. I often think differently. I can look at myself from the perspective of a bystander and find the cause from myself in case of problems, and gradually deepen my understanding of myself.

This cognitive ability can also make yourself more "Understanding" (the importance of understanding mentioned in another article ). The so-called "know yourself and know him" should be the truth.