Cultivation of men

I. self-confidence and demeanor

When a man is in his twenties, he will begin to learn how to manage himself. It is embodied in his own thoughts and cultivation. Confidence is the most important quality for a man. A confident man is like a seagull fighting in the storm. What seagull has to say is "Let the storm come more violently", just because it is fearless. A confident man can always infect others, whether they are friends or enemies. To make others have confidence in you, you must first have confidence in yourself. Confident men can overcome all difficulties.
A handsome man is like a sea. If you have a demeanor that gives men more favor, you can only look at the world and benefit others. As we call it, a man with a heart like a sea may not know how many ships he can support! Styles make men look amazing.

2. develop the habit of reading and writing

When men are in their twenties, they begin to enter the society. In the process of communicating with others, talking and cultivation are the best way to conquer others. A man with knowledge must read books and a wise man must write books. No matter how busy you are, take the time to read and write articles. This can change a man's thoughts and behaviors. The first thing a man needs to do to change his mind is to read a good book. reading a book is like making a good friend. He can help you better yourself. The life of reading is the most colorful, and the time of writing is the most enlightening wisdom.
A man who likes reading and writing can cultivate a good attitude. Because the ocean of knowledge and wisdom is boundless, but men who like reading and writing can persistently pursue it. The pursuit is a man's thought and action. He never gives up and never gives up. He is always motivated to fight. In this battle, a man can grow into a towering tree through the baptism of the storm. Reading makes men calm, and writing makes men mature.

3. Try to discover the truth, goodness, and beauty in your life.

When a man is in his twenties, he must learn how to face life. What is "true"? Today's men are getting increasingly ignorant, because today's men are very impetuous and they don't know what is "true" to live. "True" means seeking truth from facts for yourself. Do not lie to yourself or others. "True" means being honest and doing things. Honest men are the most cute. "Good" means kindness. To treat others well is to treat your life well. "Good" is actually around us. Don't embarrass others, don't dig for others, don't insult others, or be kind. Sometimes your little kindness can produce a good result and make your life happy.
The philosopher said, "There is no beauty in life, but what is missing is the eyes that Discover Beauty ". Yes, so does life. Do not always remember your misfortune. Doing so can only make your life more unfortunate. You feel "unfortunate" because you cannot face life optimistically, and life is always full of hope. As long as you raise your head and look at the sun, you can feel the warmth. In the warmth of optimistic pursuit of a beautiful life, You can naturally find the beauty.

4. Make friends with thoughtful people

When a man is in his twenties, he is about to start to choose a friend purposefully. Social networking is very important, and your circle of friends will have a great impact on your life. Men need to make friends, make friends more, and do not make friends. Friends are friends who are helpful to you, and these people are always excellent. It is very beneficial for a person to live and work. But true friends are not easy to make, because such friends require you to make a great deal of sincerity, from the heart of sincerity.
A thoughtful friend knows whether you treat him as a friend. If you are only using him, he will not treat you as a friend in his heart. Sometimes there is no purpose to make friends. You just think that this person is very thoughtful and worthy of your intersection. But it is often these thoughtful friends who reach out to you in the most difficult time. Friend is one of the most important elements in a man's life. If a man wants to make himself as a real man, he must make more friends.

5. You must get rid of your bad habits.

When a man is in his twenties, he must get rid of his bad habits. Bad habits are developed, and good habits are also developed. Cultivate yourself to have good habits, that is, to get rid of your bad habits. If a man is in his twenties and has such bad habits, it is a very bad thing. These bad habits will hinder the development of your life, and your life will lose a lot of luster, and your career will be difficult to achieve even greater success.
If you are still sleepy, the first sunshine in the morning will never shine on your smiling face. If you are still dragging your feet until now, you will never be able to stand in the championship position. If you do not take the initiative to study and work now, your future will only be a dark gray. I believe that no man wants a gray life, and all men want to have a colorful life. So in order to make your life colorful, a man must get rid of his bad habits when he is in his twenties.

6. Learn patience and tolerance

When a man is in his twenties, he must learn patience and tolerance. There are many unacceptable things in society, but when you have to accept these things, you need patience. Being patient with others is actually tolerating others. A man who can tolerate others is very generous. A successful man is often a man who can bear the humiliation. A man who can withstand loneliness never gets lonely, but his patience is for a better outbreak.
To those who say we are dummies, say "I am dummies", so that they are at a loss! Don't argue with those who accuse us for no reason, because this will only make you angry. It is better to tolerate others than to hurt others. tolerance is the best panacea for treating others' wounds.

7. Maintain a good attitude and pay attention to your own health

When a man is in his twenties, he must learn to adjust his own mentality and pay attention to his health. The body is the capital of the revolution, and the mentality is the money detector. If a man wants to gain more wealth, he must have a strong physique. If a man wants to become the richest man for a long time, he must have a positive and optimistic attitude. Pay attention to diet, regular exercise, and adequate sleep are the guarantee of Healthy Health. Do not suffer losses, work hard, let the mentality decide everything.
You don't have to go to the morning run every day. In fact, it won't take you long. What you need is perseverance and perseverance. But you must exercise regularly. Walking is a good choice, which will make you feel full of strength. You don't need to take a bath in the winter. In fact, that's no big deal, because I have insisted on a winter. However, you must wash your face with cold water frequently in winter. This will not only prevent colds, but also maintain a clear mind. You can fail, but you will always have to maintain a winning mentality. If you defeat yourself, you will have no enemies.

8. Always keep your smile and make courtesy your business card

When a man is in his twenties, always keep your smile. Smiling faces show that you are a kind person and everyone is willing to deal with kind people. Don't write down your experience on your face. This will only keep others away from you. What kind of person are you, and others judge whether you smile and greet him. This kind of judgment plays an important role in your impression on others.
People often say that "Details determine success or failure", and the details are often reflected in whether you are a polite person. A polite person who cares about others. Others will give you a chance to succeed because of your courtesy and concern. A man's business card is smiling and polite. It is a pass for a man to make a career.

9. Pursuing a woman you really love will never regret

When a man is in his twenties, he will soon become eager for love. This is a very normal thing. Never suppress this kind of emotion from the heart. The most silly and lovely time for a man is when he falls in love with a woman. When you fall in love with a woman but don't know if she will fall in love with you, you must choose the right time to confess to him. As for whether he chooses to accept or reject it, it depends on your fate and your efforts. A man must understand that what a woman desires most is a man who loves her deeply.
Love cannot be forced, and men must understand it. Do not make your friendship easy to lose because you cannot get your love. It is a rare thing to become friends with a woman you once loved. The reason why love is sacred is that it is the most willingly choice of people. It reflects the respect and trust between people. Therefore, a man must respect the choice of the girl you love and believe that her choice is made for her own happiness. As long as you pursue a woman you really love, you will never regret it.

10. Do everything for your own career

When a man is in his twenties, he must work hard for his own career. The most important thing for a man is his career. A man without a career cannot be regarded as a real man. A man's career may not be vigorous, but he must make achievements to make himself proud and proud. A man with strong professionalism is also a man with the same ambition and sense of responsibility. A man who is eager to win is never mediocre. A man with a strong sense of responsibility never fears difficulties. A man is advanced in his own successful career, so as to gain the respect and trust of others.
As a man, he has to do everything for his own career. If you want to succeed, you have to pay, and you have to lose something. If you don't want to pay for your career, you can only lose more things and get nothing at last.
11. Love and career can be shared

When men are in their twenties, they should strive to achieve a good harvest of love and career. It is often said that a man will lose his career if he chooses love. I don't think so. Instead, I think that the more sweet a man is, the more successful his career is. In fact, love and career are two different things. A man who is passionate about love will not hinder his success. A man with love and nourishment must be more mature, attractive, and determined to do his career than a man without knowing what love is.
Men in their twenties should never trust what radical people say. As people often say, "Marriage is the grave of Love" is too radical. The difference between marriage and love is only a bit more "rice, oil, and salt". It can be said that marriage is a kind of love, and the previous love is only in a phase of love. Only through marriage can men and women fully understand what love is. Love is mutual understanding, mutual encouragement, and mutual support. They help each other in their lives, and help each other in their careers, so that love and career can have a good harvest.

12. Be sure to work better than women

When a man is in his twenties, he must strive to do better than a woman in anything. Even if it is impossible to do something better than a woman, it is as good as a woman. Here, we do not want to say that a man is born better than a woman, but that a man is born better than a woman. As long as a woman works hard, it is easy to surpass a man. Therefore, a man must know that it is wise to work better than a woman. In today's society, women are getting higher and higher. For the first time, women have the right to choose men. So if you are a man, you cannot do better than a woman, then why do women choose you?
Women often say that "Women can top half the sky", and now women are better at what they do in some areas where they are men. Therefore, men must not only do well in their own field, but also do equally well in their own field.

13. Strive to help her wife realize her dream
When a man is in his twenties, if you are married, please try your best to help your wife realize her dream. People say that "Men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men", so a woman who has conquered you must try to conquer the world for her. A woman's dream never disappears because she lives with a man, but becomes stronger. A woman's strong desire and dream may not appear in front of you, but you must understand it.
The wife is the core of a man's life. whether his wife is happy or not must be concerned. Do not assume that your wife is here to serve you. Every man's wife cares about his husband, and every man must learn to care about his wife. The most important thing about a wife is to care about what her dream is. How can we help her realize her dream.

14. Learn to be brave and take responsibility for yourself

When a man is in his twenties, he must learn to be brave and shoulder his responsibilities. Filial Piety is a man's responsibility, loving his wife and children is a man's responsibility, and achieving his career is also a man's responsibility. The responsibilities of men are nothing more than family and career. These responsibilities are indeed heavy, but as a man, you must shoulder your shoulders. There is no reason, just because you are a man.
Men have the same power to cry, but they have no power to cry. Men have the same power to shed tears, but they have no power to shed tears in front of their parents and children. Men have the same power to give up, but they do not have the power to give up their family and career responsibilities. As a man, you have no choice but to shoulder it.

15. Never give up on yourself. Believe that you can do it.

When a man is in his twenties, he must never give up on himself. The reason why others give up on you is that you have already given up on yourself. I believe that as long as you don't give up on yourself, no one will give up on you or no one will give up on you. Believe that you are the source of a man's victory over all power, and do not believe that his man has no reason for success, because his foot has reached the grave of failure.
There is an advertisement saying "Believe in yourself, strength in your heart ". There is another advertisement saying "I Can ". Yes, I think, I also believe that as long as every man can believe in himself, you can do it.