Deng Ba Number _ Life

According to Dr Dunbar, a British anthropologist, the total number of human relationships that each person can maintain is 148, rounded to 150, called "The Dunne number," and Andy Warhol says you are at least 15 stars, but that number should be 150 per cent.

No matter what the current qq,facebook,twitter,linkdedln and how smooth the game is to change a person's life, memory and the relationship between the world, people are still difficult to remove the attributes of emotional animals. "Chuang Kanto", "Go West", "Tin Shui Wai Day and night" do not stand up to express and sigh.

Because of the work, we are constantly making new friends, whether we are also trying to maintain regular meetings with our old friends. What's important is our Dunbar digital range of old friends, how many of us have not said a word in more than a year.

Many times, people encounter is a kind of fate, every day may meet many people, but most of you pass by, can stay in your memory, and there may be acquaintances, the highest probability may also only a few percent.

Encounter may not be able to meet, because the work of life circle, we have the opportunity to meet a lot of people, can be fortunate to become colleagues, friends, partners, or even just because of an accidental event with someone briefly .... No matter what acquaintance, is not an easy thing, the acquaintance is destined.

Acquaintances may not be able to know each other, in the fortunate acquaintance of the people, to know a few, the temperament of the people are not the same temperament, can also be able to appreciate each other has been very difficult, but also at the right time, and, therefore, to know is a rare fate, even if you can not Everyone looked back, no matter how long life, can have a friend with a handful of people. Old saying, life is a confidant enough, although a bit exaggerated, but life can have 35 confidant, really enough.

It's not always possible to have a friend, each person has a few bosom friends in his life, but many times, especially in the modern society, even the confidant, often because of work, life, family and other reasons, or apart, or too busy to take into account, time, geographical interval, different cultures and circumstances of the differences, will let the confidant also gradually alienated, The common language will be less, slowly the original confidant may gradually fade out of their own life. Therefore, can accompany the lifelong bosom friend to have 32 is very happy.

Even if it is destined to accompany may not be able to live together. Parents, siblings, husbands and wives are the easiest to keep their lives together, but people for the cause, in order to better the future, need to struggle, fight, sometimes people will give up the pursuit of life, but who can guarantee the life itself of the law is difficult to test it, so even the relatives of loved ones, can be accompanied by a lifetime together is very difficult, Not to mention a friend.

Therefore, people should know how to cherish every rare fate, whether it is a casual encounter with a stranger, or fortunate to work together to learn colleagues and classmates, or occasionally meet and can chat together all the road friends, and know companionship of life, their own relatives will not have to say, regardless of distance and closeness, can have this rare a margin, I do not know is a few generations of repair, we are extremely cherish, and strive to maintain, so that our life will be more exciting, we are really not in vain in this life.

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