Dad growth diary-birth

Soon after December July, I found that I had not written anything for more than a month. How is it? It's actually just lazy. Even in the days when I was just a father, I still had a lot of time and energy to record something, but I was never able to write down my mind. If you do not record important moments in your own lives, you may regret it in the future...
According to the plan, we should record the baby's arrival in this world and the growth process in stages. I also recorded my experiences as my baby grew up. Let's record the most intense time, that is, the day when the baby came to this world.
The baby's due date is July 22, July 2. He always thinks that he will be born in advance, and his wife asks for leave for work at home for half a month in advance. But when he waits for the left and right, he will not see the little guy, every time I went to the hospital for an exam, I was eager to hear the doctor say that he was in the basin, but I didn't have it every time. Every time I felt like I was getting down with the height of my palace. My mom doesn't know where to hear it. She said that the baby born in January is better, and her eyes are stuck in the last few days of August. Grandma's heart is so anxious.
The theme of telling a story to the baby every night has also become an education for the baby. He is advised to come out early, and he does not know whether the prenatal education has taken effect or why, the baby was born unexpectedly in July 1. It was an accident, mainly because I did not expect it to be so fast. The morning of June 30 was originally reviewed because the amniotic fluid was found to be less frequently during the examination on June 1, June 27. The doctor said that the review would be performed on June 1, June 30. As a result, the amniotic fluid was found to have risen from 81 to 118 (if the stock market also rose so far, I am afraid that people throughout the country will laugh and die ), I don't know if the astragalus water I drank in those days has taken effect, or is it because there was no drinking water before the June 27 check, which caused the error?
Although the amniotic fluid is okay, during fetal heart monitoring, we found that the contractions occurred three times in half an hour. In fact, my wife felt a stomachache when she got up early in June 30, because this phenomenon has lasted for more than half a month, so she didn't care much about it. Therefore, the doctor recommended hospitalization observation, but also want to occupy a bed as soon as possible.
According to my baby's experience of "never raining", I think it will take at least a few days to get started in July 1. So I moved to the hospital for a long time, and sent my grandmother to go home to have a rest. I also went to work during the day, but that night the situation began.
First of all, at and, the pains became frequent and severe. Once every 10 minutes, at, it became very frequent. It was better to lie down, it takes three or four minutes to stand up. At, it had a terrible pain. I called the nurse to check and said that I had opened 2 fingers. I wanted to prepare for the delivery room. The baby was coming. Prepare chocolate, milk, and eggs as soon as possible. Although it hurts and does not want to eat anything, you have to put it into your stomach to have enough fighting power.
On October 16, July 1, the three fingers are opened at AM. Because B-ultrasound is expected to give birth to the baby, the doctor said that his wife should be able to give birth to his own shape, the hospital encourages normal production, and his wife also wants to give birth to his own, so there is no hesitation to choose a normal production. Because the hospital allows and encourages family members to accompany the production, the hospital handed in 180 to the production room to "experience" the feeling of childbirth (the hospital had to earn money, benefit maternal production, and gain a reputation ). At first, my wife was trying to endure the pain. From the first 2 to the later, the whole process became more and more painful. Although I couldn't understand it, however, according to the contractions index displayed on the instrument, it is more and more frequent and violent. I didn't want to use narcotic drugs, but my wife couldn't help it. I finally chose to play the "analgesic pump" (this should be the word) at the time of the 8-Finger attack. In total, I spent more than 60 yuan in medical expenses, but it will charge 580 of the anesthesia fee, the anesthesiologist should be very rich. It is said that 80% of people chose this option.
After anesthesia, the effect is obvious, and the pain is much reduced. My wife even took a rest on the production platform. At the end of the day, the midwife started to guide his wife to work hard. With each contractions, she squeezed out the baby. In this process, my wife worked very hard to follow the words of the midwife. She was really touched and distressed and could not help her to make herself sad. The whole process was accompanied by only one midwife, who had a mother who had been in the delivery room earlier than we had. A male doctor and two midwife helped her, and she kept shouting, I feel like my wife is really great. Although the midwife barely tried to help her (isn't anyone on TV pushing her ?), But the midwife is very encouraging and kind, chatting and guiding.
In this way, the baby finally arrived in the world one day before the due date. When my son heard the baby cry, he shouted "Baby, baby" and cried together. That scene is an unforgettable one.
Due to the fact that many babies have been born recently, the beds in the hospital are very tight. We planned to have them in the People's Hospital. When we were about to have them, the obstetrics department of the people's hospital was decorated, the baby will stay in the newly renovated room. If you want to come and decide not to take the risk, temporarily change to the city's maternal and child, and the room here is very tight, after the birth, a nurse says that there is no room in the postpartum ward (the city's maternal and child wards are separated from the postpartum Ward on different floors). Now, they can only stay in the prenatal Ward, we recommend that you stay in the VIP room (800 a day ). I have to say that this midwife is still quite good. Other nurses always want to fool us into spending money, but she can give good suggestions, saying that she can switch to the postpartum ward in the morning after waiting in the prenatal Ward.
The newborn baby is blue, but the blue fades quickly, revealing the original skin color, especially after the bath, only to show the baby's red, white, and white skin.
Maybe it's because of the full-term birth. The doctor didn't let us stay in the hospital any more, and we just drove us out of the hospital three days later. As for the days after birth, it is another story. Let's get here today. Finally, we need to mention that the total cost of childbirth in hospitals is 3300 + 180 + 640, which is about 4100. Thanks to my wife and baby for their support.